Hi Tony
I'm in the same boat, my catheter came out on 17th March and I have leaked in the same way. I'm OK at night and mornings are sometimes OK but I leak when I move around. If I go for a walk it seems to flow with every step until my pad is absolutely soaked and heavy.
I am making myself go out and see people(wearing the right pad) as otherwise I'd go insane.
Everyone says its early days and can take a long time to sort out. Some have seen changes after 4 weeks as I think that's when some stitches dissolve. Sometimes it seems to take a lot longer to improve.
Yeah, you shouldn't overdo the kegel exercises which is frustrating as you feel you want to do more to fight it. I'm trying to walk as much as I can wearing heavy pads and doing other gentle stretching around the pelvic area/legs to keep everything strong as I can. I think it takes time to see benefit from the kegels as everything is still healing.
I think for now it's a question of patience and getting your head round it(I'm finding it very depressing but doing my best to remain positive.) There are lots of muscles and nerves that take time to heal and so we have to let them get on with it.
A good diet is important. I'm avoiding alcohol ,coffee, chocolate, citrus, spicy food, too many tomatoes, salty foods and trying to eat fresh veg chicken fish etc- anything that could annoy the bladder is avoided as much as possible.
In the morning I'm trying to go without a pad for as long as I can to stop my brain getting reliant on having a pad and it just makes me feel a bit more normal too....
Hope things improve quickly for you(and me!)
Good luck
Mike. (Ps lf I get to the 6 week point and it's still bad I'll ask the surgeon to see a uro physio and have electric stimulation of the sphincter)
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