Moozel, it is worth asking whether your local authority / local Gov pension provider still offers the 85 year rule. Not many do these days but if it is available it makes the decision much easier! Otherwise, the employer has a duty under the Equality Act to make reasonable adjustments so that your OH can continue to work; this may mean an alternative role. If they are not able to do that, ill health retirement becomes more attractive to them. You may have to play the long game. Keep in mind though that, as said above, he needs interests or plans to remain active and have some purpose to his days if he isn't working; John goes to the gym, cycles, walks, birdwatches and is developing his photography skills - I also employ him part time to organise my work so he is busier than when he was working š