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Posted 01 Mar 2024 at 11:23

Hi all.

First of all I want to say thanks and good luck to everyone who posts on here - it's been a great help with the emotional side of recovery.

I had the nerve sparing prostatectomy three months ago and luckily still have almost full sensation in my penis.

Bladder control is almost fully restored, which has meant that I've been trying to resume my love life.

At the moment I have sensation but no sign whatsoever of stiffening. I have an appointment with the ED clinic but that is months away.

My question is, should I wait for the ED consultation before trying a pump?

If not, are there any recommendations? I've see mention of the SOMAerect Response II and the Medintim on here.

Many thanks,

Steve

User
Posted 02 Mar 2024 at 11:29

Hi it's early days. I had a nerve sparring RP. I started using a pump soon after the catheter was removed and still use it 18 months later. Nerve sparring has many different outcomes, some men get erections fairly soon after others unfortunately never. In my case it's taken this long to get to perhaps 80% of where I was. Most noticeable improvement was after a year. 

User
Posted 04 Mar 2024 at 10:46

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member
I've been on 5mg daily Cialis for a month with no discernible improvement.

You can't see the impact of the 5mg cialis - it is working in the background to draw oxygen to the area to aid healing - it isn't for getting an erection! 

"Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards." Soren Kierkegaard

User
Posted 04 Mar 2024 at 19:27

Hi Badger07,

Yes, I had the same experience with the G.P.  They won't supply pumps or injections without approval from the E.D. Clinic.  In my case that delayed things by about 2 months.  

Best wishes,

JedSee.

User
Posted 07 Mar 2024 at 17:28

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member
I don't know what others think about this but when using the pump (and now I'm on injections too) I have found that being aroused makes a big difference - if your partner isn't around or in the mood then an ipad/tablet and a web browser might be able to supply the necessary.
It seems to make a big (excuse the pun) difference for me between being aroused or not - at least worth a try to see if it makes any difference.

I reckon the reason why is that if you are aroused your penis will be a better fit for the pump, so you’ll not suck in so much scrotum. I actually found it very difficult to stop this happening. Unfortunately with zero libido, I’m more likely to get aroused by a Costa Coffee web page than pornhub🤣🤣🤣🤣now how did I know that name?🤔🤔🤔

User
Posted 01 Mar 2024 at 11:23

Hi all.

First of all I want to say thanks and good luck to everyone who posts on here - it's been a great help with the emotional side of recovery.

I had the nerve sparing prostatectomy three months ago and luckily still have almost full sensation in my penis.

Bladder control is almost fully restored, which has meant that I've been trying to resume my love life.

At the moment I have sensation but no sign whatsoever of stiffening. I have an appointment with the ED clinic but that is months away.

My question is, should I wait for the ED consultation before trying a pump?

If not, are there any recommendations? I've see mention of the SOMAerect Response II and the Medintim on here.

Many thanks,

Steve

User
Posted 01 Mar 2024 at 12:14
The ones that are approved for prescription (and therefore have an NHS order code) are:

- SomaErect Response .... NHS code 15019

- Farnhurst Elite .... NHS code ES101

- Osbon ErecAid Esteem ... NHS code XX-50

I can't find an NHS number for the Medintim and the prices seem to be in Euros so can't help you with that one, sorry.

These are expensive to buy yourself. My advice would be to take a note of the NHS order codes to your GP and ask him/her to prescribe one. Play daft - don't let on that you know some NHS trusts don't approve these ... in fact, google your NHS trust to see if they have a policy on vacuum pumps before you see the GP. Forewarned is forearmed!

"Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards." Soren Kierkegaard

User
Posted 01 Mar 2024 at 13:52

Nerve sparing means you have a chance of recovering erectile function. These nerves are nothing to do with sensation in the penis - that's not usually significantly impacted by prostate cancer procedures (biopsies and brachytherapy can impact that, although it's rare).

The important thing about penile health is not to go for too long without erections. If you can't get them naturally, then you should be doing so artificially.

Things it's worth trying at this stage are the higher dose PDE5 inhibitors (20mg Tadalafil/Cialis, or up to 100mg Sildenafil/Viagra). These won't give you an erection just by taking them - you need to get aroused too just like before.

If these don't work yet, or you can't get enough for at least 3 erections/week, then you need a pump too.

The other thing that's useful is to get on to regular Tadalafil for which there some evidence it helps nerve healing and preserving penile health with reduced numbers of erections. This is either 5mg daily low dose, or 2 x 20mg/week (which can also double up for trying for erections as above). Even if this dose doesn't generate erections, it improves blood flow in the area which helps with healing and preserving penile health. (None of the other PDE5 inhibitors have this extra effect, because they are too short acting.)

If you have a knowledgeable/helpful GP, they may be prepared to prescribe these for you in the absence of a timely ED clinic appointment.

You could also ask your CNS if they can schedule an appointment directly with a pump clinic for the pump - that may have a shorter waiting time than going via the ED clinic, since they're run by the pump reps. Some ICB's require all pumps to be prescribed via a pump clinic because it doubles the chances of using it successfully afterwards, and they only regard them as economically viable in such circumstances. The ICB covering Berks, Oxon, and Bucks has an ICB-level ban on supplying pumps.

Just to add to what Lyn said, for the SomaErect Response II, you also want the spare Surefit rings, which is NHS code 15222, as only one comes with the pump. These are only used for sex, not for penile rehabilitation, and it seems far fewer men find the pump useful for sex than do for penile rehab.

I have heard one of the Bathmate models is also available on prescription, but I never heard of anyone who got it that way. Most areas only offer one and if they use the pump clinic run by the reps, I think that's only the SomaErect.

User
Posted 01 Mar 2024 at 21:12
As Andy says, it is the nerves controlling blood flow to the penis and erections which run next to the prostate and can get damaged or destroyed during surgery. Even if they are spared they do suffer trauma and it can take several months for them to start to recover full function. The nerves to the skin of the penis - which are mostly responsible for sensation - are different and shouldn't be affected.

It is generally thought that the tissues of the penis need the extra blood flow of an erection - whether natural or artificial - to stay healthy, and if they don't stay healthy that will impact your ability to have erections long term. Once you are recovering from the initial internal trauma of the operation, which can take a few months, the two approaches usually used are to help blood flow with a PDE5 inhibitor (usually tadalafil) and to generate artificial erections with a pump. You ought to be advised by your hospital, but from reports here the level of advice varies across the country. You may need to be pro-active in asking for them.

Good luck! I think 3 months is the point at which you can reasonably be expecting support on this.

User
Posted 01 Mar 2024 at 22:17

Hi Stevie

To start with, following surgery, you need only use a cheap pump without rings. It is a matter of 'waking up' your penis and start the blood flowing into it on a regular basis; don't wait till you acquire a medical grade VED. This will also help towards regaining some length of your penis you are likely to have lost. This will require 2 to 3 months before you think of putting a ring on it, if you need to. Don't wait till you acquire a medical grade pump. If you suffer from ED seriously then you can begin to investigate various methods of overcoming your problem. Most men will seriously consider using a VED if all other options fail or, like me, do not wish any invasive or PDE5 options. In my view the benefit of using VEDs is under estimated; I have been very successfully using vacuum pumps for over 12 years - horses for courses.

Edited by member 01 Mar 2024 at 22:17  | Reason: Not specified

 'Physics is like sex: sure, it may give some practical results, but that’s not why we do it.'                    Richard Feynman (1918-1988) Nobel Prize laureate

 

 

User
Posted 04 Mar 2024 at 10:22
Thanks for everyone's advice. I've been on 5mg daily Cialis for a month with no discernible improvement. After reading everyone's posts I've ordered the SOMAErect pump just to be sure I'm giving myself the best chance of keeping everything healthy before getting too concerned about the sexual side.

My wife has read these posts and watched the Youtube link with the therapist - it's a great help being to see and hear about other couple's experiences.

Steve

User
Posted 04 Mar 2024 at 13:13
Ahh, I've misunderstood what the the consultant said when I had my three-month follow-up check. When asked if I'd had any erections and said no he prescribed the Cialis saying it would hopefully improve the blood flow in that area - I assumed he was talking about erections, not just getting oxygen circulating via the improved flow.

Every day is a school day at the moment....

User
Posted 04 Mar 2024 at 19:09

I'll advised advise,  his GP won't issue a prescription for a Pump without him seeing the ED Nurse and them sending a letter to authorise the prescription. 

User
Posted 04 Mar 2024 at 20:32

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member

I'll advised advise,  his GP won't issue a prescription for a Pump without him seeing the ED Nurse and them sending a letter to authorise the prescription. 

That may be true in your NHS trust but is not the case in all areas. In Trusts where there is no ED / andrology service, it is the GP that prescribes (if you are lucky / persuasive). In other areas, the GP can prescribe the pump and tablets but the man has to be seen by an ED specialist before they can have the injections. Like everything else with the NHS now, it is a postcode lottery.

"Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards." Soren Kierkegaard

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User
Posted 01 Mar 2024 at 12:14
The ones that are approved for prescription (and therefore have an NHS order code) are:

- SomaErect Response .... NHS code 15019

- Farnhurst Elite .... NHS code ES101

- Osbon ErecAid Esteem ... NHS code XX-50

I can't find an NHS number for the Medintim and the prices seem to be in Euros so can't help you with that one, sorry.

These are expensive to buy yourself. My advice would be to take a note of the NHS order codes to your GP and ask him/her to prescribe one. Play daft - don't let on that you know some NHS trusts don't approve these ... in fact, google your NHS trust to see if they have a policy on vacuum pumps before you see the GP. Forewarned is forearmed!

"Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards." Soren Kierkegaard

User
Posted 01 Mar 2024 at 13:52

Nerve sparing means you have a chance of recovering erectile function. These nerves are nothing to do with sensation in the penis - that's not usually significantly impacted by prostate cancer procedures (biopsies and brachytherapy can impact that, although it's rare).

The important thing about penile health is not to go for too long without erections. If you can't get them naturally, then you should be doing so artificially.

Things it's worth trying at this stage are the higher dose PDE5 inhibitors (20mg Tadalafil/Cialis, or up to 100mg Sildenafil/Viagra). These won't give you an erection just by taking them - you need to get aroused too just like before.

If these don't work yet, or you can't get enough for at least 3 erections/week, then you need a pump too.

The other thing that's useful is to get on to regular Tadalafil for which there some evidence it helps nerve healing and preserving penile health with reduced numbers of erections. This is either 5mg daily low dose, or 2 x 20mg/week (which can also double up for trying for erections as above). Even if this dose doesn't generate erections, it improves blood flow in the area which helps with healing and preserving penile health. (None of the other PDE5 inhibitors have this extra effect, because they are too short acting.)

If you have a knowledgeable/helpful GP, they may be prepared to prescribe these for you in the absence of a timely ED clinic appointment.

You could also ask your CNS if they can schedule an appointment directly with a pump clinic for the pump - that may have a shorter waiting time than going via the ED clinic, since they're run by the pump reps. Some ICB's require all pumps to be prescribed via a pump clinic because it doubles the chances of using it successfully afterwards, and they only regard them as economically viable in such circumstances. The ICB covering Berks, Oxon, and Bucks has an ICB-level ban on supplying pumps.

Just to add to what Lyn said, for the SomaErect Response II, you also want the spare Surefit rings, which is NHS code 15222, as only one comes with the pump. These are only used for sex, not for penile rehabilitation, and it seems far fewer men find the pump useful for sex than do for penile rehab.

I have heard one of the Bathmate models is also available on prescription, but I never heard of anyone who got it that way. Most areas only offer one and if they use the pump clinic run by the reps, I think that's only the SomaErect.

User
Posted 01 Mar 2024 at 21:12
As Andy says, it is the nerves controlling blood flow to the penis and erections which run next to the prostate and can get damaged or destroyed during surgery. Even if they are spared they do suffer trauma and it can take several months for them to start to recover full function. The nerves to the skin of the penis - which are mostly responsible for sensation - are different and shouldn't be affected.

It is generally thought that the tissues of the penis need the extra blood flow of an erection - whether natural or artificial - to stay healthy, and if they don't stay healthy that will impact your ability to have erections long term. Once you are recovering from the initial internal trauma of the operation, which can take a few months, the two approaches usually used are to help blood flow with a PDE5 inhibitor (usually tadalafil) and to generate artificial erections with a pump. You ought to be advised by your hospital, but from reports here the level of advice varies across the country. You may need to be pro-active in asking for them.

Good luck! I think 3 months is the point at which you can reasonably be expecting support on this.

User
Posted 01 Mar 2024 at 21:29

Hi Steve1022,

If you can't afford to buy one of the expensive pumps (about £300 for the Soma Erect) while you wait for the E.D. Clinic appointment, I would recommend buying a cheap one from (e.g.) 'Love Honey' or similar outlets while you wait for the real thing.  But by all means try and get Cialis prescribed by your G.P. too.  Because of the cost of the pumps, many G.P.s wont prescribe the pumps without the say-so of the E.D. Clinic.  But the sooner you start pumping, the better, in my opinion.  In  retrospect, I waited too long to start pumping and was relying on the Cialis alone initially.

Best wishes,

JedSee.

User
Posted 01 Mar 2024 at 22:17

Hi Stevie

To start with, following surgery, you need only use a cheap pump without rings. It is a matter of 'waking up' your penis and start the blood flowing into it on a regular basis; don't wait till you acquire a medical grade VED. This will also help towards regaining some length of your penis you are likely to have lost. This will require 2 to 3 months before you think of putting a ring on it, if you need to. Don't wait till you acquire a medical grade pump. If you suffer from ED seriously then you can begin to investigate various methods of overcoming your problem. Most men will seriously consider using a VED if all other options fail or, like me, do not wish any invasive or PDE5 options. In my view the benefit of using VEDs is under estimated; I have been very successfully using vacuum pumps for over 12 years - horses for courses.

Edited by member 01 Mar 2024 at 22:17  | Reason: Not specified

 'Physics is like sex: sure, it may give some practical results, but that’s not why we do it.'                    Richard Feynman (1918-1988) Nobel Prize laureate

 

 

User
Posted 01 Mar 2024 at 22:22

You can see my review of VEDs at the following link:

https://community.prostatecanceruk.org/posts/t28948-Re-establishing-Sex-Life

 'Physics is like sex: sure, it may give some practical results, but that’s not why we do it.'                    Richard Feynman (1918-1988) Nobel Prize laureate

 

 

User
Posted 02 Mar 2024 at 11:29

Hi it's early days. I had a nerve sparring RP. I started using a pump soon after the catheter was removed and still use it 18 months later. Nerve sparring has many different outcomes, some men get erections fairly soon after others unfortunately never. In my case it's taken this long to get to perhaps 80% of where I was. Most noticeable improvement was after a year. 

User
Posted 04 Mar 2024 at 10:22
Thanks for everyone's advice. I've been on 5mg daily Cialis for a month with no discernible improvement. After reading everyone's posts I've ordered the SOMAErect pump just to be sure I'm giving myself the best chance of keeping everything healthy before getting too concerned about the sexual side.

My wife has read these posts and watched the Youtube link with the therapist - it's a great help being to see and hear about other couple's experiences.

Steve

User
Posted 04 Mar 2024 at 10:46

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member
I've been on 5mg daily Cialis for a month with no discernible improvement.

You can't see the impact of the 5mg cialis - it is working in the background to draw oxygen to the area to aid healing - it isn't for getting an erection! 

"Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards." Soren Kierkegaard

User
Posted 04 Mar 2024 at 13:13
Ahh, I've misunderstood what the the consultant said when I had my three-month follow-up check. When asked if I'd had any erections and said no he prescribed the Cialis saying it would hopefully improve the blood flow in that area - I assumed he was talking about erections, not just getting oxygen circulating via the improved flow.

Every day is a school day at the moment....

User
Posted 04 Mar 2024 at 19:09

I'll advised advise,  his GP won't issue a prescription for a Pump without him seeing the ED Nurse and them sending a letter to authorise the prescription. 

User
Posted 04 Mar 2024 at 19:27

Hi Badger07,

Yes, I had the same experience with the G.P.  They won't supply pumps or injections without approval from the E.D. Clinic.  In my case that delayed things by about 2 months.  

Best wishes,

JedSee.

User
Posted 04 Mar 2024 at 20:32

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member

I'll advised advise,  his GP won't issue a prescription for a Pump without him seeing the ED Nurse and them sending a letter to authorise the prescription. 

That may be true in your NHS trust but is not the case in all areas. In Trusts where there is no ED / andrology service, it is the GP that prescribes (if you are lucky / persuasive). In other areas, the GP can prescribe the pump and tablets but the man has to be seen by an ED specialist before they can have the injections. Like everything else with the NHS now, it is a postcode lottery.

"Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards." Soren Kierkegaard

User
Posted 05 Mar 2024 at 00:20

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member
You can't see the impact of the 5mg cialis - it is working in the background to draw oxygen to the area to aid healing - it isn't for getting an erection

I don't know about others, but I definitely felt some immediate difference when taking 5mg Cialis.

Not an erection, but some engorgement

 

User
Posted 05 Mar 2024 at 00:25
Once the nerves are repaired, some men will continue to take the 5mg dose daily and the cumulative effect (Cialis stays in the body for significantly longer than Viagra does) is enough to boost natural erections. But its purpose during recovery from RP is not to get erections - that is the job of the 10 or 20mg dose.
"Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards." Soren Kierkegaard

User
Posted 05 Mar 2024 at 23:44
Reported - not many 23 year old women have experience of Cialis & vacuum pumps 🙄😂
"Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards." Soren Kierkegaard

User
Posted 07 Mar 2024 at 15:01
Hi all.

The pump arrived today.

https://www.mypelvichealth.co.uk/en/men/erectile-penile-health/erectile-dysfunction-management-penile-rehabilitation/somaerect-response-ii/

It says not to attempt intercourse for 7-10 days initially but to get used to the pump and how it operates.

It recommends 20 mins a day for this period. As I've never used one of these before does this seem ok?

Any tips or advice on how to begin will be gratefully received.

Thanks,

Steve

User
Posted 07 Mar 2024 at 15:23

Hi Steve, 

Apart from reading the instructions and watching the video..

To start with, I would recommend giving your pubes a radical trim, there's a better chance of creating a seal without hair getting in the way. It's also worth using copious amounts of lube around the collar that contacts the shaft of your penis, again to help create a seal.

Try a few pumps and releasing a few times. Nothing too harsh but as you say, just to get used to how it operates. 

Hopefully you can get on the waiting list for an appointment with a local rep, worth it if you can. 

Good luck. 

Kev.

User
Posted 07 Mar 2024 at 15:33

The best bit of advice I can give you is to make sure you don’t suck up any loose skin/scrotum around the base of your penis, using one hand to hold the scrotum down. try the various black insert rings to prevent this. I found that the only way I could get a decent erection was to insert cylinder B inside cylinder C and then use only the larger of the 2 black rings. You may not have a B cylinder, I only got it because I have the Somacorrect for my Peyronie’s disease.

If you are hung like a donkey then you might just get away with the large cylinder and large black ring….or you might even need the extra large cyclinder!😱

you do need to practice and experiment, don’t give up just try different things. Use plenty of lube. I buy mine from Asda as it’s much cheaper and every bit as good.

Happy Pumping😉

Derek

Edited by member 07 Mar 2024 at 15:34  | Reason: Not specified

User
Posted 07 Mar 2024 at 15:37

HI Stevie

If you like to message me privately I can send you a short video showing you a short cut to achieving a full erection in a few minutes without too much mess! - of course you must first get used to using the pump for may be a couple of weeks.

 

 'Physics is like sex: sure, it may give some practical results, but that’s not why we do it.'                    Richard Feynman (1918-1988) Nobel Prize laureate

 

 

User
Posted 07 Mar 2024 at 15:54

Thanks for the replies gents, I don't need to worry about the folks from the donkey sanctuary calling by to help out so the normal rings are fine for me👍

I'd like to see the link, Pratap, but it won't let me send PMs as I haven't posted enough times so far. I'm happy to put my spare email here if that's ok?

Steve

User
Posted 07 Mar 2024 at 16:10
I don't know what others think about this but when using the pump (and now I'm on injections too) I have found that being aroused makes a big difference - if your partner isn't around or in the mood then an ipad/tablet and a web browser might be able to supply the necessary.

It seems to make a big (excuse the pun) difference for me between being aroused or not - at least worth a try to see if it makes any difference.

User
Posted 07 Mar 2024 at 17:28

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member
I don't know what others think about this but when using the pump (and now I'm on injections too) I have found that being aroused makes a big difference - if your partner isn't around or in the mood then an ipad/tablet and a web browser might be able to supply the necessary.
It seems to make a big (excuse the pun) difference for me between being aroused or not - at least worth a try to see if it makes any difference.

I reckon the reason why is that if you are aroused your penis will be a better fit for the pump, so you’ll not suck in so much scrotum. I actually found it very difficult to stop this happening. Unfortunately with zero libido, I’m more likely to get aroused by a Costa Coffee web page than pornhub🤣🤣🤣🤣now how did I know that name?🤔🤔🤔

User
Posted 07 Mar 2024 at 21:59

Hi Steve

Starting with a limp penis is difficult but after some experience it is possible. I normally start with a little bit of an erection (for all practical purposes I have suffered from ED after my prostatectomy) because I pump myself up after foreplay when my wife fondles my penis before I retire to our bathroom so that my penis isn't totally limp. It helps if you hold the pump a few degrees below the horizontal position and also to start with don't press the pump too firmly on the pubic area. If my scrotum get pulled in a little I still continue with pumping to acquire some length, release the vacuum and start again pulling the scrotum away from the base of the cylinder. It is like a lot of things in life all it needs is patience and practice.

Edited by member 07 Mar 2024 at 22:00  | Reason: Not specified

 'Physics is like sex: sure, it may give some practical results, but that’s not why we do it.'                    Richard Feynman (1918-1988) Nobel Prize laureate

 

 

 
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