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Posted 27 May 2016 at 10:37

Hang on in there Cat. You're doing so well.

The bracelet was such a good idea. Funnily enough my husband gave me a pandora bracelet for Christmas - my daughter helped him to buy it online. It is very special to me and on my birthday I bought myself a new charm for it 'from David'. I'm sure it will mean the same to your mum.

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Posted 29 May 2016 at 21:38

Oh Cat

Tears upon tears were shed here reading your post. Such love for your mum and dad. I can say no more. Sending massive hugs.

Xxxxxxxx Devonmaid xxxxxxxx

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Posted 30 May 2016 at 05:35

hi cat

your doing great

regards

nidge

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Posted 30 May 2016 at 09:08

Just caught up with your post and wanted to let you know I'm thinking of you. xx

fiona.

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Posted 31 May 2016 at 23:43

This forum has been my help, guidance and friend over the last 5 years. I appreciate every single person who has taken the time to read my posts, guide me, and who has been there for me. So many people have helped me and for that I would like to say a very heart felt Thank you ...

It is however with huge sadness that I share the sad news of my Dads passing. 6 year of fighting the decease that had already spread so far - he truly is our Hero.

Thankfully I stayed with my Mum & Dad last night along with my Brother - Dad became ill in the night and was in some discomfort - we called the nurses out at 3am and they tried to settle Dad, we sat with him all night long. At 5am while Dad was sleeping Mum and I popped into the living room for a cup of tea, I checked Dad at 6am and he was still struggling but was in & out of consciousness while sleeping. Mum and I both must have nodded off and at 7.30 Mum woke me to say Dad had gone.

Such a brave brave Man, even until the end and he waited until we were sleeping before he left us, he didn't want us there when he took his last breath.

My heart is breaking right now, today has been extremely hard but I know at some point the hurting will end and time will heal us. How lucky am I to have had such a wonderful Dad, I have no idea how life goes on without him but I will do my best to make him proud of me while he watches over me.

Love
Daddys Little Princess x

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Posted 01 Jun 2016 at 00:39

Hi,

I'm so sorry to hear that your Dad has passed away.

Nothing I can say is going to take your pain away just now, I wish I could, but he was so lucky to have a loving family around him. I do hope in time that it will become easier for you all, and that the memories of the time you shared make you smile, rather than bring a tear.

Thinking of you all at this difficult time.

May he rest in peace.

Steve x

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Posted 01 Jun 2016 at 02:41

So sorry to hear your sad news, thank you so much for sharing such a personal journey it has helped many of us understand and prepare. My sincere condolences to you and your family.

Kev

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Posted 01 Jun 2016 at 05:02

So truly sorry to hear of your loss, I have been following your journey over the last couple of weeks and think you and family are so brave and inspirational, Please take care
Viv xxx

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Posted 01 Jun 2016 at 06:07

I am so very sorry to hear your sad news. You have done everything you possibly could for your dad and he is surely very proud of you already. Look after each other in the coming days and weeks and do take care of yourself

Much love

Rosy x

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Posted 01 Jun 2016 at 06:14

I was really sorry to read your news. I know that you must all be devastated but I hope in time you will come to cherish all the great memories you have of him.

My condolences to both you and your family.

John

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Posted 01 Jun 2016 at 07:21

Cat really sad news. Your dad was a fighter and had you and your mum in his corner covering his back.

There is nothing that I can say to help except to offer my condolences and hope that the love that you have for him and your mum will get you through these difficult times.

You have been an inspiration to me with the strength of determination and the will to fight this horrid disease.

Regards Chris/Woody

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Posted 01 Jun 2016 at 07:22

Hi Cat
I've always followed your posts , and lately with much sadness. My sincerest condolences to you all.
Chris xx

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Posted 01 Jun 2016 at 07:52

Cat

So sad and sorry to hear of your loss, please accept my sincere condolences. Take care of yourself and each other,thinking of you all.

Thanks Chris

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Posted 01 Jun 2016 at 09:33

So sad to read this Cat you have been so brave and caring all the way through this horrible diseases . Your posts will give hope to many people 6 years with an incurable diagnosis your Dad was a miracle man.

He is know at peace and in time you will be able to remember the good times .

BFN

Julie X

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Posted 01 Jun 2016 at 09:39

Dear Cat and Family

I send you my sincerest condolences on the loss of a really lovely person. He thought of you all, even until the end.

Your hearts are breaking but they will heal given time, even the sadness you feel now will diminish a lot although thoughts of his loss will always be with you. He is safe now and out of pain.

Your babies will both hurt and heal you as they are too young to understand that granddad has gone forever but they will talk about him and make you laugh (~and cry too I expect) but although their memories will become hazy over time, I know that you will keep his memory alive for them.

The love you have for him shone through all of your posts, he had a daughter to be truly proud of and I'm sure he knew it.
I'm sure your mum is equally proud of you and together you will give each other strength in the coming days and weeks.

I'm thinking of you today and sending my thoughts in the hope that they will help to keep you all strong.

With my very best wishes to you all

Sandra

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Posted 01 Jun 2016 at 13:16

Very sad to read of your loss - sincere condolences to you all.

Take care.

KRO...

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Posted 01 Jun 2016 at 14:26

Dear Cat & Family,

You are a credit to your dad, what a lovey daughter. My thoughts are with you all at this very sad time.

Leila X

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Posted 01 Jun 2016 at 16:51

Cat

I'm so sorry, please accept my sincere condolences on the loss of your lovely dad. I know we knew the time was near but it still a shock all the same. Both my dad and my brother in law waited until they were alone to pass away. The nurses told us it is very common, almost as though they are waiting for you to leave or go to sleep. You father had a wonderful daughter, he was so proud of you I'm sure of that. See in love to you and your mum and all the family.

With love

Devonmaid xxx

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Posted 01 Jun 2016 at 16:52

Cat

With love

Devonmaid xxx

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Posted 01 Jun 2016 at 22:26

Hi Cat

I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your dad, it brought a tear to my eye.

You have been a wonderful daughter to him and you know he is proud of you. Having a daughter myself I know of the special relationship between a dad and daughter and so I know from my own feelings how he would feel about you.

I was really touched how you signed off your post "daddys ittle princess". Thinking of you and your family at this sad time.

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