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Advanced prostat cancer part 2

User
Posted 12 Jul 2017 at 00:03
Just a quickie Guys to say he is home and tucked up in bed!

BFN

Julie X

NEVER LAUGH AT A LIVE DRAGON
User
Posted 12 Jul 2017 at 06:17
Very good news to read first thing in the morning. Enjoy having Trevor back home.

Ulsterman

User
Posted 12 Jul 2017 at 07:25

Wishing you both well
Debby x

User
Posted 12 Jul 2017 at 07:27

Wow Julie that's great news. Do hope you both have all the support you both need. Take care.

User
Posted 12 Jul 2017 at 07:58
Wonderful news, Julie.

Steve x

User
Posted 12 Jul 2017 at 10:57

Great to get him home Julie. The rollercoaster rolls on. Make sure you give yourself some time you've been through the wringer.

User
Posted 12 Jul 2017 at 16:39
Best place to be, well done the pair of you, I'm in awe
User
Posted 12 Jul 2017 at 20:23

Great to hear, you must be so pleased

Viv
X

The only time you should look back is to see how far you have come
User
Posted 12 Jul 2017 at 20:49

Thinking of you both, glad Trevor is home. Sending love,

 

Fiona. x

User
Posted 12 Jul 2017 at 21:11
Julie

Great to hear your news, look after yourself as well.

Thanks Chris

User
Posted 16 Jul 2017 at 16:47

Just back from ten days away with no wifi and I thought about you all a lot.

I was very apprehensive to open the page because I know how seriously ill Trevor was before I went.

What can I say. Wonderful homecoming news. Thanks for the update.

What a man

We can't control the winds - but we can adjust our sails
User
Posted 17 Jul 2017 at 21:42
What fantastic news Julie, could not be happier to see this update. Amazing.

I expect you are shattered, please try to take care of yourself, I know it must be so hard to do with everything you've got going on but you are the family powerhouse and they need you.

Lots of love

Devonmaid xxx

User
Posted 18 Jul 2017 at 08:50

really good,just hope i will be as brave as trevor.

User
Posted 18 Jul 2017 at 11:19

Thrilled to bits for everyone in your world (dogs too!)

 

Kev

Dream like you have forever, live like you only have today Avatar is me doing the 600 mile Camino de Santiago May 2019

User
Posted 18 Jul 2017 at 22:50
So what a crazy roller coaster ride we have had in our pca journey .! We have just about ridden every loop the loop possible .

Firstly the good news Trevor is recovering well and gaining strength daily he is still weak and his energy levels are soon exhausted he is very much battered / bruised and very wobbly around the edges but he is getting there and that spirit of his is fighting back. 🤗

THE FAT LADY HASNT EVEN GOT ON STAGE YET

Wiz visit yesterday and I will get to the scores on the doors but first the embarrassment on her face was obvious she admitted that the Drs on the general ward had totally misread Trevor's condition . She also admitted that heads had started to roll . So basically he went in for breakthrough pain and when the pain wasn't under control they upped the morphine level to such a high level that he was unable to communicate.

The pain wasn't actually coming from the cancer it was from the lung infection but we were told it was from mets in his sternum.

His blood results showed an infection but it was ignored , his swollen stomach was wrongly diagnosed as cancer in his liver , his confusion was wrongly diagnosed as cancer in his brain.

His kidney problems were wrongly diagnosed as cancer in his kidneys and when the DR on the general ward told me that Trevor only had weeks to go that was also wrong all of this was diagnosed with no hard facts , no scans just assumptions .

Basically they had written him of without hard evidence . But they hadn't asked me what I thought and they certainly hadn't asked Trevor.

If assumptions were the only thing to go on then Trevor would have died 10 years ago when he arrested with a heart attack in the Royal London ! But he didn't and I am famous for my Buts .

It is so scary that if I hadn't have been there fighting his corner then this post would have a very different outcome.

So the confusion wasn't spread to his brain but from overdose of morphine and the Sepsis

His swollen stomach was gas and food because he was unable to eat and couldn't pass stools

Kidney damage was because he wasn't able to drink himself and was severely dehydrated

His scans have confirmed .

No spread to soft tissue

No new mets to skeleton

I have had my moan and I will be making a formal complaint BUT not yet I need my energy for Trevor , I don't know how he has come through that I don't know how all of us have come through BUT we have . We have all survived to tell the tale

WHAT IS HE MADE OF its crazy , I don't have the answers all I know is he has such a zest for life and QUIT isn't in his vocabulary.

So this is were it gets even weirder Abbi was stopped at the beginning of June when he was admitted to hospital

The Wiz explained that she expected a pretty big rise is PSA over the last month without Abbi and not to be alarmed.

So SCORES ON THE DOORS

PSA JUNE - just before admition to hospital - 4723

PSA after no Abbi for a month - 1787

😱😱😱😱😱😱

W T F happened there I need to say that again WTF happened there .

1787 How Can That Be .

I did get them to check and recheck

Toatly gobsmacked , lost for words just totally gobsmacked . I know Lyn sometimes with ext spread the PSA lowers but scans aren't showing that. 🙃

BFN

Julie X

NEVER LAUGH AT A LIVE DRAGON
User
Posted 19 Jul 2017 at 01:26

Wow!

User
Posted 19 Jul 2017 at 07:14

Great news
Best wishes to all
Debby

User
Posted 19 Jul 2017 at 07:32
Amazing!
User
Posted 19 Jul 2017 at 07:33

Well done and keep up the fight. Best wishes.

User
Posted 19 Jul 2017 at 08:30

So pleased that Trevor is recovering. As hiitsme says, keep fighting (I know you will anyway - you don't need encouragement from us I'm sure)

You also know that it is sooooooo important that you now relax when you can and look after yourself. You've been like a piece of elastic , the past few weeks especially

You know what happens to elastic that is left in stretch mode. It never again regains it's strength but becomes saggy !!

Can't have you becoming saggy now can we? Trevor needs you, we need you, to be fighting fit.

Just reading your ongoing saga is tiring so God knows what it must be like for you. If there is help available, grab it with both hands and don't be proud.

Look after yourself so you can look after everyone else, like you always do

Thinking about you and hoping for a breather for you

We can't control the winds - but we can adjust our sails
 
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