18 months post surgery.

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Posted 19 Feb 2023 at 08:00

Hi;

Diagnosed PC on 22/12/22.

Had op on 31/01/23 robotic surgery back home after 18 hours , catheter out 7 days later. Since then very up and down I've had odd days of feeling ok ish and some leakage this past week worse everytime stand up I leak also getting very uncomfortable sitting so struggling to know what to do for the best do I walk more and put up with leaking or stay sat or lay down to lessen the impact but get discomfort.

Pretty confused as to what recovery should feel like , got histology results on 20th Feb happy with my consultant but very limited on recovery feels like I'm on my own .

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Vern.

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Posted 23 Jun 2023 at 09:45

Morning,

Just phoned up and got my PSA results 5 months post surgery.

0.009.

Comments please.

Vern.

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Posted 11 Mar 2023 at 17:33

Hi All;

Bit of an update on my position any views on if this is normal .

I'm coming up six weeks post surgery and have mixed days of feeling up and down, basically I've got my exercise up to two miles a day last couple weeks and now three miles days this has increased leakage .

My consultant said have a go at recording leakage as he thought it's wasn't as bad as I thought, well it works out at 10mls for the 12 hours night period as always shower and change 8pm and 8am so night including bit of evening and again in morning, the day period was 65mls avarage with range from 40 to 90 mls.

Get up every morning with optimism to get to normal but negative by end day when things the same. Back for PSA on 31st March eight weeks after surgery and timed to fit in around Daughters wedding on 1st April so don't know results.

Regards to all.

Vern.

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Posted 17 Mar 2023 at 16:10

Vern, you are not yet two months post op. I didn't get full energy back for many months and I am sure you are expecting too much from yourself and overdoing it. Give your body a chance. Your legs are entitled to be tired after a three mile walk. And it is quite normal for continence not to be a straight line progression.

Peter

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Posted 30 Oct 2023 at 17:43

Hi All,

I'm now 9 months post op and was doing ok but last couple months have crashed on hopeless thoughts involving my health both physical and mental, very disturbed sleep which doesn't help I'm 4 years into retirement and should be doing better .

Any advice to how I go about improving things would be appreciated, feeling I need more than 10 minutes in GP surgery.

Regards to you all.

Vern.

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Posted 30 Oct 2023 at 19:19

Hi Vern,

I am 2 years post surgery, but I do recall many dark days and moods approaching the first anniversary - ( even though like you my PSA was undetectable at 0.006) - perhaps a delayed post trauma reaction. Perhaps it is with darkening days of autumn ? Don't beat yourself up - I think it is just being human.

I retired post surgery, and keep myself busy with art painting as my main pastime, getting out and walking in nature for birds, orchids, butterflies, or fungi now as autumn progresses. Always trying to find small pleasures each day. What are your main hobbies ?

The first year was hard with slow recovery over incontinence, now only 1 pad a day, minor leaking. Ongoing ED a definite source of dark moods, but in this 2nd year there is recovery and progress in this area too.

I think it is thought, "oh one is healed from the surgery, so all should be ok", but it is more complicated and more drawn out than that. So I concur with the rollercoaster of moods and thoughts. Here for you.

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Posted 30 Oct 2023 at 19:34

Ey up Vern.

Like you, I'm 9 months post RARP.

An examination of the removed prostate revealed Gleason 9 (4+5), Grade Group 5, Extraprostatic extension pT3a, left posterior, radial distance 1 mm. I've been told there's a 50% chance of recurrence but fortunately my last three PSA checks have been: <0.02, <0.05, <0.02 which are classed as undetectable.

My incontinence has virtually gone but I still wear a pad during the day just in case.

I'm prescribed Invicorp which is generally successful.

I'm fairly upbeat, I think my gallows sense of humour helps. However, like the vast majority of cancer suffers, there are times when I feel down in the dumps. Sites like this and speaking to online specialist nurses have helped lift my mood enormously.

Speak to one of these nurses they don't, unlike most GPs, have 10 minute time limits.

Best of luck pal.

Adrian

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Posted 30 Oct 2023 at 19:40

Thanks Adrian,

I might give nurses a call I'm old school and don't find asking for help very easy .

Vern.

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Posted 07 Dec 2023 at 15:14

Hi All,

Time moves on and I'm 10 months post surgery I had PSA results today and its < 0.006 down again from 0.007 last time and 0.009 six months ago, Consultant very pleased and put me on six monthly testing now.

My best wishes to you all.

Vern.

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Vern.

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Posted 18 Dec 2023 at 11:44

I'd like to thank everyone for their help and encouragement on my journey this year it really has helped, helping each other is so important when things are difficult so let's keep it up.

So looking forward to going to football with my son on boxing day and making more memories.

Wishing you all a Happy Christmas.

Vern.

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Posted 01 Feb 2024 at 17:03

Hi All,

Been for camara job at hospital today carried out by surgeon who proformed the Prostate operation a year ago .

He said no sign Bladder cancer but possibly sign of a virus caused the trace of blood , surgery looks fine no clips flisting around .

He is recommending GP looks at inflammatory markers for overall symptoms.

Relieved he was happy but it doesn't change the way you feel.

Vern.

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Posted 17 Apr 2024 at 07:48

Hi All,

15 months post surgery now and doing ok , looking for views on frequently of PSA testing my last one was on 12 months and consultant said can move to 6 monthly but I've read often it's said 3 monthly for first couple years.

All the best to everyone.

Vern.

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Posted 02 May 2024 at 09:00

Morning Kev,

My consultant said move to 6 monthly but I've decided to continue at 3 monthly for first 2 years .

Vern.

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Posted 30 Jul 2024 at 19:37

PSA result today ,< 0.006 . Next one in 6 months .

Vern.

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Posted 19 Feb 2023 at 10:52

Vern

Very early days right now and whilst the external injuries look minor, you have some serious healing to do internally. . You do need to do some gentle walking to help you along. Don't worry too much about leaking at this stage, it's normal for most of us. Have you started pelvic floor exercises? They are important in helping continence over time. You are most definitely not on your own. I am sure you will get some detailed responses from other members and I strongly suggest you speak to one of the PCUK nurses (number on this website), they are marvellous listeners and will take the time to explain what, perhaps, should have been explained to you prior to leaving hospital but seems not to have been.

Best wishes, Peter

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Posted 19 Feb 2023 at 11:52

Peter,

Many thanks for the encouragement it's most appreciated, nice sunny day here today ( Hampshire) and I've walked 1.5 miles this morning and tried to blank the leakage best I can !

I'll give Nurses a call tomorrow chat things over .

Vern.

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Posted 19 Feb 2023 at 13:34

Are you wearing continence pads?

"Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards." Soren Kierkegaard

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Posted 19 Feb 2023 at 13:39

Hi Lyn

Yes I am takes some getting used to !

Vern

Vern.

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Posted 21 Feb 2023 at 14:31

Hi Vern.

I had my prostatectomy in October 2022. Yes the leakage always occur more on rising from sitting, coughing, sneezing etc.

Keep up with the pelvic exercises & walking all help with the leakage problems.

We all recover differently but as the weeks go by I’m sure you will improve by the day.

All the best. Jeff.

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Posted 21 Feb 2023 at 14:47

Jeff,

Many thanks for your message and I hope you are doing well, I had follow up with consultant yesterday now wait until end March for PSA test to see if more treatment needed.

I dealt with operation fine it's mainly I was very active before walking five miles a day or more then to have leakage while out walking even in the garden is a lot to come to terms with.

Vern.

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Posted 21 Feb 2023 at 20:53

Vern, what you are describing sounds much the same as my experience - not sure whether that means "normal" though judging by other descriptions here some do a bit better some worse.

At three weeks I was keen to resume something resembling my normal levels of activity. But even doing modest things like walking to the shops for a few groceries took a bit of planning, I had to go to a place with a toilet where I could change my pad. I remember commenting to the specialist nurse that I felt I was a major contributor to the profits of the Tena company.

Things were on an improving trajectory. Pad use came down, while activities increased to much nearer normal. For me the breakthrough was about 6 or 7 months after surgery when I was reliably down to two pads a day, it meant that I could do anything confidently knowing I had a spare pad in my back pocket. Some men totally regain continence, but in my case I have continued to need pads - but mostly just the one a day.

I am sure things will get better for you. But you can't hurry recovery up!

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Posted 23 Feb 2023 at 12:03

Hi,

Just had histology results.

Grade 2 , Gleason 3+4 , 20% pattern four with non conspicuous cribriform pattern 4.

T3a R1 extra prostatic focal disrupted margin.

Next is PSA test end March .

Guess the second set of figures not conclusive enough to start any further treatment until PSA results.

Vern.

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Posted 11 Mar 2023 at 17:33

Hi All;

Bit of an update on my position any views on if this is normal .

Regards to all.

Vern.

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Posted 11 Mar 2023 at 20:40

Hi Vern.

I am 9 months post-op. and am still incontinent, but it's getting slowly better. I go for a walk of 4-5 miles most mornings and do Kegel exercises 3 times a day. I have recently added in Pilates exercises and a Yoga class. It seems to be helping, but maybe it was going to get better anyway - I can't be sure.

I can only agree with other peoples' advice: to make sure that you always have a spare incontinence pad with you and try to ensure that there will be somewhere to change.

I also keep drinks to a minimum two hours before leaving the house in the morning and just have one drink while I'm out. I make up my quota of necessary fluids in the late afternoon and early evening. I try not to drink after 8 p.m. in order to reduce night-time visits to the toilet.

Look after yourself.

JedSee.

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Posted 11 Mar 2023 at 20:55

It seems to me that you are doing remarkably well for 6 weeks post-op - I think your expectations have been too high!

"Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards." Soren Kierkegaard

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Posted 17 Mar 2023 at 13:25

Hi All,

I'm struggling at moment my leakage has doubled past week mainly when walking and have discomfort which is different than past weeks more right side low and tired legs came on last Sunday after three mile walk , had GP appointment yesterday took urine sample to send to lab but test strips I do at home fine and changed PSA from 31st to 21st .

I understand take time but difficult when things go backwards very tiring.

Regards to you all.

Vern.

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Posted 17 Mar 2023 at 13:26

Meant to add struggling to do pelvic exercise as uncomfortable to do .

Vern.

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Posted 17 Mar 2023 at 16:10

Peter

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Posted 17 Mar 2023 at 22:49

I don't think you should be walking 3 miles so soon after the op - your body is telling you something! Increased leakage is linked to tiredness - your brain has to relearn bladder control as your bits have been moved around, including the muscles and valve that keep the urine in your bladder. It's a bit like a toddler being potty trained - even when they have cracked it and started to recognise that they need to wee and then hold it in for a few seconds till they can get to the potty, as soon as they get tired or distracted by a game or the TV, accidents happen.

"Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards." Soren Kierkegaard

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Posted 17 Mar 2023 at 23:55

Vern, I can't say I have ever found doing PFEs uncomfortable, you are still healing. Or there may be something else going on down there. I found when walking I didn't leak ,as soon as I got home and stopped walking I would leak.

Thanks Chris

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Posted 20 Mar 2023 at 17:48

Hi, I'm a Rambler and started 5 mile walks after week 6 from catheter out. Yes, the leaks have to be tolerated. Doing the Kegals, if I had a dull ache, I kept on going thinking that it was just the muscle strengthing. Now I'm doing 10 mile walks weekly, 1 pad per day with some totally dry days. It seems some good and bad days each week, as someone else said, its not a straight line progression but progression never the less.

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Posted 20 Mar 2023 at 18:07

Hi Steve.

Good to hear your doing well, this exercise is difficult as I had to walk one mile 15 hours after surgery then they let me home and two days later GP said keep moving no lifting but walking fine two weeks after surgery consultant was lead your life don't lift or run but walking is fine , my sister in law is a cancer nurse and told me nuts to try and walk far in early weeks !

I'm just getting out a bit more now as in dentist's - Doctors - running the wife few places so waking less and think the balance is better, in hindsight I'd take it easier but at same time sitting around is tough on the body .

Best People given sensible advice are sister in law and Lyn on this site .

All the best

Vern.

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Posted 20 Mar 2023 at 18:09

Walking less !!!

Vern.

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