Update 14 weeks after EBRT and HDR Brachytherapy.
Was going to wait for my 3 month followup appointment before next update, but that's been pushed out to 4½ months, and a couple of people asked me if there's any more news. The 3 month followup is not time critical, although it means I haven't got my first post-treatment PSA test done yet - I have the form to get it done, but I'll probably wait until the week before the appointment.
I stopped wearing pads completely just after my last update. I see staining evidence of one or two drips in my underpants at the end of some days, but not enough to go through the two layers of fabric in Y-fronts or to smell - just needs clean pants every day. Dip test no longer shows any blood in urine. Flow rate never recovered but is not a problem. No longer getting up to pee at night.
Bowel had got pretty much back to normal on the low fibre diet I'd been on since halfway through EBRT, and I was tending to forget the low fibre diet. That has brought back the wind and excess mucus (but not diarrhea) and going many times a day (basically, almost every time I go for a pee).
My oncologist and urologist both expressed some surprise in the past that I've not suffered any reduction in length/girth/hardness of erections after a year on HT. Oncologist said I probably would as a result of the HDR brachy, and I did temporarily, but it's almost back to before (sometimes it's completely back, sometimes it's just a few mm shorter). As I've mentioned on this forum many times, it's very much a case of use it or lose it, and, difficult as it is with no libido, I've tried to keep using it. However, when the urologist was going through my sexual health after the EBRT and HDR treatments, he thought I wasn't using it enough to maintain this, and booked me in for an ED clinic session. He apologised it would not be for 3 months, but also said you really don't want to have one within 3 months of the HDR to allow time for healing, and he was absolutely spot on with that.
So last week, I had my ED clinic appointment, which turned out to be two appointments when I got there, ED clinic, and Pump clinic as it's apparently known. The ED nurse was also surprised I'd had no permanent erection damage after a year on HT, and praised my GP for prescribing daily tadalafil. I spent most of that appointment getting her to review my presentation notes on ED treatments for PCa patients on HT and following RP, which she was really happy to do. The urologist who referred me had already said (unknown to me) that I should be given a pump to achieve erections for longer.
The pump clinic was a pleasant surprise, as I had not been expecting that. It's run by the company who make them (SOMAerect), with a representative to explain and demonstrate. He also had a young new guy on his first day training who sat in - I immediately noticed the new guy had a PCUK "man" badge on, as did I - apparently his father has PCa. The representative asks me questions about changes to penis during treatment, and is also surprised there are none - he says only 1% of people don't suffer permanent erectile damage after a year on HT (he's a salesman, I'll take that as a compliment, but not a piece of clinically researched data). Anyway, he asks if I want to try it out now, and I do. (I've read the research which shows people who try it in the outpatient setting are twice as likely to benefit from it as those who don't). We go though simple pumping, and using single and double constriction rings. It is much more comfortable than the sex shop one I bought off Amazon, which was far too uncomfortable to use. In particular, the SOMAerect doesn't tightly grip the base of the penis, unlike the sex shop ones. He draws up the prescription advice note, which tells the GP how to fill out the prescription and what size and extra parts I need. He noted I'm on daily tadalafil, and pointed out that erections I get from that are more effective than a pump, and I must not swap tadalafil for the pump if tadalafil is working, so if GP will only do one or the other, stick with the tadalafil. That was interesting advice - the tadalafil is working, but loss of libido means I'm not doing it often enough or for long enough according to both urologist and SOMA representative. I decided I'll buy the pump myself if there's any risk of losing the tadalafil, although you can't actually order the combination of parts I would get on prescription from them directly.
Anyway, back to the GP. I pass on the praise for prescribing the tadalafil from two ED clinic nurses and the Pump guy. GP says he always does - he knows it makes a significant difference which is why he put me on it the moment I started HT, and yes I can have the pump too. So now just waiting for it to arrive.