We've got a letter from the Urology Department. Basically we will have a meeting with the oncologists soon to discuss Ian's radiation treatment. We will be discussing whether Ian should get radiation only to his pelvic lymph nodes along or also to the prostate bed. Since there is no evidence of any cancer there at the moment (PET scan confirmed this), it would probably not be necessary. I agree, what would be the benefit of radiating that area if there is no cancer there right now. It would not stop any future cancer from developing in the future, say like in 5 years, right? If Ian was to get radiation to his prostate bed, he could wait 6-12 months to let his incontinence recover further. I feel that's a long time, especially being on hormone treatment all that time before, with all its side effects. Also with Covid, we don't know what the situation will be in 6 months. I don't know if he can get radiation treatment done privately, not in Scotland anyway, we would need to go to London. Anyways, they want him to start on Bicalutamide tablets 50mg once daily for 4 weeks and then introduce an LHRH analogue injection, which could be given after 2 weeks on the tablets, until he start radiotherapy. What are your thoughts about that? Is it usual to take tablets and injections together? Or would he have a choice to refuse them? I just worry about all the side effects, and some could do permanent damage. I don't see the point of Ian getting radiation to his prostate bed, since there is no cancer there, and if he did, would it not worsen his ED problems as well? I know those problems would only show up a year later or so, and if he can keep using the pump, etc, whilst on hormone treatment, then surely that's good, no? I feel that the less time he needs to spend on hormones, the better. So, if he waits 12 months for radiation, then that would be a long time for him to be on hormones, and he'd probably have to be on them afterwards for a while, as well. Ultimately, I know it's his decision, and i'll support him whatever he decides, but, at the same time, I guess I'm concerned about our intimate life as well and how it will probably be negatively affected by all this, and all the side effects from the hormone treatment. I think its going to be a roller coaster!
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