I don't know what your hospital will supply, but I watched a video from the USA where the guy had a stuck on patch on his inner thigh that held the catheter pipework in place - wearing Y fronts will help a lot but if you can find those support plasters they looked amazing and I wish I had had them.
I looked here https://www.vyne.co.uk/collections/catheter-clips but couldn't see the exact same but maybe a nurse can advise?
Also, they may not tell you, but the area around the catheter where it enters the penis and where it attaches to the day bag MUST be kept sterile at all times - so definitely get some antiseptic lotion and some sterile wipes for him. Also he will need the day bag changing every 3rd day and the night bag is replaced every day so make sure he has enough. Any contamination of the catheter and/or the valves of the day/night bags can lead to nasty infections that he really does not need.
A good supply of 1000mg paracetamol for the shoulder pain and he will be sleeping on his back for several nights - that gave me back pain so I kept up on the paracetamol every 6 hours whether I was in pain at that time or not.
Also some E45 cream that he can apply to the wounds when the dressings are removed.
I started with Tena pants for nighttime use for about a week after the catheter was removed with #3 day pads - then switched to the pads for nighttime. Get a urinal bottle that he can keep by the side of the bed - when he feels like going during the night, swing the legs off the side of the bed and sit up, drop the penis into the bottle and stand up - works every time!
I used a senokot tablet on the second day home to get things moving - something gentle but he needs a movement within 3-4 days
Remind him that he needs to get up and walk around every hour - even just around the house, this is to avoid thrombosis and to avoid needing those awful compression stockings. Just don't over do it.
Wish him good luck and tell him that it's all straightforward and far easier than he is expecting!! - Apart from the shoulder pain which is a b***h :)
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