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User
Posted 03 Dec 2015 at 15:23

D

if you are into PFEs and have an android phone there is a good free app called prostate aerobics, you can set reminders and use the visual or audio prompts to assist with the contractions etc. it is available for IPhone but it is 73 pence.

Pleased to see you arte making a good recovery.

Thanks Chris 

 

User
Posted 03 Dec 2015 at 15:49

Thanks for the encouragement Chris as sometimes it doesn't feel like much progress from this side....l'll check out the app as it sounds interesting...

User
Posted 10 Dec 2015 at 16:51

Update 10/12 - 3 weeks from catheter removal and 5 weeks since the operation

Seem to be managing with 2 pads over a 24hr period, with the odd extra if I'm caught short or if it's particularly cold when I'm walking the dog. The Continence Care Service are arranging for a couple of months supply of the pads to be delivered as they seem to be significantly more comfortable than those issued by the hospital. PFEs continuing, if I look back over a week, I don't feel like there's been much progress but if I look back over 2-3 weeks, I can see I am progressing, you just need to take a longer term look at things.

The side effects of Cialis continue to become more manageable but still evident. Not enough for full penetration (where else would you discuss things like this with people you've never met? But it's so easy on here, isn't it?), but definitely more than horizontal...so we're pleased with the progress so far...

No date yet for my follow-up despite chasing, which is a little frustrating

User
Posted 10 Dec 2015 at 17:13

Glad things seem to be going in the right direction for you (no pun intended)

I know what you mean about the discussions on personal things. I would never have dreamt that I would be on a website having those talks with men I do not know (not that I have them with those men I DO know you understand !)

I don't tell John what we talk about I think he would be shocked so best not to tell him.  http://community.prostatecanceruk.org/editors/tiny_mce/plugins/emoticons/img/smiley-embarassed.gif  http://community.prostatecanceruk.org/editors/tiny_mce/plugins/emoticons/img/smiley-embarassed.gif  http://community.prostatecanceruk.org/editors/tiny_mce/plugins/emoticons/img/smiley-embarassed.gif

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User
Posted 10 Dec 2015 at 17:21

Five weeks ?? Erections ! Hope you bought the surgeon a bottle of wine cos believe me he deserves one.
Glad to hear things are continuing well for you
Chris

User
Posted 10 Dec 2015 at 19:29
Well done Duncan! It looks like you are going to make a good recovery in all areas - I am really pleased for you.

Wishing you all the best.

User
Posted 17 Dec 2015 at 15:24

Update 17/12 - 4 weeks from catheter removal and 6 weeks since the operation

Lesson for this week has been not to compare my recovery to that experienced by others, what is normal for me is definitely not normal for someone else, however frustrating it maybe when I read of others being dry from day one...and I have to remember that I may be in a better place than others....

Seem to be managing with 2 pads over a 24hr period, but I have had a couple of really bad days including one where I needed 5 pads...not a great day at all. mainly dry at night but I usually have a couple of trips, however I have had 2 nights this week with no interruptions which is progress. PFEs continuing.

The side effects of Cialis continue to become more manageable with headaches disappearing within 24hrs of taking the tablet. Still not enough for full penetration but we're pleased with the progress so far...

Still no date yet for my follow-up despite chasing, which is more than a little frustrating....

On the brigher side, been into work this week to catch up with folks (quite tiring actually but the change of scene was good), and heading out for lunch tomorrow for Christmas lunch with some of the guys...

D

User
Posted 17 Dec 2015 at 15:59

Enjoy your lunch and friends.
Sorry the continence not too gud but the ED sounds very rapid progress indeed. It's not easy is it , whatever you are left with ?!
Best wishes for Xmas
Chris

User
Posted 17 Dec 2015 at 19:09
Hi Duncan

Good to see you are fairing well.

Funny how different parts of the country operate, I had surgery a week past Monday and have a date of 16th Feb for follow up.

Stiches removed this morning but still have 1 drain bag fitted due to excess liquid in pelvic area hopefully will be removed next Tuesday

just need a date now for catheter removal.

Enjoy your night out.

Cheers.

User
Posted 14 Jan 2016 at 15:32

Afternoon all

Well 10 weeks since the surgery and I got to see the surgeon today (I ended up chasing as I'd not heard anything then I had to chase the blood tests)....PSA less than 0.1, Gleason score upgraded to 7 (4+3), cancer was in excess of 1/3 volume, clear margins throughout....so he reckons I'm 95%+ "cured", PSA tests every 3 months and he'll see me again in 9 months

Referred to the incontinence & ED clinics....and I'll be seeing them every 3 months

Incontinence - averaging 3 pads a day now, more on active days and less on quiet days. Took weights as requested, 418gms leakage over 24 hours...they reckon this this average (although at the bottom end of the range) and I'll continue to see improvements over the next 6-9 months. However, in the last couple of days there's been a big step forward in that im dry enough at night not to use pads....discussion re PFEs, they're firm believers in them and want me to do them regularly including a couple of new exercises.

ED - they're very pleased with progress so far but want to ramp things up and have asked my GP to prescribe a pump (a SOMAcorrect Xtra) so I'm seeing the GP on Tuesday....

Cycling - asked and was told leave it for 6 months after the op...but 10 mins on the exercise bike at the gym was OK...but no more....

Right, away to walk the dog before opening the champers....

D

User
Posted 14 Jan 2016 at 15:53

I'm so pleased for you Duncan . It must be lovely to have that "cured" comment !
I hope the incontinence gets better . Lots of talk of late on here about PFE's . I was extremely lucky on the continence front yet I just do them each day anyway . Its not a prob while I'm reading the paper or watching TV .
The SOMAerect is the pump I have , and despite zero natural recovery yet , we find the pump superb and fits our needs mostly tbh . PM me if you have any questions on its use etc . I was supplied super stretchy rings and told NOT to use the ones supplied with the pump as they are basically outdated . I have the prescription numbers for all the SOMA gear if you need them
Chris

User
Posted 14 Jan 2016 at 16:33

Thanks Chris, I may just take you up on your kind offer...I'm grinning from ear to ear at the moment....

User
Posted 14 Jan 2016 at 16:51
Hi Duncan,

Your outcome somewhat mirrors mine but I am coming up to 12 months since my op. The incontinence issue seemed to improve daily after the first couple of months. I ended up just wearing pads as a kind of safety net then one day thought I would go without. I had the odd accident but nothing to write home about and now very occasionally if I sit on a chair in position that presses on my under carriage I get a small drop. It is certainly nothing like the scary Trumpton fire engine effect I had when the catheter was removed. I had no control at all.

My surgeon is a really dry chap and when I asked him if I could ride a bike he just said ' could you ride one before'. I have not experienced any negatives from cycling.

Onward and upward.

Paul

THE CHILD HAS GROWN, THE DREAM HAS GONE
User
Posted 14 Jan 2016 at 16:52
Good news Duncan

Get the cork popped mate.

Not far behind you, got my catheter removed yesterday.

Still stinging when I pee but better out than in.

anyway you enjoy your night mate.

Sandy

User
Posted 14 Jan 2016 at 17:43

Lovely news Duncan

So pleased for you (and your missus of course !!)

We can't control the winds - but we can adjust our sails
User
Posted 14 Jan 2016 at 21:22
Duncan

happy news makes me smile ... a lot

get that cork popped and enjoy

Several good Men on this forum who can give you really good advice about that pump.

Cheers

xx

Mo

User
Posted 15 Jan 2016 at 17:39

Good news for the weekend Duncan.

http://urology.jhu.edu/newsletter/prostate_cancer52.php

I read this some time ago, a bit dated now, but gives a suggested prognosis of likely recovery or recurrence. The longer you go with steady PSA at less than 0.1 or virtually undetectable, the better. I think I recall a comment that PSA at less than (<) 0.1 are all okay. So <0.1 or <0.001 etc, all are good. Some readings fluctuate and that may be due to the Lab, or the machine at the Lab?

Have a great weekend celebrating.

dave

All we can do - is do all that we can.

So, do all you can to help yourself, then make the best of your time. :-)

I am the statistic.

User
Posted 13 Mar 2016 at 18:39

Evening all, quick update...

Back to work tomorrow, although to be fair, they were happy for me to stay off longer....phased over 6 weeks, 3 mornings this week, I think they're playing it VERY safe....

Update on other activities....I've had a couple of good days where I've only used 1 pad, daily average is 2.12 over the last 6 weeks.....

Use the pump twice daily, we have had some "success" without it though (big smiles all round)...

Still waiting for my clinic appointments and my next PSA test is due early April

Speak soon

D

User
Posted 13 Mar 2016 at 21:27
D

All the best for your return to work,depending on your type of work you may find concentrating on your work takes your mind of the leaks.

Thanks Chris

User
Posted 14 Mar 2016 at 06:36
D

Good that your company recognise the need for a gradual return to work, you may be surprised how much just the routine of it takes out of you.

As for the other elements of making a full recovery then it sounds like you are making good progress.

All the best

Xx

Mo

 
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