Hi Sanders,
I have no experience of non nerve sparing surgery, so can not advise whether you will get movement or development in due course?
But I understand and believe that it is important to maintain blood flow to the area somehow. That can be achieved in a number of ways, all involving manipulation of some sort. The most effective way to get blood going to the extremity of the region is to twirl it, I kid you not. Simple physics, and centrifugal force will move blood to the outside of the circle that you twirl. Imagine a dancers nipple tassels, not sure if "nipple tassles" will pass the censorship bot, so just to be sure tassles that you see on the end of an exotic (strippers) dancers breasts pointy bits, that should get through.
Grasp the base of your penis and twirl. Clockwise or anti clockwise, or should that be cockwise? What a dreadful pun. You should find that blood will flow to the end and it will colour up and become fuller.
I hear from a friend that this technique worked well for me! http://community.prostatecanceruk.org/editors/tiny_mce/plugins/emoticons/img/smiley-embarassed.gif Needs to be done regularly as you can. I was doing this pretty much as soon as my catheter was removed. Sorry "MY FRIEND" was doing this pretty much as soon as my catheter was removed. http://community.prostatecanceruk.org/editors/tiny_mce/plugins/emoticons/img/smiley-embarassed.gif
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Is a simple side-to-side ok Dave? I don't know what you're handling but I'm struggling with a swirl :-))
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Cheers Dave
Asked the better half to see if she was up for it and she went into a bout of laughter when she read your post.
But yeah will give it a go.
Sandy
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I know what you mean Chris, I'm strugging to put the tassle on.
Sandy
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Chris - depending on your particular circumstances, it may be that side to side oscillation is sufficient and adequate to stimulate blood to flow to the nether ends?
Sanders - the more weight you get at the end of your parts, the better. Weighted tassles? OR, your OH holding on and swinging from the end? Could she/he dress up Tarzan style and do the "WHOOOOAARRRR AARROOAAHH OOOHHHARRR" a bit like Tarzan did when swinging through the jungle on the always conveniently placed vines?
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Sanders
Chris J and Dave have given very good advice. As regards the tablets there is no harm in asking, I was "supposedly" non nerve sparring, at six weeks I got sildeafil from my ED guy the surgeon said it was a waste of time but at around 11 months post op and numerous stirrings the surgeon put me on daily sildeafil saying some nerves may have survived. At first the results were encouraging but the effects seem to be diminishing.
I use muse with good results.
All the best for your recovery.
Thanks Chris
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Separate out the issue of penile health and erections from the issue of learning to orgasm again. At 6 weeks post-op with no nerves spared, the best you can do is follow the advice above re encouraging blood flow into the penis - not particularly for the blood but for the oxygen it carries. But that doesn't mean you can't have any fun. John had his first orgasm on the day the catheter was removed - oral sex does not need an erect penis to produce a climax and hand masturbation is perfectly possible if you use loads of lube.
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Originally Posted by: Online Community MemberHi Sanders,
Simple physics, and centrifugal force will move blood to the outside of the circle that you twirl. Imagine a dancers nipple tassels, not sure if "nipple tassles" will pass the censorship bot, so just to be sure tassles that you see on the end of an exotic (strippers) dancers breasts pointy bits, that should get through.
Grasp the base of your penis and twirl. Clockwise or anti clockwise, or should that be cockwise? What a dreadful pun. You should find that blood will flow to the end and it will colour up and become fuller.
I hear from a friend that this technique worked well for me![img=http://community.prostatecanceruk.org/editors/tiny_mce/plugins/emoticons/img/smiley-embarassed.gif] Needs to be done regularly as you can. I was doing this pretty much as soon as my catheter was removed. Sorry "MY FRIEND" was doing this pretty much as soon as my catheter was removed. [img=http://community.prostatecanceruk.org/editors/tiny_mce/plugins/emoticons/img/smiley-wink.gif]
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Dave- this made my day. Only on the prostate cancer website forum would you find someone worried about whether 'nipple tassels' might pass censorship, but be completely unconcerned about 'twirling your penis cockwise'....
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;-)
Did not occur to me Louise.
dave
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Twerling update.,
As mentioned above i thought id give it a go but be careful, if you are still suffering incontinence you may have to repaint the bathroom ceiling!!!!!!
It does work with the blood rush to a degree combined with a Viagra im getting better results for sure, but i am considering apply for a pilot licence as i swear my feet left the ground at some point.
Thanks for that,
Johny