Hi fizzle forever,
Thanks for posting that - I'm heading towards removal of the post-operative catheter, so I'll put my hand up to being nervous about regaining continence. At one level, my concerns are quite preposterous though as I've done a lot of care work with people (elderly frail, learning disabled, physically disabled, etc) many of whom had significant incontinence issues. But on the other hand, us men do tend to panic a bit at the thought of losing control of some area of functioning that we thought we had "sorted". Realistically, whichever way it turns out to be for me, I'm just going to have to find ways of dealing with it and managing the situation. But, it IS good to know that it isn't always that much of a downer.