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Posted 18 Jun 2025 at 08:58

Hi Spongebob, 

Maybe you will have to invest in netting of some sort?

Risking an outcry from Greta & Chris, an air rifle will dispatch the rabbit but you'll need the land owner's permission.

We don't have a rabbit problem but then foxes regularly visit so maybe they keep them under control, we also have Red Kites circling overhead. I've seen the occasional rat but the place doesn't seem over run with them, probably due to cats from nearby houses. 

Good luck. 

Kev.

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Posted 18 Jun 2025 at 09:40

Morning guys, 

 

Sorry I've been absent for a while, but life seems to have been a bit hectic lately.

Phil - I'm sorry to hear you are still having issues mate. Hopefully the Laxedo will help. I did have to re-read your comment about "shifting it yourself" very carefully though.......

Spongebob - I reckon that rabbit probably needs to succumb to lead poisoning, but it sounds like you'd have to be tooled up and ready pretty early in the morning, to avoid upsetting some of the other plot holders 😬. I took out a big old rat last night in our chicken coop. Tricky buggers when they're on the move, but this one popped its head up out of a hole and sat there looking round. Head shot from 40 feet! Adrian you'd have been proud of me πŸ‘.

Kev - your kitchen sounds like a major project. I started decorating our dining room/kitchen about a year ago, and still haven't got it finished. I'm semi retiring at the end of this year, going down to 3 days a week, so maybe It'll get done then.

Got my latest PSA results back at the weekend, and still undetectable at <0.02. Very happy with that nearly a year post surgery. Also, big news (pun intended) have started to regain some form of functionality downstairs so to speak. Not going to win any prizes, but with a trusty blue tablet and a bit of encouragement, the little fella is starting to show an interest again!

Hope you're all enjoying the sunny weather. Our factory/office complex is basically a big tin box, so it's a bit Betty Swollocks here πŸ˜“

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Posted 18 Jun 2025 at 13:42

"lead poisoning" 🀣🀣

Congratulations on your latest PSA result πŸ‘πŸ»

Also good that your downstairs department is getting some lead too πŸ‘πŸ»

Cheers. 

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Posted 19 Jun 2025 at 00:18

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member
Got my latest PSA results back at the weekend, and still undetectable at <0.02. Very happy with that nearly a year post surgery. Also, big news (pun intended) have started to regain some form of functionality downstairs so to speak.

Hi Ian.

Brilliant PSA result, mate, and fantastic news regarding life returning down below. It doesn't seem a year since your op. Doesn't time fly when you're  enjoying yourself. I shall have a pint or two to celebrate your good health.🍻

Great shooting too πŸ”«. I'd expect nothing less from an old soldier. πŸ™‚ Did you use a telescopic site?

I had awful problems with rats burrowing around my pond. They were crapping everywhere and presenting a hazard to the grandkids. I ended up locating the exits and entrances, blocked off all, bar one, poured in some petrol and whoosh! It solved the problem but I did singe my eyebrows. πŸ™‚

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Posted 19 Jun 2025 at 12:35

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member
Great shooting too πŸ”«. I'd expect nothing less from an old soldier. πŸ™‚ Did you use a telescopic site?

Yes mate, I've got a decent scope on the rifle. I couldn't even see 40 feet nowadays without itπŸ˜‚.

Sounds like your method was successful, if a little excessive! Had you been watching Apocalypse Now? "I love the smell of Napalm in the mornings".......

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Posted 19 Jun 2025 at 12:38

Right lads, I'd love to stay for a pint, but keep getting that sodding error 502 message every time I try and post more than a few words, so i'll be back later.

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Posted 19 Jun 2025 at 14:06

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member
"I love the smell of Napalm in the mornings".......

I should have played Ride of the Valkyries whilst roasting my rodents.

I agree, mate, this site's IT issues are terrible. They keep saying they're doing maintenance but it never improves. It does my head in!

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Posted 23 Jun 2025 at 10:02

Morning all,

Received this update on our tech issues:

Hi Ian,

Thanks for your message.

 

Our developers are still working on resolving the 502 issues on the community. Unfortunately, I do not have an ETA for a fix. We deployed what we hoped was a fix last week but that unfortunately hasn’t worked so the investigation work is ongoing to get this resolved.

 

Thank you for your patience and I appreciate how frustrating this is.

 

I will keep you updated regarding a fix.

 

Best wishes,

Carol

 

OnlineCommunity”

 

 

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Posted 23 Jun 2025 at 10:57

Cheers mate. πŸ‘

If the lovely Carol was a rapper, she could have replied.

🎡 "What a to do, with 502.

To be true. We've got no clue.

We know the bug, is bugging you.

But we ain't got a Scooby-Do"🎡

😁

PS: Have you 'fixed' the wascawwy wabbit problem? I hope your allotment got as much rain as we got here last night.

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Posted 24 Jun 2025 at 23:45

Yeah Coriander and other spices do work rather well. And the curries and chillies are tasteable. used up a whole jar of wholegrain mustard in two days - could taste it a bit just not enough, branston pickle equivalents working well too. 
Solo camping went well - just squeezed the scooter into the back of the van. Stayed away for a couple of nights to check van out and had ride out on scoot. Was nice and peaceful and just read book and listed to music. Damn, I'm missing the alcohol though.
3rd Chemo today, went well again but had the weirdest co-oincidence. Sat there on the chair being filled up (my chemo drip takes 2 hours not 1 cos of the bad reaction I got the first time).
Lady comes and sits next to me with another lady sitting next to her, I noticed at first that the lady sitting next to her wasn't the "relative" type - was a bit formal - so started eavesdropping and the chemo lady starts talking about being moved from T Wing! So I learn forward and say I work at Foston Hall, is that where you are from? And she is! and thats an Officer with her. Considering there's about only about 350 inmates at Foston Hall - I don't know what the chances are of one of them having cancer and sitting next to me at the same time I'm getting mine.

 

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Posted 25 Jun 2025 at 09:11

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member
 - I don't know what the chances are of one of them having cancer and sitting next to me at the same time I'm getting mine.

What a remarkable coincidence.

I was going to quip that her treatment couldn't be prostate related.  However, until a couple of years ago, when the law changed, no longer allowing transgender women with male genitalia to be kept in women's prisons; there could have women in women's prisons with prostate problem. Mind boggling isn't it.

 

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Posted 25 Jun 2025 at 20:16

Good luck with your 3rd chemo Al, I remember going through the same doing the cold cap to try save my hair. My chemos were done on a bus in the local supermarket car park, which was quite handy.

Anyway, rabbit update. Great minds think alike Kev I have most of my stuff covered in nets. And for the area where my peas are, I’ve fenced in with chicken wire. So the rabbits have gone back to their drawing board 😬.

Last thing, for anyone who uses Booking.com, be very careful and watch out for a scam. I booked a pub some time ago and paid in full. Then I got bombarded with emails purportedly from the pub via booking.com asking me to verify my details and with credit card. They look real and I very nearly fell for it. I reported it for what it’s worth and googling it I can see that this scam is rife. You’ve really got to keep your wits about you these days πŸ€“.

Going to the gee gees this weekend πŸ‡.

All the best

Spongebob

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Posted 25 Jun 2025 at 23:51

Hi all,

The virtual beers are on me tonight. 

Grandson was born this afternoon, he's a handsome chap (like his grandad) and arrived on his due date continuing a short family tradition as his father (my son) was also born on his due date. They're keeping DIL in hospital for a couple of days so I'm dog sitting and drinking one of my son's Birra Morettis.

I'm looking forward to meeting the little guy.

Cheers all, good health. 

Kev

User
Posted 26 Jun 2025 at 01:11
Congratulations Kev!

And I really like Birra Morettis :-)

User
Posted 26 Jun 2025 at 07:36

Not sure where to post this but this seems a good a location as any. I’ve come across a side effect of prostate cancer that I’ve not seen mentioned or discussed before - Earlyretirementitis! Just over 2 years ago I had surgery after getting diagnosed. Touch wood (only things it’s good for now but that’s a different story! ) all my post surgery tests have been basically undetectable. After an unrelated and enforced 5 night stay in hospital for a separate matter earlier this year fortunately treatable and no long term consequences I’ve decided at the tender age of 59 it’s time to retire at the end of September. Life is too short and your health cannot be taken for granted. Time to enjoy things. Big step as I enjoy work and wonder what to do but that’s something to worry about later. For the 1st 9 months or so post retirement I’ve loads of travelling lined up and then plan to do more. It’s takes so much time organising these things!!! Open to thoughts suggestions recommendations and advice now that I’ve made the step. 

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Posted 26 Jun 2025 at 08:20

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member
Grandson was born this afternoon, he's a handsome chap (like his grandad) and arrived on his due date continuing a short family tradition as his father (my son) was also born on his due date.

Fantastic news Kev. I shall have a real celebratory pint or two in Spoons today! 

User
Posted 26 Jun 2025 at 08:27

Congratulations Kev πŸ₯³. Dil is unusual name though, did that come from the Magic Roundabout?

Yes, I got earlyretirementitus though slightly older. Too right life too short! And I always hated my jobs, I often used to sit at work begrudging the fact that my life was being taken away from me doing something I didn’t want to do. Especially when it was nice weather outside. Driving to work, I’d pass a sign for the Lake District when I got on the M6 and always resolved that one day I’d skip work and head up there instead. Unfortunately, I never did - just too dam conscientious πŸ˜–. 

Anyway, having retired the best thing is not having to get up for anyone and just being free to do you what you want πŸ˜ƒ. 
Enjoy

Spongebob

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Posted 26 Jun 2025 at 08:55

Hi MGOR,

We've 'spoken' many times before. Welcome to the virtual pub. I'm delighted you've popped in.

I retired many years ago. I'm not in to travelling and spend most of my time in the garden, watching sport on TV or childminding the grandkids. I love having a pint, which I can do whilst while I'm gardening, watching TV or looking after the grandkids. πŸ™‚

I left a job, which I loved for the first ten years, managed to tolerate, for the middle decade, and hated for the last ten years. So I was not sorry to pack in work. 

I thoroughly enjoy retirement. Just relaxing and watching my garden and waist line grow and spending far too much time on here. πŸ™‚

🎢 I'm busy doing nothing. Working the whole day through, trying to find lots of things not to do. I'm busy going nowhere, isn't it such a crime. I'd like to feel unhappy but I never can find the time. 🎢

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Posted 26 Jun 2025 at 10:47

Cheers guys,

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member

Congratulations Kev πŸ₯³. Dil is unusual name though, did that come from the Magic Roundabout?

Haha, very good  🀣

 

I retired early a year after my surgery when they offered me a decent redundancy package. I find my days are filled with plenty of DIY work, visits to the gym and managing the garden. At first I felt redundancy a kick in the pants especially after cancer, but now I realise it's the best thing to happen to me. 

I think it's important to have something to do in retirement, a hobby, a purpose. Over the years I've seen people whose work is their life and were totally bereft after leaving. 

As for travel, I love planning trips as it gives me something to look forward to. Last year we managed seven flights for city breaks and layabout holidays. Our next trip is September when we're planning to spend three weeks driving round Texas, yeehaw!

What ever floats your boat, do it, a holiday's what you make it. 

Cheers, 

Kev.

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Posted 26 Jun 2025 at 20:57

Thanks for the welcome - one advantage of this virtual pub is the rounds are cheap last a long time and you don’t get a hangover! Retirement is something to look forward to but I’m guessing there’s an adjustment to be made. One advantage of having booked lots of trips for the 1st few months is it becomes more difficult for work to try and persuade me to stay on (there’s a lot going on!). 

User
Posted 26 Jun 2025 at 22:23

Hi MGOR,

Forget about work - get yourself retired 😬and you’ll soon be wondering how you ever found the time to work πŸ€”.

 

User
Posted 26 Jun 2025 at 22:29

If I spend more time in this virtual pub then I’ll be p****d and unable to remember anyway! That’s good advice to get on with retirement and forget work. 3 months to go….

User
Posted 26 Jun 2025 at 23:13

I was well retired before cancer reared it's ugly head. I don't envy you blokes who have to decide whether it's a factor to retire early. I suppose financially stability must be a consideration and if that isn't a problem, how much you love your job, and how much it would impact your family life.

I've often said how much more difficult it must be for younger blokes with younger families and work commitments to deal with this disease. I suppose there must be many who simply can't afford to quit work. 

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Posted 26 Jun 2025 at 23:25

I retired at 53 after 30 years pounding the beat. Everyone said you won't know how you fitted work in when you go.

I thought it was just a cliche but honestly, I can't see how I managed to do shifts all those years. I am never still, always find something to occupy me and feel so much better that I'm out of the rat race.

They will try to get you to stay on, but stuff them. It's only a selfish boss that doesn't want to lose your skills and train up someone new. Whatever job you are in, they will manage without you. You're not irreplaceable and I saw a lot of colleagues get institutionalised so that they couldn't see a life outside and were dead not long after running out of steam still in harness. 

I had a scare with pca after six years of retirement and thought things might be drawing to a close (I'm down to my last 3000 bananas if I have a couple a day).

So leave work, ignore your emails and enjoy life. You work to live, ot live to work. 

Mick. 

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Posted 26 Jun 2025 at 23:35

Hi, Mick. I didn't realise that you were ex plod as well. There are a few ex-coppers and ex fireman on here. I was in the Army before joining the Old Bill. There are several ex Forces on here, as well.

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Posted 27 Jun 2025 at 07:58

Ady,

Yep did my 30 years and had enough after I spent the last few in training where I saw the erosion of standards get to a level I couldn't stomach.

In 1988 we had to run a mile and a half in 12 minutes, do 20 press ups, 20 sit ups, a grip strength test and a standing 6 foot jump. The training was very military based; residential in a billet of other recruits, with marching, uniform and room inspections, pointless punishments that actually built fitness and character. 

Fast forward to today.  No fitness requirement as it can upset recruits to fail some obscure metric that doesn't take into consideration individual limitations. No military style training so marching, parades and uniform inspection went out the window. Residential centres were closed and recruits attended training from the comfort of home, some vibe dropped off by mum or dad each morning   and they still managed to be late!

Remember, the ex forces guys who went through the same training as me said it was so watered down compared to actual military training that it was like falling off a log to them. 

Written work is not checked anymore, in fact every piece of work is typed using a laptop, and they still manage to spell things wrongly.  Coloured pocket note books had to be introduced as some recruits claim that they can't read on white paper. Don't get me wrong, I fully appreciate diversity and inclusion, but come on! If your life defended on it I'm sure you could manage white paper!

Every recruit must have a degree to even get through the door, I had O level metal work and six years on the spanners and became a successful copper. So degrees ain't all that, especially when it's in film animation or criminal psychology which they all thought turned them into Holmes, but most of them couldn't detect their own arse with a mirror on a stick!

Sorry mate, am I sounding like an old grump? I only popped in for a swift half and I've gone off on one. Don't get any ex trumpton started either, I bet new recruits there have a doctors note covering their aversion to ladders and a marked reluctance to getting warm, unless it's on a beach. 

Stay safe and keep hydrated. Lol 

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Posted 27 Jun 2025 at 08:30

Yeah, I joined in 1978, things have certainly changed mate. I still see a few of my old work mates. We all say we saw the best days of the job. I wouldn't want to be a copper these days. Plus the pension is poor now and no rent allowance. 

I didn't do my exams and apart from a few years in CID, did front line uniform policing shift work. The bosses were much better then. I still socialise with my first ever Inspector, he reached the dizzy rank of Chief Superintendent/Divisional Commander. Who'd have thought 47 years since meeting, we'd still be pals.

It's sad to see how much faith the public have lost in the police, at one time they were respected by the majority. I think the same can be said of most public sector workers, including doctors and teachers.

Anyway, it's time to get out in the garden and daydream about The Good Old Days.

User
Posted 27 Jun 2025 at 12:13

My dad was a plod way back in the olden days. He did 30 years, retired in 1982 and was dead within 2 years of retirement at 56. He told me many stories. He used to tell me how he was on traffic duty up at Odsal Top when there was a record rugby league crowd of 102,000 there for a Challenge cup final replay in 1954. I’m not sure whether I believed him but I always have a picture of him standing in the middle of the road there waving at hundreds of cars and thousands of people.

Also, one time as his beat took him through a large cemetery, in the middle of the night he heard strange noises coming out of a crematorium. If it was me I think I’d run a mile. But with hairs on the back of his head standing on end he went in to investigate. Only to find that there was a maintenance guy in there working on the furnace. Apparently, that’s a job carried out at night.

He was a proud man, I can’t begin to imagine what he would think of the world today if he was still with us.

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Posted 27 Jun 2025 at 20:21

Spongebob,

They locked me in the hospital mortuary all night when I was a probationer as a prank. These days if you did that you'd be sacked and the victim would be in therapy and living off the huge payout.

I started on the beat in December 88, on the 15th of April 89 I walked into the Sheffield Wednesday ground at 3.25pm to see the most terrifying sights imaginable. Quite a welcome to policing that was.

The job was great in some places and a shed load of grief in most others. But I wouldn't do it these days, too many do gooders and apologists for criminal behaviour. 

Mick 

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Posted 28 Jun 2025 at 08:27

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member
They locked me in the hospital mortuary all night when I was a probationer as a prank.

Back in the late seventies when a new probationer was doing his/her first night shift at Grimsby nick. The prank was telling them, that exactly every thirty minutes, although the night, they had to take a sample from the nearby river to check for a possible chemical leak.

It was hilarious watching those young coppers with a milk bottle tied on the end of a ball of string, standing on the middle of Corporation Bridge. Trying to dip sample from the river below. πŸ˜‚

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Posted 28 Jun 2025 at 08:42

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member
They locked me in the hospital mortuary all night when I was a probationer as a prank.

Back in the late seventies when a new probationer was doing his/her first night shift at Grimsby nick. The prank was telling them, that exactly every thirty minutes, although the night, they had to take a sample from the nearby river to check for a possible chemical leak.

It was hilarious watching those young coppers with a milk bottle tied on the end of a ball of string, standing on the middle of Corporation Bridge. Trying to dip sample from the river below. πŸ˜‚

Ha that's a neat one.

I fell for the duty of official flag day officer. Told to parade in best uniform with  white gloves one Saturday morning i was to raise the union flag with full military honours, salute, the job lot.

I marched out to the flag staff, attached the flag and ran it up. Stepped back and saluted, turned crisply on bulled boots to see every window in the nick full of laughing faces. I simply marched off down Green lane and didn't surface till the end of the shift. 

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Posted 30 Jun 2025 at 17:35

Hi everyone. 
sorry Iv not been on for a while. After appt with oncologist my hubby was told it would be best to wait n watch. As he has COPD. His breathing was bad at the appt.  Lady said his cancer has not spread and it is slow growing. If they started him on HT His breathing could get worse & then RT THE SIDE EFFECTS AS IN BOWLS & urine would be awfuel for him with his breathing at moment cos he would never make it to bathroom on time. 
she is

more worried to start him on treatment cos o his breathing & said has he had any probs n wot made him even get psv test in first place if he no had any symptoms. It was just his age I think & gp realised he never had been tested. She said his Wots the blinking word. Arghhhhhh.  Way off life. Would be better to not have treatment. If he gets any other symptoms such as the useual urine starting n stopping etc. if any pain in bones to not hesitate to get referred straight back. He is on antibiotics & steroids the now. His tests were Gleason 3+4=7 but it’s the T3a that keeps worrying me. Anyone help with advice I would appreciate it. 

I still been popping on to see how u are all keeping & oh my goodness the stories.,about mortuary & stuff at ur place Adrian 🀣🀣. I would have been crying in mortuary I’m not brave lol. 
congrats kev. No better love than a grandchild. 
spongeboab ur stories about rats n things so so good. They all keep everyone upbeat. That’s why I love this wee site. It almost makes me laugh any time I come on. It mostly u guys that’s why I’m not on as much. Just read stories & check use are all keeping. good. Love all the banter. & no bad for use cpl o pc plodders 🀣. As same for all the good uplifting banter. 
take care all off you & I mean it from bottom o my heart guys. Don’t know what I would have done without you all. 


Suzz πŸ¦‹πŸ’™πŸ’š

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Posted 01 Jul 2025 at 08:59

Hi Suzz.

So it seems that your hubby's COPD, is conflicting with any possible treatment for his prostate cancer. His Gleason score isn't high but the T3a cancer staging is a bit of a concern, as it appears it may have breached the capsule. I can't remember, have you given his PSA level.

The fact that he has got COPD complicates matters. I know nothing of the disease and the impact it would have on treating his cancer. I'm afraid I can't offer any other help other than your idea, of speaking to one of our specialist nurses to see if they can help.

I suppose it's a question of how each disease and the treatment of them would affect his quality of life.

Good luck to you both and all the family.

If there are any developments pop in here and let's us know. πŸ‘

Late edit: 

I've just been doing a bit of research. I don't know how bad your hubby's COPD is, but apparently there is a connection between that disease and ours.

[This study showed that COPD patients with complications have an increased risk of PCa. Thus, severe COPD may be a determining factor for PCa incidence. These findings may help physicians in treating COPD with complications and in remaining alert to the potential development of PCa. Relatedly, physicians may want to consider screening for PCa in those COPD patients with complications.]

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC6709785/

 

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Posted 01 Jul 2025 at 09:26

Hi guys.

Suzz, must be so difficult with COPD in this weather. I’m suffering a little with both my lower lung nodes being collapsed but still waiting for respiratory referral to come through. But I’m ok if I just keep in the shade and we have 2 good fans indoors. 

Im supposed to be having my Radium 223 today but not received a letter or a telephone call. Tried leaving phone messages in Oncology and Nuclear Medicine. We were told Nuclear Medicine opens at 8am . Kept phoning and now the message says they open at 9.45am… 

I am presuming I’m not having it as they'd be hounding me as it only lasts 2 days and they don’t want to waste it. My oncologist will be furious as it’ll have to wait a week now. We are up the hospital this afternoon for the wife’s physio so we’ll go in and see what’s happening…. 

I think the Government needs to invest in a decent computer system that aligns all the hospitals and departments. 

Anyways, take care all

Phil 

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Posted 01 Jul 2025 at 10:05
So finally got through to Nuclear Medicine and I suspect they have a supply issue and were going to phone me to see if next Tuesday is ok. Well it’s not really ok but what can I do. The radium is meant to be 4 weekly not 5. Plus I’ve had my Zolandronic acid over a week before now so hopefully that’s ok.

Oh well, trials and tribulations…

Take care

Phil

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Posted 01 Jul 2025 at 10:21

It's scandalous Phil.

Everytime, I get a medical appointment, it comes with a warning not to waste it and the cost implications of doing so.

However, I reckon the cost of of failed appointments and procedures made by the NHS itself, far outweigh the costs caused by patients.

I hope you get sorted mate. 

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Posted 01 Jul 2025 at 21:24

My elder brother has just had his second PSA test in two weeks and it came back at 94.

His GP rang him on Friday evening, just as he'd arrived at Mablethorpe for a weeks holiday with his grandkids.

You must come back on Monday, I'm on holiday but I have made an appointment for you to see another GP. It's imperative you come back so we can deal with this.

I had to drive through to fetch him on Monday morning,  went to the appointment with him as I have some experience of the start of the PCa process. 

The GP knew nothing about my brother, nothing about his PSA levels and I had to tell her that he needed referring to urology for an MRI scan pronto. Despite him having the two tests a few weeks apart, she was going to do another blood test just in case as urology would probably just kick it back for another blood test anyway.

My wife then drive home back to Mablethorpe that evening. 

A full day of travelling 400 miles for something that could have been done over the phone. No wonder GPs have no appointments if they waste a doctors time like that. 

Moan over.

By the way, I've just finished building a small fish pond in the garden, so relaxing sitting here watching the fish and listening the water gurgling. 

 

User
Posted 01 Jul 2025 at 21:40

Hi  Mick 

I hope everything works out well for your brother.πŸ‘

I've spent may happy days in Mablethorpe. We used to holiday in a little town next to it called Sutton on Sea. Lovely place.

As for fish ponds I've spent most of the day next to mine, it's so relaxing. My pond has a hard plastic moulding, 1,800 litre with a waterfall. I've got a U/V light and filter box. The water is crystal clear.

I built it over twenty years ago. It's got fish in it that are as old. A couple of ghost koi which are 18 inches long. Some orfes and fancy goldfish. My favourite fish is a gold fish my grandson won at a fair eight years ago.

He was only three years old and brought it around to my house. It was still in a plastic bag and barely alive. We let it go in my pond. I didn't think it would survive, but remarkably it has. It's now built like a killer whale and is about 8 inches long. I love that fish.πŸ™‚

 

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Posted 01 Jul 2025 at 21:58

Christ it was like driving to the end of the earth lol. You can imagine why kids constantly say "are we there yet?"

I was a cleethorpes kid, weekends in a caravan on Fitties.much quicker to get to with the train station and motorways for Grimsby. 

This is only a small pond, stiff plastic liner, set up as a wildlife pond about three years ago. But I wanted some goldfish so I put a UV and filter box in it to help with the water quality. Not content I had a bash at making a barrel filter after seeing a bloke on you tube do it.

Just a builders mixing bucket, filled with large pebbles, then smaller ones, then gravel. Water is pumped into the bottom, goes up through the gravel and out of an overflow fitting back to the pump. It's filtered by the gravel but also bacteria that live in it and bog plants that I set in the gravel. 

The waters like glass now mate, and watching the little goldfish is brilliant.  The sound of the cascade is so relaxing just sitting by it. 

I will learn as I go along I guess, I don't plan on going any bigger,  but never say never lol.

Well just see what happens with big bro. He's never looked after himself, smoked and now vapes, eats rubbish and exercise is a really dirty word. 

I fear the worst and plan for the best.

Mick 

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Posted 02 Jul 2025 at 08:34

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member
I was a cleethorpes kid, weekends in a caravan on Fitties.much quicker to get to with the train station and motorways for Grimsby. 

The waters like glass now mate, and watching the little goldfish is brilliant.  The sound of the cascade is so relaxing just sitting by it. 

Well just see what happens with big bro. He's never looked after himself, smoked and now vapes, eats rubbish and exercise is a really dirty word. 

We still love Cleethorpes. We often jump on the train in the morning. Have lunch out and a few drinks in pubs on the sea front and come home early evening it's fab.

 I've started letting healthy moss, and freshwater plants grow in my waterfall. It's acted like a natural filter. I used to have to clean the sponge filters every couple of weeks but I've only had to do them once so far, this year.

Your brother sounds like me. I used to be fit but gave up a couple of decades ago. I packed in smoking when I was forty, but still love a pint and eat what I want, not what is healthy.

I used to hate gardening but love it now, especially the pond area. It's a great place to sit and relax, my problems seem to disappear when gardening. The sound of running water is great especially when it's not into your tena pads. πŸ™‚

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Posted 08 Jul 2025 at 09:31

Bloomin' 'eck it been quiet in here lately. Perhaps the Wetherspoons, they've just opened around the corner has affected trade. 😁

Ollie, my 11 year old grandson had his first  autograss tracking, competition at the weekend, and came runner up in his class. It seems like speedway racing on four wheels to me. It was really muddy and difficult to get any traction.

He got a trophy which he's really chuffed with.

It all looks to dangerous to me but as I've said I've never been in to motor sports or driving cars or bikes fast. Tragically, only a couple of months ago, a young girl, only 13 years old, died in an Autograss race in Ireland. I suppose everything is risky, but I can't help thinking some things are much riskier than others. At least up to now, Ollie hasn't fancied solo, rope free, mountain climbing. πŸ™‚

We got a bit of rain last night, the garden is in desperate need of water. However, I see we're due another really hot spell this week. 

I hope you other gardeners, especially the allotment holders, are coping okay.

I'm off to the real pub today, for a 4 hour session. They keep saying, us oldies must keep hydrated. 😁

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Posted 09 Jul 2025 at 21:35

Sorry I’ve not been around, had a rough few days, everything just seems to be a massive effort. Feel guilty moaning about my prostap hell when I know others have much worse to contend with.

Me and missus SpongeBob had a weekend away in South Lakes the other weekend. Stayed in a traditional old fashioned flea pit pub, got floored by a bottom of the barrel pint of Tim Taylor’s Landlord - but survived, it was a fab πŸ˜ƒ weekend. And we had the full Fawlty Towers experience in the pub we found to eat in, the service was atrocious, but it was hilarious keeping me and missus S properly entertained. The food was good though - a proper feed. We went to Cartmel races, and what a glorious afternoon out that was. Managed to pick 2 winners out of 6 races so broke even on the day. I definitely recommend this for anyone in the vicinity, looking for a good weekend. Also got to play the Good Samaritan as I found a wallet stuffed with cash and cards on our walk there and with the help of google managed to track down and hand it back to the grateful owner.

As for the allotment I’ve been too knackered this week but we’ve had delicious potatoes, broccoli, spinach, peas, radishes, spring onions, coriander for the curry, parsley for the garlic bread. It’s not all the Good life though because mice have eaten all my strawberries and I’ve written off all my lettuces because they are riddled with slugs, so back to drawing board on that one. Should have cabbages ready in the next week or two.

Sport on tv in summer - all Wimbledon and women’s football - thank god for the Tour de France 😬

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Posted 10 Jul 2025 at 11:33

Hi guys. 

I’ve not posted for a while but I have been following your stories about allotments, days away and grandkids. And Mick I hope your brother gets sorted asap. 

SpongeBob my first HT was Prostap and physically it didn’t affect me , even the libido. But mentally I was wrecked. They got me in to see a counsellor really quickly and I just poured out my thoughts. Id never shared my childhood with anyone except my wife and it was a very hard time. Eventually got to grips with it all though thanks to my counsellor. 

I did lose weight on the Prostap as well which was pretty cool. I actually got into slim fit shirts 😎. And it did the business on my PSA until the dreaded return when it decided it wasn’t going to work. Presumably as the cancer had mutated. 

Im in the process of writing up a ‘story’ of my old bike rebuild for my Kawasaki Triples Club monthly booklet. I’m having to convert it from a long thread of questions and answers. Shame I can’t share it in here. If I can find somewhere on the web to store it I’ll put the link on here. 

I’m off to put new ink in my printer. Having to replace the lot and it came to over £100… 😳… All the max size but still a heck of a lot of money. 

Take care guys, watch the sun it’s gonna be ‘Scorchio’ … β˜€οΈ πŸ–οΈ 

Phil

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Posted 10 Jul 2025 at 11:59

Hi Phil.

My printer is so old it's fitted with a monk using a quill pen. 😁

The advantages of its age, is I can use cheap copy inks. It tells me not, but like I do the wife, I ignore it. 

I hope you're feeling a little better, mate and more able to enjoy your food.

Spongebob, are you not into cricket or the golf? It's the Scottish Open this week and the Open next week at Portrush in Ireland. β›³οΈπŸŒ‍♂️

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Posted 19 Jul 2025 at 09:32

Hi all,

Sorry I haven't been in the virtual pub for a while, it's been all go on the home front. 

I've just had a catch up on this thread and I'm sorry to read how some of you guys are battling the efforts of your treatments. 

We've had the builders in this week to take down a load bearing wall and install a Flitch beam. The building inspector p****d us off though, insisted that 200mm insulation be installed in the ceiling, even though there isn't a cold space above, just bedrooms. 🀷🏻‍♂️ I've been busy making tea for the builders, so much so that we ran out of sugar! 

A gas safe guy came in to deal with a steel pipe in the middle of the room, kangoed a hole in the floor so he could cap it off. I put two buckets of concrete in the hole and happy with the result. 

Apart from that, as we have a skip, I've started ripping out chunks of the kitchen including all the tiles. Don't think I've worked this hard in years but it feels great getting my teeth into something, and now the wall is finally down I can really picture how it will look. We've got the kitchen design bloke coming Tuesday so we should have it all done in time for our family Christmas Dinner get together. 🀞🏻

On the allotment, radish and lettuce are a great crop and we've had a few salads in this heat. A friend of my Mrs made jam with our red & black currants and gooseberries. I'm still battling with bind weed and bramble but at least we have some nice blackberries. Had to deal with a wasps nest last night with some powder, I'll check it again later.

Grandson is three weeks old now, he's called Ollie (think Adrian has one), my son and DIL aren't getting much sleep but they're really enjoying parenting.

Granddaughter is staying over and being almost 11, she's low maintenance and not an early riser anymore, result!

Cheers all,

Kev.

 

 

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Posted 19 Jul 2025 at 09:57

Just thought I'd pop in for a quick half.

Been busy with gardening of late, our community garden is in the local In Bloom competition so we've been doing a lot up there. And we are only a couple of miles from the RHS flower show at Wentworth Woodhouse and we have had a little show garden there. It was on Gardeners World the other night so we are all really excited. I'm off to visit the show tomorrow and it sounds really great from others who have already been.

One of my goldfish died, not sure why but I'm told it's one of those things as long as the water quality is OK. The remaining three seem fine so there's no disease.

You sound just too busy Kev! Remodelling a kitchen! I hope everything goes OK. You will find the council planning blokes are literally clueless and just have to find something to justify their existence.  "Oh we had to advise Mr. Thingybob that 200mm insulation was essential on his build other wise a catastrophic failure of the Winford Molesworth joints would doubtless occur"

Looks like we are in for some heavy storms here in the next few hours so if best get me brolly out for the walk home.

Cheers everyone,  and remember,  getting old is a lot better than not getting old.

Mick 

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Posted 20 Jul 2025 at 00:07

Very quick lock in cider for me!

You're all so diligent with your gardening!  The centre of my lawn is now a wildflower patch - great for wildlife and less mowing , result!

As for produce, I haven't been able to compete with the local wildlife! The badgers have eaten all my strawberries and the best gooseberries and the deer are regularly trimming the tops of my wife's patio roses - think rose bushes the height of lobelia!!🀣. We've now got all the patio furniture arranged around the steps up on to the patio, in the hope that our cheeky deer won't come right up to the house for the regrowth.

As someone else mentioned, we're currently enjoying the tour de France. My wife makes me drive her around the mountains whenever I give in, so I've been been up the col de Tourmalet a couple times. Soon they're off to mont Ventoux, which we went up last year ! I even pinched a rock off it as a souvenir.

Enjoy your weekend!

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Posted 20 Jul 2025 at 06:10

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member
Very quick lock in cider for me!

Hi John,

Nice to see you again. During the hot spell, whilst in the garden, I've started to have a can or two of Inch's cloudy cider. It's like eating apples, very fruity. I wonder if I could count them towards my '5 a day'. πŸ™‚

Everyone seems so busy. I've got loads of stuff that needs doing, nothing major, just decorating and that sort of thing, but I just don't feel motivated and can't be arsed and think 'It'll do for now.'

I often go to the real pub, when I'm feeling like this. I went four times last week. There's a group of us, all retired, who discuss jobs that need doing at home. For hours, we talk in great detail about DIYing, but just drink too much and nothing ever seems to get done. I find group laziness quite therapeutic.

Though I say it myself, the garden's looking grand. The recent downpour has freshened everything up and the lawn is already recovering from the dry spell.

Kev, It's lovely that you've got a 'baby Ollie', mines now 11 years old and starts 'big school' after the holidays. Grandkids seem to grow up so quickly! 

 Mick, I'm sorry that you've had a fish fatality. Let's hope the others survive. During my pondkeeping years, I've had loads that have died for no apparent reason. 

I'm enjoying the Euros women's football, but see that they've started copying the men and rolling around in agony when they've been tapped.

 It's the final round of the Open today. I've got two huge racks of ribs ready for the oven which I'll wash down with some ale. I'll sit infront of the TV most of the day, watching the golf and trying not to glimpse at jaded decor. πŸ™‚

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Posted 23 Jul 2025 at 13:58

Hi guys.

Nice to read all your updates. You’re all keeping busy in one way or another. 

A few days ago during a hot day one of the inner glass panels on the Bifolds in our summerhouse shattered. So far it hasn’t all fallen down but we have window chap coming shortly to look and I suspect as soon as I open the door it will all fall out.  Hopefully it won’t damage the laminate flooring or the table behind. Just another thing to get sorted … 

We did a day out in London on Friday at the Excel to see the Elvis Evolution. It was the first day and at the moment I wouldn’t recommend it. We’ve been to Gracelands and you obviously get a much better picture there of his life story. We also went in a restaurant before hand  πŸ˜³… and I actually had a burger, without chips and I managed to eat it all. My mate pushed me round in my wheelchair which was great but I do wish I could walk more than I can. I feel like the old geriatric.. My missus drove us up there and the car park was eerily empty. Could be the £25 parking fee…!  Normally we’d get the train up as we have 2together pass but the drive was ok except coming out back through Beckton which is always a nightmare. 


Im still feeling very tired a lot of the time . Seeing my consultant tomorrow so see how the bloods are doing. Hopefully the bone tests show up that the radium is doing ok. 

So keep busy guys. Wish we could share photos as I’d love to see your ponds and gardens and allotments. I’m looking into how to get shared web/cloud space so I can store stuff there to share with people. I have done a story and pictures for my Kawasaki Triples club magazine of my bike rebuild but so far I’m not sure how to share it with anyone else. πŸ€”… 

Cheers

Phil

 

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Posted 23 Jul 2025 at 14:44

we had similar with a bifold glass recentley  ours was the outer pane , we put a old sheet down in case in broke further on the patio , it did'nt .

Took a month to get made to measure new panel , total cost £160 with fitting .

My chap left old panel with us , laid that on another sheet and had to drop a lump hammer from height to break it .

Wrapped all the bits in old sheet on in the blackbin .

Hope yours is sorted soon for you .

          Mike .

 
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