Chris J's Journey

Chris & Chris ....

I had 2 years of HT (last injection of  Prostap last October) and I’d like to say I will never go back on but who knows the future. I was very lucky with the physical effects but not so lucky with the mental issues. It decimated my mind and I thank my wife and my counsellor for getting me through. I don’t need to reiterate what I’ve put on here previously about my mental struggle but I believe if you have underlying issues already the HT may exacerbate those. As the HT is wearing off I am feeling more positive and less sensitive and am dealing with my past better.

Unfortunately you can’t second guess how HT will affect you personally.

I’m sorry to sound like a downer for HT but that is my journey. I think it did the job regarding the cancer though so my consultant is happy.....

I do hope that some of the charity funding goes towards something better than just stopping/blocking Testosterone.

Best of luck to you two Chris’ and all the others in the same rickety old boat. Remember that you can try the different variations of HT to see what suits and also it’s possible to have ‘holidays’ if it’s doing the job at keeping the cancer at bay.

Phil

Oh Chris  I rarely post in your thread but have alway admired your outlook and decisions on dealing with this s**t disease.

I am sure Lyn and your closest friends on here will reply soon and give their advice and support. I feel really gutted for you.

Would you not consider the available treatments despite your reservations about the side effects. It's your decision of course but you could always try them and stop at any time if you can't bear them. I am sure you will make the right decision for you and wish you much more time to enjoy your life.

Ann x

Edited by member 05 Aug 2020 at 12:58  | Reason: Missed word

Dear Chris, You have helped and supported people, me included, giving your time, advice and a ‘ listening ear’ Whilst managing your own situation and demons, you have my utmost respect. What ever path you choose to take, thoughts are with you and your family. You’ve given so much here, discussing subjects openly that some would see as taboo, your posts have helped us as a couple regain our intimacy and it’s good.

Take care Chris, love to you and your family.

Leila 

So sorry to hear this Chris. Although you half expected it I’m sure it’s still a blow.

I won’t even attempt to suggest what you do. You’ve always taken your own path and it’s worked for you and you’ve been a source of inspiration to many of us.

Thinking of you and your lovely family .

Phil

CJ

A long way behind you but the HT choice is probably a year or two away for me. Your onco gave a grimm outlook if you do nothing, did he give you an outlook if you have HT ?

If you do have HT presumably you can stop it if you wish. My situation wasn't in my plan ,but most of us including our partners adapt to a new normal.

Thanks Chris

Chris,

I've followed your story since my arrival here, and admire you very much.

Hormone therapy impacts different people differently. It's something you could try, and back out of if you change your mind (although switching it off isn't necessarily quick). But I know you will consider the options carefully - you always have.

I'm wishing you all the best.