At last, my penile implant

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Posted 03 Aug 2022 at 11:47

Hopefully they’ve saved all your sensation to reach orgasm ??

As for the weight of it , ever since my surgery I switched from boxers / trunks to normal pull-on underpants. They support everything nice down there. Are you wearing these ? Good luck

User

Posted 03 Aug 2022 at 12:08

Still good (dry) orgasms. A bit harder to achieve but that's not an issue.

And yes, I wear supportive briefs.

User

Posted 03 Aug 2022 at 14:02

Enjoy!! Great news!

User

Posted 03 Aug 2022 at 15:05

Good to hear that your magic rod has not disappointed. I did see a Youtube video where they made the inflating and deflating process seem so simple!

User

Posted 03 Aug 2022 at 16:01

Really pleased for you Ulsterman - it was a big decision

"Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards." Soren Kierkegaard

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Posted 03 Aug 2022 at 16:10

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member

Really pleased for you Ulsterman - it was a big decision

😆 No pun intended Lyn 😆

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Posted 03 Aug 2022 at 21:13

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member

One week after launch date, I'm happily in orbit.

We're getting there.

Well done And keep it up Rocket Man

Cheers

Bill

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Posted 03 Aug 2022 at 23:05

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member

Really pleased for you Ulsterman - it was a big decision

😆 No pun intended Lyn 😆

😳

"Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards." Soren Kierkegaard

User

Posted 03 Sep 2022 at 16:51

wow, you have been through the ringer!

I had my implant on 16th August 2022 in Bristol, only after extensive research, and have an excellent outcome and only slight irritation from placement of the reservoir, after being released the following morning.

An initial pumped up erection for 6 weeks is the only interesting aspect so far. Going forward I have purchased a selection of underwear recommended to give room and support for the artificial enhancements.

There is a huge amount of information on franktalk (USA) about everything ED and more, including tablets, injections and implants.

take a look at this series of blogs by one of the American top specialist surgeons. https://peritourology.com/meet-the-penis-episodes/

The one thing that is always pushed is ensuring a higher volume surgeon is used.

Mike

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Posted 04 Sep 2022 at 09:11

Thank you so much Ulsterman for your wonderful resilience, both in terms of all the pain and discomfort and also staying with this thread and keep us all informed throughout your huge investment and the literal ups and downs that came with it. I admire the way you keep your sense of humour throughout! And big thanks for all the information - real live stories unfolding somehow teach me more than reading up dry summaries online.

So glad your implant is giving you something that is much more fun than cycling!!!

User

Posted 04 Sep 2022 at 10:55

So, it's been almost 3 months since the implant was fitted. What are my thoughts?

The invicorp injections I used only produced an erection for me of 45 minutes. I couldn't use 2 injections on the same day. To me, this wasn't giving me enough control over my erections.

I was officially only get to get 5 injections per month on the NHS. That just wasn't enough.

When I used Invicorp, my penis was still very sensitive. It is definitely less sensitive with the implant.

When I used invicorp it was easy to reach orgasm. With the implant, it is a bit more of an effort.

I'm still struggling with inflation and deflation. Nowhere near as problematic as at first, but it's not as simple as 'press here'. I have a telephone consultation coming up. I'm going to ask for it to be changed to a face to face appointment and ask them to check if the implant is working properly. I think there's quite possibly something wrong with although it's most likely me not getting to grips with it.

The implant section in the scrotum is bulky and heavy. I think they could really improve on the design.

I think on reading this you can tell that I am not 100% happy with the implant. It is better than the injections overall, but if there had been an injection that acted say more like cialis, I think that would have better.

I suppose what I'm saying is that the implant does it's job but it's not a perfect solution. I think it's design could be improved upon.

I don't think I have regrets but I am somewhat disappointed. It is definitely the best solution for my circumstances but not the perfect solution. That doesn't exist yet, I know.

What would be useful would be to hear from men a bit further down the road than me who are happy with their implants. I don't want any of my reservations or experiences to put anyone off, but do do your research if you're considering this operation.

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User

Posted 04 Sep 2022 at 14:06

Still early days Ulsterman??

I suspect the orgasm thing is also a mental thing, I am having the best sex ever in my life but still occasionally, orgasm is elusive. I read somewhere that it is a lesser known side effect of the op.

User

Posted 04 Sep 2022 at 15:25

Very sorry mate to hear you are a bit dissatisfied. I know my path is different but I think down the line after surgery sensation deteriorates. I’m lucky enough even after 2 yrs of HT I can still get an erection and have penetrative sex , but the orgasm bit has become a bit elusive also. Not sure whether it’s physical or mental or both. But I do know despite an incurable prognosis that I still want and enjoy sex whether it be giving or receiving. It’s all good healthy fun whatever the outcome. Keep going and keep strong. Good luck

User

Posted 05 Sep 2022 at 09:35

I also had a different path, but want to chime in about "orgasm has become a bit elusive" - I am experiencing that myself and hear so many other men saying the same across a range of treatment experiences. I am exploring alternatives - what I call "mini-peaks" that can happen more frequently, almost as deliciously as the traditional orgasm and leave me pretty satisfied. Still a bit queasy about giving up on the big O but working with my new body and what pleases it.

User

Posted 05 Sep 2022 at 11:30

I had RT and HT so not quite as traumatic damage to me as an RP patient, but ED is a bit of a problem. As far as erections are concerned Avanafil has made these strong enough for penetrative sex.

Orgasms are dry but otherwise just as good as before. I know a side effect of sertraline a common anxiety drug is lack of orgasm. It is not unusual for cancer patients to be on drugs to improve mental health so it might be worth looking up the side effects of other medication you are on.

Dave

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Posted 05 Nov 2022 at 12:55

5 month update

Think carefully and do your research if you are considering an implant. I'd probably do it again, but I do have reservations.

The pump mechanism in the scrotum is hard and heavy. I really don't like it. I'm sure they could design a more modern, less heavy pump.

The inflate/deflate mechanism is tricky to use. It is not as easy as turning the lights on and off. Once again, I wouldn't let this put you off getting an implant, but the demonstrator model they show you at the hospital is easier to use than the fitted implant. You need to be aware of that.

My penis has lost some sensitivity. It's got plastic bits in it and tubes. It does still work though. I still have good dry orgasms.

I can have an erection when I want.

Deflation doesn't always work as well as it should. I run around with a semi most of the time.

The head of my penis doesn't plump up as well as it should. The hospital prescribed muse gel to put in the urethra. Immediately the pain was intolerable. That was why I had to move to invicorp. I wonder does invicorp have a pain free urethral gel.

So, not 100% happy. Just wanting to be honest. There are improvements to be made to this device.

If I could have had unlimited invicorp injections I would have stuck with that.

In the absence of a more satisfactory solution, this is a good solution, but not a brilliant one.

User

Posted 05 Nov 2022 at 13:15

Thanks Ulsterman. Managing to get the thing in the first place was a major achievement. Balancing the pros and cons is only possible once we have a guinea pig (that's you) to try it. Prostate cancer is a life changing disease we just have to make the best of it. Clear information like this, from you this will help people in the future.

Dave

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Posted 05 Nov 2022 at 13:57

Thanks Ulsterman for this update. Will be interesting to see how you feel about it over time. I have seen a lot of folks say that short term they wondered why they did it but longer term they were pretty satisfied.

I also have ED after non nerve sparing surgery. Plus now on HT (soon to start chemo plus RT) for persistent PSA after the op. I have access to unlimited Caverject under the Irish health system but Invicorp is not licensed here. The disadvantage of Caverject is that after sex it takes about 1-2 hours for the erection to subside and it can be painful. At those times the prospect of a deflate button on the prosthesis seems appealing.

User

Posted 05 Nov 2022 at 23:24

Great honest account ulsterman. I do wish I was reading it’s the best thing you ever did but you will really help others when considering this path. Glad there are some positives with it too 👍

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Posted 06 Nov 2022 at 00:13

Thanks UlsterMan for the update. I am glad there are some positives to take away from it. Your account has just reinforced my belief that, this route is not something you would take lightly.

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