Dave
Welcome to the club none of us wanted to be in. You’ll find plenty of advice and support on this forum.
I had my RARP just over a year ago. Having been there the advice I would give you is:
Get some baggy jogging bottoms for fitting around in after the operation. You won’t be doing a great deal do you might as well be comfortable;
Be prepared for some discomfort from the catheter. It’s not painful (for me) but is a nuisance. It may be helpful to get an antiseptic cream as the tip of the penis can become sore;
Download the Squeezy app. Once the catheter is out the exercises are useful for regaining continence.
Finally, make sure you have a contact number for the nurses - they are there to provide support and I found that nothing was a problem with them.
You will experience erectile dysfunction. The Urology Department prescribed Sildenafil to get the blood flowing where it’s needed. Be patient as it will take time to recover acknowledging some men don’t get erections again. I’ve found this the most difficult part to deal with (I was going to say ‘hard’ but that’s still wishful thinking).
I wish you well with your operation and subsequent recovery.