Hi Barry,
Hay mentions, "I notice he leaves the bedroom before we have sex."
By this, I assume that they share the same bed, and that following a bit of foreplay he leaves the room, and when he comes back they have sexual intercourse.
The only reasons I can think of him doing this is to further stimulate himself, by penile injections or other means, or maybe to have a pee if he suffers from climacturia?
It's embarrassing for most men to admit that they have problems and need 'additional help' to get fully aroused. It's may be why he leaves the room, to do this in private, before returning 'ready for action'
To be able to better advise the lady, it would help if we knew if her fella has had prostate cancer, if so how was it treated, and has it left him with any erectile problems.
Edited by member 02 Aug 2025 at 05:26
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