A very quick update,
Got a call this morning from the hospital ( after yesterday when he seemed much improved although very confused). To come ASAP he had been sick in the night and aspirated.
He has a lung infection and is now on IV Aunty Bs and it seems we are pretty much back to the situation we where in a few weeks ago . Albeit he is now much weaker ,
I have to be honest and the situation looks pretty grim he has been placed back on the Amber Pathway ( ie no improvement in the next 24/48hrs and they will withdraw treatment).
The Wiz has visited and as you know she is a no nonesence Gal and said even if he pulls through this episode and that’s a big IF then we are looking at maximum 8 weeks .
She said today that she would have stopped Abbi at the next visit ( I had already guessed this ) . Chemo has always been to risky and he is know way to weak to cope .
At the moment he is to weak to be transferred to a hospice so I will leave that for another day.
They are going to deactivate his defibrillator because if he goes into cardiac arrest it will fire automatically and cause him more distress.
At the moment there is only one phrase that springs to mind and that is
It’s Goodnight from Him and it’s Goodnight from Me.
BFN
Julie X
Edited by member 27 Oct 2017 at 19:17
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