Hi, new to the group. My husband has an enlarged prostate. Had the usual investigations and biopsy, no cancer thankfully.
He has lost all interest in any physical contact with me. He will give me a kiss and hug before work, after work and before bed. He tells me he loves me.
I thought I had done something wrong or he'd just gone off me, he says not. He's just says he has no desire or urge for love making.
I know he has problems getting and keeping an election, since the biopsy there was very little semen when he did manage it.
I have found out he was sending personal pictures to people he was talking too and this really hurt me badly. Why I asked him why he said it was to see if he could still do it. Anyway after a very long talk he tried explaining how it felt but couldn't, he's not good with feelings and emotions.
What I want to know from you men is can you explain to me the feelings or changes in sensation around that area. One chap I spoke to said he just couldn't feel anything when he got an erected.
I know my hubby would love to have sex again but just doesn't know what to do about it