Sorry to read about your situation. It is true that urine infections, recent sexual activity, or cycling can all cause raised PSA levels. But, given the prostate “didn’t feel great” it’s best to get things checked now.
If he doesn’t have prostate cancer great but if he does treating as early as possible is crucial.
The waiting is very difficult but it’s best to find out one way or the other. Ignoring it isn’t a good idea.
Please let us know how he gets on and come back with any further questions.
Also if there is a Maggie’s centre within a reasonable travelling time you could make an appointment to speak to someone there, they are there for cancer patients, spouses/partners, family and friends.
Maggie’s has been a great resource for me when I needed it, they are very knowledgeable and caring.