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Posted 18 Oct 2025 at 01:37

I'm sat on my own in the virtual pub. Where's all the other pint loving, insomniacs when you need them.

 Phil was a regular here. He loved a virtual pint of Spitfire. We miss him very much. 

As a sign of respect, it's nice, that no-one uses his bar stool and that we've hung a photo of him, astride his 1973 Kawasaki s2A 350 triple 2 stroke, behind the bar.

Here's to you, mate. 🍺

Edited by member 19 Oct 2025 at 06:24  | Reason: Additional text

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Posted 19 Oct 2025 at 22:24

Here! Here! Here’s to you Phil 🍺🍺🍺. Free pints in heaven 😬 and now watching Spurs losing from above πŸ˜‡

Apologies, I’ve been off line, my phone not telling me if any new posts.

Got to tell you this. My old work colleague won a box at City in an auction, we went yesterday vs Barnsley. What a fabulous entertaining experience. 22000 there, superb atmosphere and a Barnsley fella scored a worldly lobbing our 6ft 5 goalie from well within his own half. Free booze and tiffin in the box - how the other half live eh? Suffice to say I’ve spent today with a bad head and croaky voice - brilliant πŸ˜ƒ

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Posted 19 Oct 2025 at 22:51

Hi Spongebob.

I'm glad you that you had a great day at the footie. I've just viewed the highlights. The goal you described was awesome. 

I watched my 11 year old grandson play yesterday. For almost the entire match he kept his team in the game. He made several stunning saves and saved a penalty. Then with only 5 minutes left to play, he let in a really soft goal. They lost 1-0. He was gutted. 

Who'd be a goalie? 😩

Edited by member 20 Oct 2025 at 10:04  | Reason: Typo

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Posted 20 Oct 2025 at 13:48

Hi Adrian,

Oh no, he must be gutted! You've got to be on it 100%, haven't you to be a keeper, no mistakes. Even the great Gordon Banks conceded two against the Germans on the greatest day (of course I'm way too young to remember that, first time round). You must be a really proud grandad, how good must it be to watch your grandson play. Hey, I hope you capture some of these precious moments on video, if not do it - something good to look back on. I'm envious. 

I think I've said before that neither of my kids got into football, neither playing or watching. I often wonder where I went wrong πŸ™„. Instead for a time before they both disappeared into their virtual worlds they both did competitive swimming. The eldest got quite good, he's got a draw full of medals and swam regularly at Yorks Champs and North East Regionals giving me some very proud moments to set against the thousands of hours that I spent sitting around swimming pools and playing at Taxi-man. I remember once driving him all the way up to Sunderland, getting up at the crack of dawn so that he got there in time for the 8am warm up then sitting around there waiting most of the day for his 50m backcrawl event which was then over within 30 seconds and then back home again - Nightmare! Footy wins all day long 😬 

Miserable, wet looking day outside, I got up this morning feeling like I'd been knocked over by a bus but still I feel like I should be doing something, I have got stuff to do on the allotment, including a load of onions and garlic to plant, but really? On a day like this - no way Jose πŸ˜„.

Mr S

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Posted 27 Oct 2025 at 18:01

Ooo it’s very quiet in here, got any virtual beer?

Might have to call in the Administrators to wind us up and deduct 12 points 😬

User
Posted 27 Oct 2025 at 18:29
They tried that, apparently they got a "proxy error"!
User
Posted 27 Oct 2025 at 18:30
They tried that, apparently they got a "proxy error"!
User
Posted 27 Oct 2025 at 18:31
They tried that, apparently they got a "502 error"!
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Posted 27 Oct 2025 at 18:31
They tried that, apparently they got a "502 error"!
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Posted 30 Oct 2025 at 00:06
Hi, I'm back.

Had meeting with Oncologist last week. Said that the PSA score was nearly undetectable, lymph nodes had halved, bone lesions have stayed the same, tumour hasn't grown any more. So that's mostly good news. He said I've probably got 3 years 'till the next Chemo.

So now it's a rather head-hurty time, trying to get everything back on track now that I'm starting to recover from the Chemo - last one was about 6 weeks ago. I've got more energy now but the joint pain - especially in my knees - wow. I hobble around like a cripple now.

Still having a few beers but less now since I put so much weight on with the steroids - 3 stone!

Asked the Oncologist about medical cannabis but he is one of those "you must live a totally healthy existence" types. Wanted me to cut out everything and I'm sat there thinking something along the lines of this is the worse time of my life and you are saying I should be having absolutely nothing to alleviate the stress - no alcohol, no nothing.

So to cut a long story short, I acquired some of the "Devil's Lettuce" from an aquaintance and it is helping quite a lot as a muscle relaxant and mood lightener.

We're also putting the house on the market as we can't afford the mortgage with me off work, so have been trying to paint and tidy as much as I can - gives me something to aim for each day.

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Posted 30 Oct 2025 at 07:47

Hi, Al.

Thanks for the update, mate.

It's good that the chemotherapy has proved effective, but the side effects have obviously taken a huge toll.

The physical, mental and financial pressures caused by the disease and the treatment of it, must be very hard to bear. I cannot even image what you're going through, but I'm certain that you're dealing with the situation far better than I could. I just wish there was something I could do or say to make things a little easier for you.

As for being told to abstain from things that you enjoy and relieve some stress. I think, in your position, I'd do whatever I wanted, to improve my quality of life.

Edited by member 30 Oct 2025 at 09:04  | Reason: Additional text

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Posted 30 Oct 2025 at 11:13
Hi Al,

Very glad the chemo has been effective. There are different schools of thought on alchohol. My husband’s doctor is very focused on QOL. He actually encouraged him to have at least a beer each evening straight after surgery! They chat about beer, wine, and whisky. I’d wondered why people don’t post about things like the Devil’s Lettuce and the like. I’m really glad this is helping you. Wishing you loads of strength with it all.

User
Posted 30 Oct 2025 at 22:38
Lettuce is probably a much better alternative than beer, devilled or not!
User
Posted 31 Oct 2025 at 19:49

Hi Al,

Sounds like a really positive update, good stuff. Shame about the house but what can you do. Did you manage to get up to the Scottish Isles? (Hope I’m remembering right, it was your plan?).

I remember the reaction of my Oncologist when I told him how much I drank, he nearly fell of his chair 😬. I still drink but admittedly much less, sometimes it knocks me out, but there’s got to be some pleasure to be had somehow.

Keep going, enjoy your lettuce, sounds more exciting than anything I’ve managed to grow on the allotment.

Anyway, the wife is away, so it’s defo going to be a weekend of beer and footy for me πŸΊπŸ€“

Cheers 502 allowing,

Spongebob

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Posted 01 Nov 2025 at 00:13

Come on chaps, we seem to be failing to match up to the label on the door, is it because of the 502s???

We should be having a good old chat! Here I am, the missus is away, I’m several beers gone and now on the wine at 12. Footy finished, the Welsh won (I honestly don’t give a fig but I wish they would learn a new song because I know its the land of their fathers with heavingly bread for men of Harlech). Just you all enjoy driving everywhere at 20mph and don’t bring that over here!!!

Anyway, just watching some ‘Caught on Dashcam’ with the sound turned down, but with my Spotify playlist giving it some.

What are all you guys up to?

Spongebob.

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Posted 01 Nov 2025 at 00:55

Don’t worry, I’m off home, see ya πŸ₯Έ

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Posted 01 Nov 2025 at 08:30

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member
Come on chaps, we seem to be failing to match up to the label on the door, is it because of the 502s???

Hi, Spongebob.

Sorry, I missed you, mate. I had a very early night, in bed before 9pm! I hate winter and could hibernate through it.

The 502 problem doesn't appear to be improving much and people are certainly posting less often than they used to.

I miss Phil as well. Being one of the regulars, the place doesn't seem quite the same without him. 

I hope you enjoy your bachelor weekend, mate. Plenty of ale and sport. I'll be watching the women's world cup one day international final on Sunday; the men's rugby league, England v Australia today, and lots of football in between. No booze, though. I'm still off it, nearly two months now! I might treat myself to a couple of cases of Guinness zero.

As my wife is at home, I shall have to pay a price for watching the sport. I'll have to accompany her to a couple Christmas craft fairs. Oh the pain! Hours of pretending to be thrilled by overpriced Yuletide tat.

Edited by member 01 Nov 2025 at 08:39  | Reason: Spelling

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Posted 01 Nov 2025 at 08:52

Adrian,sorry about the yellow card, I was having a particularly bad day, the words we write don't always reflect the emotion behind them. I did leave it to the discretion of the mods, any other day I would have laughed. I will say again, You do a great job on here. So again apologies for the report.☹️

Thanks Chris 

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Posted 01 Nov 2025 at 11:50

Hi Chris.

No hard feelings, and I dont mean my ED. 😁

Trying to lighten the mood on a cancer forum is very difficult. Humour is very subjective, you'll never please everyone all of the time.

Edited by member 01 Nov 2025 at 19:25  | Reason: Rearrange text

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Posted 04 Nov 2025 at 12:04
Good moaning all,

Just a thought, if Rachel would consider taxing the use of the 502 error code then it might fill a chunk of her black hole?

I’ve got my ELEVENTH Prostap jab coming up on Friday and then there will just be two more left before I can have my Independence Day!

Here we are, and as I temporarily clear my Prostap induced head fuzziness I realise that it is bonfire night tomorrow. WowWee, remember folks, when we were kids how bonfire night used to be the 2nd most exciting day of the year (2nd after Christmas day, or maybe 3rd after birthday too). For 3-4 weeks or more beforehand our little gang would be out every evening chumping – that’s collecting wood or anything that would burn, to go on the bonfire. We would have to take care hiding it in our gardens to prevent other gangs from pinching it all. Mind you we would do our fair share of raiding too. Every house on our corner of the state would take it in turn to host the bonfire each year, even those households without kids would be involved. Old Mr Sellars at the top always used to donate one of his hats for the guy.

As kids we were allowed sparklers and flare matches, although to this day I think that little kids waving sparklers were more dangerous than anything, but as we grew older, we were able to get hold of bangers and the much-coveted air bombs. We were little sods, as we would chuck them all over the place and make genies which we made even more explosive if put in an empty grapefruit juice jar – the less said about those escapades the better! So dangerous! The scariest place to be in the days around  bonfire night was at a football match, bangers everywhere, it was completely mad!     

Then the excitement of bonfire night itself. After watching Blue Peter with their warnings to keep safe, my dad would spend time looking through the fireworks he’d bought (‘standard fireworks’) before dutifully putting them into an empty Quality Street tin. We’d get excited by the rockets and other fireworks with names like Vesuvius, Roman Candles, Catherine Wheels etc.  At the bonfire, we would watch the fire being lit and from where we lived, we could see hundreds of other bonfires lighting up the sky across the district. We were allowed to stand close around the fire keeping warm and being fed with hot potatoes washed down with Dandelion & Burdoch. Parents would take in turns to set off their stash, kids having to stand well back. How many times the firework once lit then went out and the parent then going in to inspect and relight – doh! How many times the Catherine wheel would spin off, or a rocket go horizontal instead of up? And those other fireworks that would chase you down the drive and it’s driving me mad trying to remember what they were called. We’d be allowed to stay up late but once to bed I’d stay up by the window watching the fire dying out.

Yep, different days! But in truth they were dangerous times, I know of quite a few kids at the time who got burnt, so it’s understandable how it has been made safe for today’s generation. The last bonfire I attended was a few years ago with my kids. We had to stand about two miles away from the bonfire, although the fireworks display was impressive it isn’t the same is it?    

Anyway, back to reality. I decided to have a go at tweaking my remaining snow white tufts by having a go with ‘Alpecin Gray Attack’ shampoo. Reading the tin it appears to promise just what I was looking for and that is to just to make it a bit more silvery instead of white. I’m a few weeks into this experiment and have just returned from the barbers. Yes, so it is no longer snow white, instead it has taken on a purple tinge just like an old granny’s blue rinse. If I happen to be in a bar lit by UV then my bonce will glow like a beacon! Never again, will I ever learn?

Have a good day all

Spongebob.   

 

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Posted 04 Nov 2025 at 12:23

Hi, Spongebob.

I love your trips down memory lane. I was brought up in a small village, which is now like a small town. All the villagers used to come to the communal playing fields where we'd all contributed to a huge bonfire. 

We'd throw potatoes into the fire and eat them when there were just embers left. They were usually so burnt they were like coal. 

I think we had homemade toffee apples as well, which were equally as unpleasant.

As for hair dying. I tried dying my grey beard. I must have left it on too long and it discoloured my skin for a few days. 😁

Edited by member 22 Nov 2025 at 05:18  | Reason: Typo

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Posted 04 Nov 2025 at 13:24

Spongebob.

Yeah it used to be called bonfire night, because we all had a bonfire to commemorate old Guido ending up on one.

The fireworks were kind of incidental. Like you said a box of standard fireworks or I recall our local newsagent having a pick n mix display of them so you could choose your own. 

Chrysanthemum fountain, mount vesuvius, traffic lights and the ones that chased you round were jumping Jack's.

The ritual of going out Bunny wood collecting started well in advance of Nov 5th, perhaps because we didn't waste october dressing up and begging for sweets door to door like kids do now. Like you said, if it would burn and wasn't nailed down it was fair game, (I recall a load of outside toilet doors going missing one year but they were traced before they could be ignited).

A few years ago I replaced a lot of floor boards in my previous house. It was October so I piled them out the back with a sign saying Bunny wood, help yourself. November 6th? Still there, kids had no concept of what Bunny wood was.

Its now just become about who can have the loudest display or the most expensive mortar bomb. It stretches from Diwali, through Halloween (who the hell decided ghosts needed explosives to scare you), on through fireworks night and into Christmas and then new year. 

Talking about the Genies you used to make, we did the same thing. One year we filled the cup shaped handle recess in a cast iron manhole cover with gunpowder,  placed a couple of paving slabs over it and laid a fuse of gunpowder like the pirates used to. There was no Genie but the manhole cover was blown down into the sewer and the paving slabs went like shrapnel into the sky. Our gang dispersed and were not heard from for several weeks after going into hiding. If any terrorists are reading, you could save a lot of messing about with hair bleach and flour and just buy a s*** ton of fireworks to make your big bangs.... I imagine the government would soon ban them if that happens. 

OK so some of us got burned, some even got dead. But we were happy then, despite being poor. Because we were poor! We were so poor we had to live in't box,  Cardboard box? You were lucky, we had to live in a septic tank. 

 

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Posted 04 Nov 2025 at 14:17
Love these stories!
User
Posted 06 Nov 2025 at 16:05

Hi all,

Good luck with your prostap jab tomorrow Spongebob.

I didn't really get into fireworks, a kid at my school had a lucky escape with a banger where he managed to get burned but didn't lose any fingers. 

As for potatoes, we had a good crop from our allotment, some of them great for jackets or chips. Shame I don't have a fryer anymore, I used to love home made chips. We're storing them in the garage for now. 

I'm busy decorating the kitchen at the mo', we're on the home straight now, ceiling's painted, just a fancy glass splashback, new radiator and paint on the walls and we're done, hopefully before we have all the kids round for our pre Christmas dinner so no pressure. 

Cheers all,

Kev.

 

 

 

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Posted 09 Nov 2025 at 16:32

Did you have to guard your stash of wood whilst your mates  reclaiming wood from others stash 

User
Posted 12 Nov 2025 at 05:55

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member
Did you have to guard your stash of wood whilst your mates  reclaiming wood from others stash 

Yes, I did, mate.πŸ™‚

Now, I'm finding it increasingly difficult to get any 'wood' 😁

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Posted 19 Nov 2025 at 21:46

Hi all, 

 

I’ve been away, Yeay πŸ˜ƒ. It was our silver wedding anniversary, and the missus wanted to commemorate it in Rome. (25 years of the ‘Krankies’, after eloping and getting married in a hotel on the top end of Skye, costing just £90 as a bung to the local vicar. We had the barmaid and bar lad as our witnesses and a lone Chinese woman watching proceedings. I sent postcards to my mum, family and friends to let everyone know what we’d done). 

 

So courtesy of Jet2 and Booking.com we had a 5 day break in Rome last week. My old school mate and his missus gate crashed it and we had a fab time. I’ve since spent the time back home recovering from the vino Rosso alcoholic poisoning 😬. 

 

Remember, The Life of Brian and that question: ‘What did the Romans ever do for us?’, well I found out first hand. We were staying just next to the Colosseum and what an impressive place that is, in fact just how impressive it must have been back in the day with 50,000+ Romans packed in it. You know that they would have all had tickets just like we do today. I loved it Rome, Italians so friendly. Anyway, I definitely recommend if anyone looking for a getaway or to get into the wife’s good books. 

 

Just, caught up on the recent posts, I am well impressived with your gang’s escapades, Mick. To blow up a manhole is something else and dwarfs the small craters we managed to make on the cricket field. We didn’t mention ‘mischief night’, thinking back we were right little sods, I don’t know.

Kev - I’ve also been up the allotment. I only planted early spuds, long since gone. Did you have problems with slugs in yours? I’m hoping to have home grown sprouts, parsnips, onions and apple in our Christmas dinner. It’s all getting very boggy, but I’ve put in garlic and onions to overwinter. I’ve got them growing through some of that membrane stuff to keep the weeds out. 

 

And now we hurtle on towards Christmas, festive adverts have been on the telly since October!!! I wonder if when I drag out my Christmas jumper from my tiny corner of the wardrobe (probably hidden under some of the millions of shoes the wife has) how much festive spirit I will muster this year? I’ll be going into dream state again and think back to Christmases past.

 

Got to get myself a bottle of Madeira in advance to put in the gravy (well a few gluggs goes in the gravy whilst I’m happy to consume the rest whilst cooking the dinner. Yes, I do do the cooking on Christmas Day, only because if the wife did it then her stress levels would be insane making our lives a misery plus she’d bomb the kitchen using every utensil we have.

Enough rambling,

Buononotte 

SpongeBob 

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Posted 20 Nov 2025 at 00:12

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member
I’ve been away, Yeay πŸ˜ƒ. It was our silver wedding anniversary, and the missus wanted to commemorate it in Rome. (25 years of the ‘Krankies’, after eloping and getting married in a hotel on the top end of Skye, costing just £90 as a bung to the local vicar. We had the barmaid and bar lad as our witnesses and a lone Chinese woman watching proceedings. I sent postcards to my mum, family and friends to let everyone know what we’d done). 

Aww Spongebob. You old romantic, eloping to get married. 

I did similar. It was second time around for both of us. We'd been 'living in sin' for eleven years prior to deciding to tie the knot. We didn't tell anyone, not even our grown up kids. We just told them we were having a weeks holiday in Whitby.

We'd booked a slot at Scunny register office. As we were driving there we didn't even have any witnesses arranged. I went into the health and safety offices, next to the registry office, and managed to persuade two people working there to act as witnesses.

We then went on holiday.

For over six years we kept it a secret. The kids were amazed when we eventually told them.

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Posted 21 Nov 2025 at 16:19

Hey Adrian,

It doesn't get any more romantic than a Scunthorpe Registry Office 😁 - tremendous! 

Talking of Scunthorpe, I notice the Iron doing rather well in the Non-League, fingers crossed that they can get back up. Scandalous what happened there.

It's been bloody freezing over here the last couple of days, proper brass monkeys. But, I'm looking forward to a few Friday night beers at home in my chair tonight whilst the wife will be busying herself in the kitchen making a fancy birthday cake for her friend's birthday party. She's made an excuse for me so I don't have to go to the party, yippeee! But what do I read into this, could it be that I am an embarrassment, not to be seen arm in in arm with the wife in front of her friends?  Or could it be that she doesn't want me there or perhaps her friend doesn't want me there? Or the more likely is that she knows that I wouldn't enjoy it. Questions, questions, not that I care a jot.

I think it might be Preston vs Blackburn on the box tonight, might be good to watch our Lancashire neighbours battling it out. I used to work in Preston, so hope they do well. Mind you I don't mind Blackburn despite going there for a game in the late 80s only to find that I was one of thousands who couldn't get in the ground because it was full (they lacked foresight in those days or couldn't be bothered making games all ticket). That taught me never to spend any time stopping off for a pre-match pint in Ramsbottom ever again. Worse was that as we were returning to the car we heard a huge home roar as Blackburn took an early lead.

You know, just one more moan but these 502s are now beyond a joke aren't they?

Have a good weekend,

Enjoy πŸ˜„

Spongebob

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Posted 21 Nov 2025 at 18:46

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member
 But, I'm looking forward to a few Friday night beers at home in my chair tonight whilst the wife will be busying herself in the kitchen making a fancy birthday cake for her friend's birthday party. She's made an excuse for me so I don't have to go to the party, yippeee! But what do I read into this, could it be that I am an embarrassment, not to be seen arm in in arm with the wife in front of her friends?  Or could it be that she doesn't want me there or perhaps her friend doesn't want me there? Or the more likely is that she knows that I wouldn't enjoy it. Questions, questions, not that I care a jot.

Hello mate.

Those are the sort of questions I'm asking myself more often.

Since my prostatectomy, I've lost a lot of self-esteem. I think it can lead to paranoia. 

I started a conversation on it today.

https://community.prostatecanceruk.org/posts/t32119-Body-image--self-esteem-and-masculinity

Anyway, enough of the serious stuff. I hope that you enjoy the footie and a few beers. I loved the Scotland v Denmark match! I'm still on the wagon. I haven't had any booze for 75 days, not that I'm counting. πŸ™„

My goalkeeping grandson has now also started playing rugby. I think he's a natural, big, strong and fast. He loves wearing a scrum cap, putting in his gumshield and getting stuck in. I got him his first rugby boots today. SIZE NINE and he's only just turned twelve years old.

I'll be watching him play football tomorrow and rugby on Sunday. His sport has become the highlight of my life. 

The 502 errors are doing my head in! The other day, I got so many that I flounced out of the forum. I was back again, in less than an hour. πŸ˜‚

Edited by member 21 Nov 2025 at 19:51  | Reason: Additional text

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Posted 21 Nov 2025 at 19:58

Hi Adrian,

10 out of 10 for been off the booze for so long. I'll be well impressed if you can keep that going over Christmas. You must be saving a fortune - mind you rugby boots don't come cheap. I really envy you having such a sporty grandson, it must be great watching him every week. Rugby is a great game to play at that age, from what I saw there was definitely a lot more emphasis on having fun compared to the footy which was all too serious and I think off putting for my kids anyway.

I saw the Scotland v Denmark game. I'm pleased for the Jocks they have waited such a long time. Mind you, Denmark were all over them, in fact they were absolutely battering Scotland until the sending off which was a bit of a harsh call to say the least, but that's football these days isn't it.

Anyway onto the beer

😁

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Posted 21 Nov 2025 at 20:07

Here’s a Friday evening consideration:
So 😬, in my downstairs toilet I have a photo print of Manuel with his pet hamster Basil from Fawlty Towers. I also have a photo print of Ronnie Barker as Arkwright in Open All hours. And a group picture of Captain Blackadder, Lieutenant George, Private Baldrick from Blackadder Goes Forth. And a picture of the Starship Enterprise crew (original William Shatner and co of course) complete with  headline: “to boldly go where no man has been before”. Unfortunately though, my photo print of the Dad’s Army cast keeps falling off the wall, I need to get some extra strong wall sticky stuff!

What do you reckon? I’m looking next at something from Allo Allo along perhaps with a copy of the painting of the Fallen Madonna with the big boobies. There were so many fantastic characters in Allo Allo, so much choice and so little space.

πŸ€”

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Posted 21 Nov 2025 at 21:12

My downstairs loo decorations include 3 brass, flying geese and 3 pot, flying ducks.

I also have a set of 3 prints of dogs dressed in clothes, peeing against a wall, and at some cats sat on top of the wall. I've just googled them. Apparently they are signed originals from the Dirty Dogs of Paris collection and signed by the artist Boris O'Klein. My wife has given them provenance. She purchased them in the French capital, 35 years ago. This was well before I met her, when she obviously still had good taste.

I've never thought much about them. But from the research, that you prompted,  I've just discovered they might be worth a few quid. I may now re-site them from the bog to the hallway. 😁

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Posted 21 Nov 2025 at 21:28

“ 3 pot, flying ducks.” - πŸ¦†πŸ¦†πŸ¦†

That’s class 😬.

User
Posted 21 Nov 2025 at 21:55

Just like them flying across Hilda Ogden's mural or muriel as she called it. 😁

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Posted 22 Nov 2025 at 21:37
Can you please, please stop talking about toilets and ducks.

We are in Perth, Australia for the first test of the Ashes.

There were far too many ducks on the scoreboard and the portaloos after the game were worthy of being both chemical and biological weapons.

We are off to the beach to try and forget, just like Beau Geste in the foreign legion.

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Posted 22 Nov 2025 at 22:10

Unfortunately, and I say this as an Australian, it looks as though the current crop of cricket players have totally forgotten how to play the long form game. 

No thanks to Kerry Packer all those years ago, for starting the rot.

Portaloos!?!? For a relatively new ground, that's disappointing. Building new stadiums seems to have become a status symbol in this country rather like the Romans and their widely spread amphitheatres/[colosseums].

Jules

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Posted 23 Nov 2025 at 05:34
Its absolutely true, they are not playing test cricket, they are playing T20, limited overs and The Hundred so much that trat cricket is beyond them. No patience at all, just swing out and hope for the best.

Zak Crawley has been gifted a place as an opener for too long, very rarely living up to his promise.

Now as a result of a rushed and disappointing match people are out of pocket and pretty disgruntled.

The stadium had planned for five days of 40,000 plus spectators, thats a lot of beer and chips to send back. The toilets were poor, huge queues at every break and portaloos outside that were disgusting.

And still the stadium wasn't full, and still they intend sticking another 9000 seats on top in the near future. I think you are right about the roman connection, but this place is just too big.

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Posted 23 Nov 2025 at 16:25

Woa - I’m not going anywhere where there’s a lack of toilet facilities. Do they do that to deprive the dunny spiders somewhere to live? So that’s Australia off my list 😬.

Enjoy down under Mick, at least you’ll get some pleasure in watching the water drain out the plug hole the wrong way around.

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Posted 23 Nov 2025 at 16:46
There's a problem with that. Our hotel has a plug less wash basin, so you have to leave the tap running to get enough water for a shave. Then it takes ten minutes for the basin to empty with no swirly vortex

We are off to sub tropical Brisbane today. It was jumpers and rain coats in Perth this afternoon.

There was a pride festival on yesterday morning, music, dancing, food stalls. We decided to give the jacket potato van a wide berth; "Spunky spuds"

Would you like our standard dressing or the extra thick?

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Posted 23 Nov 2025 at 18:43
Always extra thick, but wouldn't touch potato's spunky or not, way to many carbs.
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Posted 23 Nov 2025 at 20:21

Now just a distant memory. 😭

Edited by member 23 Nov 2025 at 20:26  | Reason: Typo

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Posted 23 Nov 2025 at 20:41

Mick - what disappointment, you've got to find a proper basin mate and watch those suds whirling round the wrong way!

It's a good job, I read about your spunky spuds after already having had my tea, it would have put me off big time. Best stick to the veggemite, at least you don't know what they put in that!

What's the beer like down there, is it really all cold fizzy siht? And is there really a little wooden cabin on every surfer's beach with a couple of cobbers in it taking phone calls from saddo's from England? 

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Posted 01 Dec 2025 at 16:07

Well here we are, it's December already. It's a very wet miserable day outside, no good for doing anything and time to put together a bit of a story, so here goes, get a cup of tea and have a read 😁:

It was one of those holidays where everything seemed to go wrong. A ‘boys’ trip in the 90s, to France, just me and my old school mate, we were in our 30s at the time, single and still very much young at heart. We’d previously spent most of our holiday trips going to the Lakes and to Scotland, and so for a change we planned to go to France for two weeks where we would spend the first week in the Pyrenees for some hiking and mountain biking followed by a second week ‘living it up’ at a poor man’s version of the French Riviera somewhere on the French Med.

During the holiday, we experienced all the typical types of mishaps that you might reasonably expect on such an excursion, such as almost accidentally burning down the pokey Pyrenean Hobbit hole ‘holiday cottage’ that we were staying in which was only fit for Troglodyte habitation. This mishap only occurred because we’d forgotten about our stew which had been bubbling away on the oven for hours whilst we were getting pi$$ed up sitting outside on the terrace in the sun – doh!

That Hobbit house really was a strange place, it had a weird atmosphere, it was cold and so dark inside it, with very narrow corridors, pokey dark rooms and steep stairs. I think even Gandolf would have treaded very carefully to find his way around in there. And, I had weird crazy, bizarre dreams every night but maybe they were induced by an excess intake of wine.

And also, quite predictably, the car broke down one day on a trip up to Andorra which resulted in a nightmare afternoon spent sweating cobs inside an extremely hot rustic garage whilst attempting with great difficulty to converse with the schoolgirl daughter of the non-English speaking mechanic using ‘O’ level ‘D’ grade schoolboy French to try to understand what was needed to get the car fixed - “la voiture est en panne” was pretty much all we could agree on.

It was the thermostat which was ‘en panne’ (knackered), causing the radiator to overheat and blow, apparently a common scenario for cars traipsing up the long steep mountains in the Pyrenees in summer where we saw numerous breakdown trucks waiting in strategically placed laybys. These breakdown trucks would then rescue stricken vehicles and tow them off down the mountain to garages some 20-30 miles away, where, let’s face it they had you by the bollox. Good job we had RAC cover!

I remember being tremendously disappointed with Andorra once we finally made it there. I hope it has since changed for better, but back then it resembled a far west frontier town as it seemed to be mostly frequented by ‘white van man’ loading up their vans with crates of cans of booze from any number of duty-free booze shops.

And then, annoyingly, my Olympus Trip camera, which was loaded with all our holiday snaps was accidentally knocked into the depths of a deep Pyrenean River. Although, I managed to retrieve it, none of the photos survived.

And, laughingly as we made our way down through France to the Hobbit holiday cottage in the Pyrenees, we stopped over for a night in the town of Vienne which is just south of Lyon, only to find the next morning that we couldn’t leave when we wanted to because the local market had set up all its stalls, during the night, on and around our car. They were selling veg off the bonnet of the car! That took some doing, extricating the car from the middle of the market to get back out on the road again.

The holiday wasn’t a total mess though; we did experience some bright spots. We had our mountain bikes with us, although back in those days our bikes more resembled a farm gate with wheels on it or actually more like a piece of scaffolding rather than a finely tuned beast of a bike. We set off to ride up Pic de Canigou, a massive Pyrennean mountain.

The offroad track snaked its way up, winding itself, loop after loop after loop up the mountain, seemingly for miles and especially given how hot it was we didn’t do too bad in the end. I reckon that we must have got pretty near the top before we decided enough was enough.

Going back down was something else, just how fast we were going, scary, what a thrill, wow! Surprisingly, given that it was offroad we encountered a convoy of German campervans making their way down. We took great delight in buzzing them just like the 633 squadron, it was brilliant! They might have realised we were ‘Englanders’ because we overtook them on their right side.

And, thinking back, even at the very start of our trip in Blighty, we’d totally mis-judged the time it would take to get down to the ferry. In our defence it was way back in 1995, when remember it was a time way-back before Sat-Navs existed other than in Star Trek. Strangely, our ferry was not going from Dover but instead from Ramsgate, the Sally Line. My sister worked as a freight forwarder and she was able to get us cheap Sally Line ferry tickets.  

It was all good, but we were miles short of time, and we arrived in Ramsgate far too late and consequently missed the ferry which then meant that we had a considerable wait for the next one. The ferry sailings were a few hours apart not like these days on the Chunnel with trains every 20 mins or so. Have you ever spent a few hours in Ramsgate killing time? Say no more. Then because we arrived in France later than we’d planned, we decided to cut our losses and quickly agreed to find a stopover to spend the night at the nearest town which turned out to be St Omer.

St Omer looked like a fine old French town. We considered ourselves lucky to find a hotel right near it’s centre and then after clocking in we went straight out for a night ‘on the town’. And we proceeded to have a right good night, mainly because we met up with a bunch of friendly ‘Frenchies’ who didn’t mind that I conversed using my ‘schoolboy’ French. It has got to be said that my ability to speak French seemed to improve significantly as the night wore on, to the point where in my mind I was speaking it like a native by the end of the night.

The experience reflected a totally different world for us, this place in France was so very different to being back at home. I particularly remember the toilets in the bar which had a Western style saloon swing door and where the girls would walk past as we stood in there peeing, wow, those crazy French, weird. There’s a point though, incredible to think that back in those days I could have probably easily pee’d 10ft high up a wall, amazing when compared miserably to my today’s dribbling efforts!

By the end of the night, we were all very sozzled, on cheap French or Belgian bier, and we were amazed to see that the ‘Frenchies’ got into their cars and sped off. We sensibly refused all offers of a lift and we left our newly found French friends and then staggered around the cobbled streets looking to get back to our hotel. I’m not sure now if the streets were actually cobbled, but hopefully you get the picture.

When we finally arrived back at the hotel it was shuttered up and very dark with no lights on anywhere. We tried the front door, and it was locked. We tried knocking but there was absolutely no response from within, and it was apparent after what seemed like an eternity standing outside that we were well and truly locked out. Up a foreign creek perhaps without a proverbial paddle. What to do? What to do?

We decided to scout the hotel to see if there was any other entrance and we did have some hope as we remembered the car park which was around the back in a courtyard. Yes, we remembered that there was a door there. And we had some luck when we got to the huge gate/door to the carpark itself as we fortunately found that it was not locked. So, we managed to get in and then we were able to approach the back door of the hotel.

The courtyard/carpark was overlooked by bedrooms of two or three floors of the hotel but at this hour all was very quiet, not a peep or a light on anywhere. We couldn’t believe it when we tried the back door to find that it too was also locked. Our luck was definitely awry on that night which was rapidly turning into a proper nightmare.

Right, it was obvious to us by now, and I don’t know what time it was at that point, except that it was well after midnight, that we needed to get some brains properly focussed on the problem. Looking around the courtyard, it reminded us of Colditz, totally impregnable. Except, except for one possibility, as not far from the back door there was a small square window that looked as if it was slightly ajar, it was perhaps 2-3 ft square and about 6 or 7 ft high above the floor. Anyway, precise measurements aside we reckoned that we might be able reach it and we might just be able to squeeze back in through it.  Salvation and thoughts of finally being able get chance to sleep off our drunken stupors in the warm cozy hotel at last within our grasp. Unfortunately, it turned out not to be that easy.

My mate went for it first; I had to give him a lift up and then I had to make like a makeshift ladder as he struggled to reach up and try to squeeze through the small window which he at least found that he could fully open. Let’s be clear, we are not trained circus acrobats, nor in any way did we have any gymnastic ability even if we’d been sober! It was like trying to bung an oversized cork back into a bottle whilst standing on tip toes and I was getting kicked in the head. I suppose we didn’t realise it but we were also making quite a loud commotion, and as you can imagine there were several loud expletives being let out in frustration, not in French but in the purest Anglo Saxon.

I remember looking around and up at the surrounding hotel courtyard windows to find that some of the guests had, as a result, obviously been rudely stirred from their slumbers because several lights were now being switched on. I distinctly remember one window, whilst looking up, to see an old monsieur standing there staring down and pointing at us with an expression of utter disbelief. He was dressed in a long white night shirt with matching nightcap, yes, he looked just like Scrooge, I tell not a lie! You see - that’s what got me thinking about this memory, because today we are in December and near to Chrimbo!.

There was also some chatter noise coming from other guests now, amongst which I could hear exasperated phrases like ‘Regardez! les Anglaises’. Meanwhile we continued with our attempts to climb in through the window and finally my mate’s feet disappeared through it.

Then it was my turn and to this day I don’t know how I managed it. I was somehow able to grab hold of the windowsill and pull myself up, just enough for my mate to be able to grab my arms and help pull me through. It was an incredibly tight squeeze, but I slowly managed to scramble headfirst down the other side, and headed straight into a urinal, literally! I just about managed to avoid planting my face into the inside of it. Yeay! We’d managed to break into the hotel toilets!  

I remember us both collapsing on the floor laughing our heads off. And then after composing ourselves we made our way out of the toilets and through the empty bar and hotel lobby area then up the stairs before finally reaching our room.

I didn’t sleep though, too worried that there would soon be a knock on the door by the gendarmes. But no, there wasn’t, and amazingly the next morning even during breakfast and checking out there was no mention by anyone of the previous night’s events. I do remember a few strange and accusing looks though. I can only conclude that this sort of thing must be a regular occurrence at this hotel.

So, anyway, here’s a tip: When checking into a hotel, if there is a chance that you might be going out and returning late then best make sure that you get a key or a code to be able to get back into the hotel.

Post note – A few years later, me and Mrs S revisited ‘the spot’, and we stayed at the same hotel. We found that quite simply, all you needed is a pin code to be able to get in and out. Somehow me and my mate had missed it or probably just didn’t understand as we were more used to staying in tents than hotels in those days. And, we also noted that any hotel access via that toilet window looked totally impossible, so much so that Mrs S doesn’t believe the story.

All the best

Spongebob

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Posted 01 Dec 2025 at 18:04

Brilliant, mate. You should write a book. πŸ‘

It would have been disastrous, if when you'd pressed the post button, you'd got the 502-error and lost the lot!

think my best Xmas was 1976. It was my first Xmas away from home. I was only twenty, single, and in the Army in Germany. I spent day after day, in the bar drinking duty free booze. I can't remember a thing, apart from winning a box of King Edward cigars, a very ornate beer stein, and a Bavarian cuckoo clock on a raffle.

😁

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Posted 01 Dec 2025 at 18:51

Hi Adrian,

You've done well to indulge in all my twaddle - impressive staying power 😁.

Hope you still have the stein and the cuckoo clock - reminds me of that classic scene in Allo Allo - tell me you've seen it? Germany is next up on my list, I want to go see Colditz, I think I've got the go ahead, now onto the planning stage.

502s don't scare me anymore, I can handle them πŸ˜„

cheers

Spongebob

 

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Posted 01 Dec 2025 at 19:21

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member
Hope you still have the stein and the cuckoo clock - reminds me of that classic scene in Allo Allo - tell me you've seen it?

I hadn't seen the Allo Allo cuckoo clock scene but I've just youtubed it. Hilarious. 🀣

I think some of the scenes from the BBC series Colditz were filmed in Army barracks in Osnabruck were I was stationed.

My beer stein survived, the cuckoo clock did not. I silenced it forever. 😁

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Posted 01 Dec 2025 at 23:30

Fantastic trading your account Bob! Many of us will have had similar ish scrapes when attempting to conquer Europe as a holiday destination,  they are so odd lol.

We are just back in blighty after the two week jaunt to Australia.  Bloody flying all that way is a task I do not enjoy.

Brilliant place though, lots of adventures, driving round was fun because it's kind of like the UK, only with some strange junctions and weird signs.

Traffic lights are different to here, Green ok so far,  Amber slow and get ready to stop,  red stop and wait here....Red, yeah still wait,  Green WTF are you still doing here? Its like a Grand Prix start at every junction. 

I will post more when my head returns from 36 000 feet where it feels to have take up permanent residence. 

On the subject of photos, I was thinking how ever did we manage with a few rolls of 35mm kodak film with only 36 exposures each. Which we had to take to Boots and wait two weeks to find if we actually did get that elusive Kangaroo or just a shot of the bottom of our camera bag. My phone is rammed with photos.

Chat soon guys. 

Mick 

 
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