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Why can’t they treat my Lymph node PCa

User
Posted 29 Apr 2024 at 14:01

Phil, good luck for tomorrow.

Thanks Chris 

User
Posted 29 Apr 2024 at 14:07

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member

Phil, good luck for tomorrow.

Thanks Chris 

Ditto from me Phil.🀞

(Thanks for the reminder Chris, I'm getting a memory like a sieve!)

 

User
Posted 29 Apr 2024 at 14:41
Thinking of you Phil, get on with them jobs, and enjoy the coffee.
User
Posted 29 Apr 2024 at 14:57

Thank you guys and gals , really appreciate it πŸ‘

Lunch finished , missus back to work , so on with the jobs. 

Phil

User
Posted 30 Apr 2024 at 19:16

Ok so, latest update… Not so good .! PSA up to 10 and T still at 1.2. I think she said something about the PCa possibly Hormone Naive now and some more bone mets showing up. So we are moving onto the Chemo Docetaxel.
Got to stop my Abiraterone straight away but stay on the Dexamethasone and Degarelix injection. They will change the Dexa to Prednisone before the Chemo which is due to start in 3 weeks. 
I am presuming then it will be a 21 day cycle. Hoping I can tolerate it as well as Phil is doing. Might have to pick his brains a bit. Also like to know about the cold cap … 

So not what we wanted to hear , especially about the little bugger being T resistant now. That probably means the Orchidectomy is pointless. 

Had to tell our boys and i can tell they’re both upset. So hard for them , and of course my missus. I don’t know how she keeps it together πŸ₯°. 

Anyway, onwards and upwards. Still loads to do and see… not stopping yet 😎

Take care of yourselves guys. 

Phil

User
Posted 30 Apr 2024 at 20:08

I'm so sorry that the results weren't what we all wanted. Stay strong mate.

User
Posted 30 Apr 2024 at 20:40

Goalhanger,

Sorry to hear this Phil.

Take good care of yourself, and yes, get as much pleasure out of life as you can.

JedSee.

User
Posted 30 Apr 2024 at 20:45

Thinking of you and your family Phil.

Leila 

User
Posted 30 Apr 2024 at 21:26

Sorry to hear that Phil. 

Best wishes mate.

Kev.

User
Posted 01 May 2024 at 06:39
That’s horrible Phil , no useful time at all on the second line AAD,s which sucks tbh. Thinking of you friend πŸ’ͺ
User
Posted 02 May 2024 at 09:36

Starting my chemo 20th May 😬.. 

Very helpful as they’ve already agreed to move my 2nd appointment 2 days later to accommodate a wedding we have in the UK. 
For our August wedding in the US I’ve got the infusion 2 days before flying so I suppose I just need to see how I get on with it. And hope the consultant thinks I’m ok with regard to blood clots. We are flying premium Economy so have a bit more room to move around. 

Phil

User
Posted 02 May 2024 at 11:18

A question : At my last appointment the consultant told me to stop the Abi but continue the Degarelix. I was a bit caught out and didn’t ask what’s the point of continuing with the Degarelix. Anyone any idea why? Is that normal? 
Also after the chemo is finished do you normally come off the Hormone meds completely? 
And the steroid ? 

Thanks

Phil

User
Posted 02 May 2024 at 14:28

My husband has already had chemo and was still on degralix, he is now coming off Bicalutamide and going onto Enzalutamide but he’s still to keep getting the degralix injection.

best wishes 

ann

User
Posted 02 May 2024 at 14:36

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member

My husband has already had chemo and was still on degralix, he is now coming off Bicalutamide and going onto Enzalutamide but he’s still to keep getting the degralix injection.

best wishes 

ann

Hi Ann, I presume they are expecting your husband to respond to the Enza whereas my Abi doesn’t seem to be doing anything. 
Wish I could always think of those questions when you’re in there with the consultant. I’ll just wait and see what the chemo nurse says when I speak to her on the 17th. 
Best of luck to your hubby on the enza hope it keeps the horrible beastie away for many years πŸ‘

Phil

User
Posted 02 May 2024 at 17:21

So sorry to hear your latest treatment hasn’t worked Phil, we had everything crossed for good results for you,  Keith had the ‘cold cap’ when he had Docetaxel infusions and kept his full head of hair.  Hope you manage to sort out your holiday insurance for the wedding in the US.

Thinking of you and your family.

Ange x

User
Posted 02 May 2024 at 22:13

Really sorry to hear about your results Phil. I can’t comment I. The treatment but I wish you well for you next treatment and will keep everything crossed for you🀞🀞🀞

Great attitude BTW, live life to the full!

Derek

User
Posted 03 May 2024 at 11:44

Hi Phil,

Thanks for sharing your journey with us, although I'm sorry to hear about the challenges you're facing. It's normal to have questions, especially when dealing with tricky medical stuff. About your question on treating all your lymph nodes,   it's possible that the sheer number or location of the affected nodes may pose challenges for comprehensive treatment. But talking more with your doctor might help clear things up. Good luck !

User
Posted 03 May 2024 at 20:01

Only just seen your post Phil, as I was away all week and not on here much. Really sorry your results were bad mate. Keep being positive, and I’ll no doubt catch up with you in Adrian’s “pub” πŸ‘

User
Posted 09 May 2024 at 12:54

Hi guys and gals. Thank you for your lovely words , all of you πŸ‘, really does help . 

Just getting the jitters a bit now as the time draws nearer for the Chemo. To be expected though. 

Trying to keep busy and my mind off it all. Sun is out so gonna spend a bit of time lounging in the garden this afternoon 😁. 

Off to France tomorrow on our booze run. Spot of lunch in Calais or Sangatte which is always nice. We’ve chosen most of our wine already so we’ll spend more time trying the free samples in the wine warehouse πŸ₯΄… 

Got a Paloma Faith concert next week too with a nice meal beforehand. So plenty to keep me occupied. 

Look after yourselves,

Phil

User
Posted 09 May 2024 at 15:51

Hey Phil, 

Great to see you've got some good stuff to look forward to πŸ‘πŸ»

If you're taking the ferry tomorrow, don't forget to get a seat at the captain's table  😁

Looks like you'll have a great day in the French sunshine. 

Stay strong mate.

Kev.

User
Posted 09 May 2024 at 15:59

Have a great time  mate, you deserve it. πŸ‘ 

I love Paloma Faith. ❀️ 

User
Posted 09 May 2024 at 16:00

Cheers Kev. I’ll ask to see the Captain πŸ€ͺ… 

When you prebook over a certain amount of wine they pay for your ferry . Our friends have an EV car so it’s a very cheap day out. 

The wine is so ridiculously cheap still. Jam Shed £3.99 minus tax which you get back. £7.99 in a UK supermarket. In the Amex Lounge at the O2 was £57 a bottle 😳😳. 

Phil

User
Posted 09 May 2024 at 16:02

I love Paloma Faith. ❀️ 

First time we’ve seen her in concert. But have heard she’s really good live.

Phil

User
Posted 20 May 2024 at 10:43

HI Guys. So the day of my first Chemo has arrived. Bit nervous as to how I’ll cope with it , including the cold cap. I’ll keep a diary of the effects, feelings etc. The nurse told me they’ll give me a diary to keep track of everything. 

 

I’m hoping I can come off the Dexamethazone and just have the Prednisone for the Chemo. But I have a feeling all they will do is add the Prednisone for the 3 days prior, during and after the infusion. The dexamethazone has really done the Steroid number on me… Fat face and bloated belly plus a ridiculous appetite…

 

I will keep this thread updated with the chemo journey and try to keep Adrian’s Pub thread for other chatty stuff.

 

Take care ,

Phil

User
Posted 20 May 2024 at 10:53

Best of luck mate.

I'll be thinking of you.

User
Posted 20 May 2024 at 11:02

Good luck with your chemo

ann

User
Posted 20 May 2024 at 14:32
Good luck Phil. Stay strong brother 😎
User
Posted 20 May 2024 at 15:53

Cheers guys, sitting in me chair right now having the infusion.

 

Cold cap ok, as has been said first 15 mins are the worst then it’s fine. Had to be disconnected for a minute as I needed a wee. Waiting to go back on the mains 😳… 

For some reason I’m really hankering after a takeaway … maybe im just a greedy b****** 🀷‍♂️.

 

Phil

User
Posted 20 May 2024 at 17:03

Hope it's going okay mate. You've definitely earned that takeaway.

Good luck!

Kev.

User
Posted 20 May 2024 at 21:22

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member

Hope it's going okay mate. You've definitely earned that takeaway.

Good luck!

Kev.

Didnt finish till nearly 6 after getting there at 1. So called in for a bottle of alcohol free wine and had an hour or so in the summerhouse in the sun. No takeaway but frozen packet curry instead as it was easy. Feeling ok at the moment, hope it stays that way. 
Got so many pills 😳… and yet more steroids … 🀦‍♀️

Phil

User
Posted 20 May 2024 at 21:29

Take care me dear, we are thinking about you.

Love Leila x

User
Posted 21 May 2024 at 09:28

Good morning everyone. Well had a good night although I did have to get up twice for wees. Usually i don’t need a night wee , just occasionally one time. 
Also had 2 soft number twos. So we’ll see how that goes today. 
Otherwise feel fine with just a very slight headache above one eye. 
Had all my extra steroids 😳… and the other pills including the anti nausea one. 

So we’ll see how the day pans out. 

Gotta make sure I fill out the diary book they gave me. 

Been checking what I can and can’t eat and had to stop myself having some lovely Cornish ice cream my DiL brought over Sunday - gutted… 😞 

Cheers people, hope everyone is doing well?

Phil

User
Posted 21 May 2024 at 10:50

Ey up Phil,

I was going to PM you to see how you're first night had gone, but I knew you'd only bollock me for being too much of a mothering hen. πŸ˜‰πŸ˜

I'm glad you got some decent kip.

User
Posted 21 May 2024 at 11:05

Adrian, you can be a Mother Hen if you wish. I think we all need a Mother Hen in our lives πŸ‘. Thank you for thinking of me .

Yes slept well , just had a couple of wees to take care of. Not my usual straight through till 7.30-8. 

So far so good with side effects. Sat here after watching catch up of the F1 on Sunday and didn’t fall asleep 🀷‍♂️…

Out to the garage now with my multimeter to check my speaker drivers now they’re out of the cabinets. Then it’s online to order new Capacitors and resistors and some new internal wire.

Take Care buddy 

Phil

User
Posted 21 May 2024 at 12:45

Glad you're feeling OK Phil, I was wondering how you were after yesterday. Yes, avoiding ice cream is probably a good shout! I remember them telling my brother not to drink anything below room temperature. He learned his lesson when he burnt his fingers getting a cold one out of the fridge! It's weird the effect that stuff has on you, but hey, if it works who cares?

Enjoy tinkering in the garage mate.

Ian.

User
Posted 21 May 2024 at 18:59

Hi Phil

Good to hear your over the 1st hurdle,had my 7th cycle last wednesday,I get the sharp headaches over the eye which lasts a few seconds,not been sleeping 2 well last few nights a lot more growing pains in the legs and arms but if it's the price to pay I'll take it,last stomach self injection today as a gauge I find that things start to get a little better day by day from now on.

You may feel a little rough over the next few days but by this time next week you'll be jumping and clicking your heels.

All the best Phil 

User
Posted 22 May 2024 at 11:55

Hi Phil.

Well still feeling ok just that slight lingering headache. Dont feel tired at all. Hoping I’m a lucky one with side effects… I know it’s only my first one though and the effects are cumulative.

Is your injection for blood platelets ? How’s your test results going , still showing a drop? 

We have a wedding to attend in August in Maine, USA and I will speak to my consultant in a couple weeks and ask if I can have an injection for the platelets so I can fly. Won’t cancel till he says no way. 

I’m looking forward to jumping and clicking my heels as I couldn’t do that before 🀣

Take care 

Phil

User
Posted 22 May 2024 at 12:24

Hi phil

Injections are to encourage white blood cells to grow to counter the chemo.

All the best 

User
Posted 22 May 2024 at 17:10

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member

Hi phil

Injections are to encourage white blood cells to grow to counter the chemo.

All the best 

Ah I thought so. I wonder if I’ll be able to get the injections. I will have to ask .. 

Thanks

Phil

User
Posted 26 May 2024 at 11:37

So a quick round up of how I’m feeling after my first chemo.

Felt pretty good on day 1 and 2. But got the tiredness/fatigue every day since . So needed a sleep in the afternoon . 

Also getting acid reflux on some foods and drink. Had some wine Friday night and was ok other than the reflux. So took a Gaviscon which helped. Also found some foods taste different . Got some small fruit to freeze for the next session to help with the taste buds. 

Also having occasional diarrhoea in the mornings. Hoping that goes asap. 

Still feeling a bit tired after we just had a 2 1/2 round trip to Luton to take our oldest to the airport. I didn’t even drive, and had a kip in the back on the way 🀷‍♂️. 

I’ll be looking for ways to lose weight now as need to try my suits on for the weddings we have lined up - 2 in 2 weeks. 

Hoping I’ll get back to normal now and I’ll be ok till next session. 

Take care guys, 

Phil

User
Posted 26 May 2024 at 11:46

Thanks for the update, Phil. Keep strong mate.

User
Posted 26 May 2024 at 15:13

Great to hear from you Phil, keep fighting. 

Cheers, 

Kev.

User
Posted 26 May 2024 at 15:26

Good to see you are coping, the fatigue is inevitable, pleased to see you have the weddings to look forward to.

User
Posted 30 May 2024 at 10:17

Hi Guys. Well still feeling the tiredness a bit. It’s like a could go to bed at any time, shut my eyes and have a sleep. 3 hours yesterday after noon. Still went to bed normal time though. Not having a sleep today though, gonna battle through it.

 

Getting a bit of aching knees occasionally, but i expect that is more likely the Degarelix, which I had the 4th injection of yesterday. Tummy now a bit swollen and very tender as usual.

 

I tried to come off the Domperidone as I didn’t think it was doing anything but the next day had the trotters quite bad so back on it again and seem ok now.

 

Had a bit of a dip mentally yesterday and today. Just not confident the chemo will work as nothing else has worked so far. It’s hard to get out of that mindset once you've gone down that rabbit hole. I know there’s really nothing left if this doesn’t do anything. But I need to man up, its not fair on the missus and it doesn’t help anyway. Need to be thinking of all the things we’ve got planned plus the things we need to plan 😁

 

Well tried my suits on the other day and, well to cut a long story short I need a new suit…. ! Funnily enough it’s the jackets not the trousers as my new tummy seems to fit in the trousers ok . So a trip to Lakeside or Chelmsford required.

 

Motorbike saga for anyone that’s interested.

Fixed a blown transistor in the aftermarket electronic ignition which gave us great sparks on all 3 cylinders. Still not starting, so emptied carb float bowls and lo and behold it started and then re started 1st kick. So we permanently fitted the new transistor and closed the cover. Would the little b****** start again - nope. Sparks still good so checked all 3 carbs again….. perfect. So we’re now wondering if the oil pump is oversupplying and killing the sparks. Checked the pump and yep it’s not closing down properly on closed throttle . Run out of time to re run the cables so next weekend we have another job to do.

 

Speakers.

One tweeter has a blown voice coil but managed to find 2 obsolete direct replacement tweeters in an audio shop in France and I have them now. Voice coil rewinding too fiddly for my ageing eyes now. I have all the replacement capacitors, resistors for the crossover and new internal wiring ready to rock and roll when I have time…..

 

Hope you are all doing well, keeping busy and things are going to plan for you all ?

Take care 

Phil

Edited by member 30 May 2024 at 10:18  | Reason: Not specified

User
Posted 30 May 2024 at 19:50

Hey Phil, 

Great to hear from you and good that you're still fighting the motorbike 🏍

Need to get those speakers working so the neighbours can enjoy your choice of music 😁

As for suits.. I only have two, not sure if they still fit me, and a trip to lakeside is a bit daunting, my Mrs would probably buy more shoes there.

You're incredible mate, keep going strong and keep us updated. 

Cheers, 

Kev.

 

User
Posted 30 May 2024 at 22:14

Hi Phil

Don't be down hearted, docetaxel is tried and tested it will work and if worse worse case there's cabazitaxel to use then there are other treatments on the horizon.

Be positive mate, regards Phil 

User
Posted 31 May 2024 at 09:08

Yes Lakeside always a bit daunting … 😬 and the missus needs some shoes as well 🀦🏼… 

To be honest I don’t mind going and we’re going early Saturday so maybe a spot of lunch there… 

Yes I’ve not actually heard of anyone on Docetaxel where it hasn’t done anything. So fingers crossed. Cabazitaxel I really don’t know about as I tried to not think about getting this far along the treatment line.

Wonder how soon the immunotherapy treatments will become more widely used outside of trials. 

Off outside now to break down an old bed in the rain to go to the tip. Got a couple of old step ladders to go too plus other crap. Need some space in the garage. It’s only a dinky single garage compared to where we moved from where I had a really large garage, lots all cupboards I built down one side with a long workbench….. I do miss that πŸ₯΄ but I’ll be ok once I’ve done a tip run ( or 2 ) 😁

Cheers guys, thanks for the kind thoughts,  appreciate it πŸ‘

Phil

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User
Posted 01 Jun 2024 at 08:50

Morning chaps. Woke early this morning with very bad knee pain. I’ve had it before but this is the worst. 
I imagine it’s the Degarelix causing it. 
Anyone any ideas to alleviate as it’s stopping me going out today. Tried Ibuprofen but not kicking it.

Thanks

Phil

User
Posted 12 Jun 2024 at 13:38

Well hi guys. Me again. 
Sat in my chemo seat waiting for my 2nd infusion to start when the cold cap is ready. 
By the way I didn’t get a recurrence of the knee issue so that’s good news.
Had some out of breathe issues this last week but we were away in a hotel 2 long flights of stairs up with bags and it was a slog… My bad for not doing enough exercise. 
But I managed to Dad dance till gone 11 Monday night at a wedding so not so bad… And a lot of wine from 1 in the afternoon which probably wasn’t the wisest thing. Detox now for at least till Sunday night when England are playing 🍺 ⚽️ 

Had a bad night last night not sleeping and with needing to wee 3 times. Unlike me but could be the alcohol overload. The nurse here told me I can take the extra steroids at lunchtime instead of evening. So she’s given me some for today so I’ll have a sandwich shortly which should help with sleeping as she said it’s a very big dose to take before trying to get off. 

I’ve also started to have some leakage issues for a month or so which is new for me and not fun. It’s happening during the night too now so I’m gonna need night pads unless I can sort it . 

Worse I’ve had last night so wondering if it was the alcohol that made it worse. I must also get back to Kegal exercises. Could be the RT damage they said could happen in the future as I’m there now 6 years later … 

So overall side effects not too bad , just tiredness and weakness. I have also been feeling a bit down and contemplating getting back in touch with my counsellor to see if she’ll do me another couple of sessions. I should probably wait till a couple of chemo sessions in really as I won’t know till then if it’s working or not. 

Youngest son moving house this Friday so gonna be busy this weekend. They’re only moving a mile or so, so they’ve put almost everything in a storage unit and round ours so they’ve only got one van load Friday and the rest when they’re ready. 

Gonna bring his Lotus Elise round to park on the drive while they move so I can do a pose in it - if I can even get in it now 🀣… 

Still waiting for the cold cap to go on , hope they haven’t forgotten or I’ll be late out again. 

Take care guys,

be back on soon with 2nd infusion side effects update. 

Phil

User
Posted 12 Jun 2024 at 19:23

Great update Phil, and great to see that you're cracking on with your treatment.

Also good to see that you're keeping the wine industry in business 😁

Hope you can crack the weeing issue 🀞🏻

Good luck. 

Kev.

 
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