Hi Dave
I will admit during the earley stages after catheter removal I did have moments of concern. But kept going back and re-Reading the profs notes and time and time again the message was ‘time’. Seems this part is true so as I was advised by another chap who was a month ahead of me on the journey.....’just relax and be patient’ :-)
I have a pretty back lower back too thanks to Windsurfing and a faulty mast foot up haul line back in 2003. If your water works we’re fine before the prostate issues then fingers crossed should be where you can expect to get to once things have settled. Albeit with the odd stress related leak.
Give it a few weeks. Apparently biggest progress curve is the six week mark when stitches start to dissolve then should also see slow improvement over the year as scar tissue settles.
No regrets as this was the best path and got the tumour out. Fingers crossed no cells went on a grand tour or strayed during biopsy/surgery.
Certainly feel a lot more relaxed this side of surgery that’s for sure :-)