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Posted 06 Feb 2026 at 14:26

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member

Have a great time, mate. I hope you enjoy it as much as Japan. Will you be staying long enough to fancy an English takeaway. 🙂

Thanks! But I haven't gone yet, although it's not too far off 😁

My mind has been wandering again and as 2026 is World Cup Year and BTW what a joke! USA, Canada and Mexico!!!! I hope everyone boycotts it. Get it back to its roots that’s what I say.

Anyway, who remembers 1973??

England vs Poland. I was only a nipper; and I already had my brand-new world cup sports bag which was an England bag with “Munich 74” on it. I was football mad and my whole world at the time crashed down with that game and that result.

But, hey, what a game! The tension was unbearable! Do you remember watching it on ITV with Bryan Moore and Brian Clough who was so confident that England would qualify? And live football on TV was so rare in those days. Have you ever seen such a one-sided game ever, ever in your life? England absolutely battered them, but absolutely nothing could get past Tomaszewski.

“Don’t worry, don’t worry! He’s a clown!” – that Brian Clough assessment of their goalkeeper at half time that would become the mainstay of every Englishman’s nightmares for years to come.

And then the Poles broke away and scored, but it was a good goal in fairness, however Norman Hunter should have wiped their guy out near the touch line in their build up and Shilton, what were you doing? That one and only Polish shot went right through you!

Then Alan Clarke’s penalty, that is how to take a penalty! so cool! And the finale, the last couple of minutes, when Kevin Hector (btw - former Bradford Park Avenue – a legend), he was brought on for the last couple of minutes, and he was so excruciatingly close to nodding in a winner. DOH!

Goodbye, Sir Alf. Goodbye World Cup until 1982! 😱

53 years ago what am I going on about?

Here’s a questionnaire:

  • Blue Peter or Magpie.
  • Saint & Greavsie or Football Focus.
  • The Wombles or The Clangers.

 

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Posted 07 Feb 2026 at 01:48

Hi chaps,

Fissed again, just like last summer! It is Friday night after all. Ignore me  I’m going to curry heaven tomorrow but just one thing - come on, John Noakes - what an hero, take a bow my son 😬.

Monsieur Le Sponge ( yes, he’s pjssed).

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Posted 07 Feb 2026 at 03:53

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member
“Don’t worry, don’t worry! He’s a clown!” – that Brian Clough assessment of their goalkeeper at half time

Cloughie called Mark Crossley, his own Notts Forest keeper. 'Jigsaw'. 

'Why do you call me that boss?", asked the bemused goalie

"Because when the ball's in the box you go to bl**dy  pieces, son!" he replied.

I loved Cloughie.

Edited by member 08 Feb 2026 at 13:44  | Reason: Typo

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Posted 07 Feb 2026 at 15:42

Hi All

I was invited by Katherine Jenkins of Common Collective on behalf of PCUK to take part in a Zoom workshop - “Prostate Cancer UK Online Community workshop” - a couple of weeks ago. The objective was to obtain feedback about this forum. Amongst several issues raised I pointed out that this site has a serious problem with the error messages we have been experiencing for some time. Also I felt that it requires overhauling to make it more user friendly by, for example, providing a search function and possibly having a section for wives and partners. The workshop lasted for an hour and a half - there were six of us – and our comments were well received. I think there were three such workshops. Any follow up information that I receive I will pass it on to you guys. It is encouraging that we may eventually have a better community site.

 'Physics is like sex: sure, it may give some practical results, but that’s not why we do it.'                    Richard Feynman (1918-1988) Nobel Prize laureate

 

 

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Posted 07 Feb 2026 at 22:39

Hi Pratap.

Thank you for that, it's much appreciated, mate. 👌

User
Posted 08 Feb 2026 at 18:14

Hi Pratap, just wanted to say that I'd be grateful for a 'wives/partners' group on here.  Thanks for suggesting it.  Hope it happens.  

User
Posted 09 Feb 2026 at 14:41

Hi Bookwork76

I have tried in the past with various Community forums to get recognition of prostate cancer as a couples' disease but haven't had much luck. However I think  PCUK must be serious about improving this site to have consulted 'Common Collective' to run a series of Workshops. My impression during the Zoom meeting was that  Katherine Jenkins seriously listened to us and would pass on her findings to PCUK. 

 'Physics is like sex: sure, it may give some practical results, but that’s not why we do it.'                    Richard Feynman (1918-1988) Nobel Prize laureate

 

 

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Posted 08 Mar 2026 at 15:06

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member

Hi All

I was invited by Katherine Jenkins of Common Collective on behalf of PCUK to take part in a Zoom workshop - “Prostate Cancer UK Online Community workshop” - a couple of weeks ago. The objective was to obtain feedback about this forum. Amongst several issues raised I pointed out that this site has a serious problem with the error messages we have been experiencing for some time. Also I felt that it requires overhauling to make it more user friendly by, for example, providing a search function and possibly having a section for wives and partners. The workshop lasted for an hour and a half - there were six of us – and our comments were well received. I think there were three such workshops. Any follow up information that I receive I will pass it on to you guys. It is encouraging that we may eventually have a better community site.

 

Definitely agree with the need for a search option. Will save so much time looking for information.

Thank you. 

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Posted 13 Mar 2026 at 16:14

CHINA

Wow! It's been quiet on here!

Me and Mrs Spongebob have just returned from a trip of a lifetime – China! It is one positive impact of PCa, helping me to adopt a different perspective on life and that is to make the most of it. This includes taking the opportunity to explore the wider reaches of the world. Previously, such ambition was knocked on the head in favour of a Scrooge like mentality to scrimp and save until God knows what age I might achieve.

China is a vast country with 1.4 billion people. I can only comment on my experience of the areas I visited which covered Beijing, Xi’an, Guilin and Shanghai. It totally blew my mind. We are led to believe that the Chinese live miserable introverted grey lives, feeding off meagre rations of rice and all wearing the same drab clothes bought from the state-run shop. Also, that foreign visitors need to take heed and must avoid talking to any locals or taking videos and photos etc otherwise they might get arrested, etc, etc. It is true that they have restrictions and rules that make their lives different to us, but they do seem to just get on with it.

From what I experienced, China was anything but the above, it is totally different to anything that I was expecting. I saw vibrant, clean, busy, colourful cities full of life and with the widest array of shops imaginable. Fantastic stunning scenery. The people, all so welcoming and friendly. Top notch hotels and superb food for all tastes. There is a rich heritage and culture to explore with obviously the great Wall and the Terracotta army being perfect examples. They have a vast array of modern buildings amongst the historical. The Shanghai skyline could easily make up the backdrop to a Star Trek movie. I sat on a bullet train doing 300km/ph, eating up the miles in no time and also on the Maglev, a train with no wheels that is capable of 450 km/ph that runs between airport and Shanghai city (how we could do with a couple of them in the UK!). Also, when compared to the UK everything is cheap as chips! People will spend more for a 2 week stay on the beach on the Costa del Sol than I did to see China. China is absolutely incredible, amazing, wonderful. If you get the chance, then you must go.

There is much that I could say about my trip but to avoid going OTT I’ll just tell you about my trip to the Great Wall. We visited this incredible construction at Juyongguan which is not far outside Beijing. It was one of those very cold days with clear blue sky. We got there early to avoid the crowds in fact we were amongst the first. On getting off the coach the sight of the wall climbing steeply high on both sides of a valley is truly awe inspiring. Juyongguan is actually a pass, a break in the line of hills. You can walk up either side of the valley, but each way is steep.

Of course we had to take on the steepest side, I don’t know why, maybe the guide thought that the views are better or it might be that he was a proper sadist of Mongolian descent. It was the Mongols that the wall was intended to keep out, to stop them from their rape and pillage raids. Whereas the Mexicans hire the magnificent seven to deal with a similar problem the Chinese build a great wall. It is ‘Great’ as well, incredible, but it is steep. Climbing up the steps, I was very quickly knackered and puffing away in exhaustion. I was jealous of younger types who were able to march up quickly, made worse by the knowledge that in my day I would have been the same. I used to be able to mount up mountains like a goat, but alas, not anymore, instead I plodded on, one foot slowly in front of the other.  

I reckon they should rename the ‘Great Wall’ to be the ‘Great Steps’, there were hundreds of them, high and steep. Along the wall there is a series of watch towers, giving you something to aim for as you climb up. Mrs Spongebob did really well she could climb faster than me but after reaching the first watch tower her head for heights got the better of her. Fearing that she might struggle to get back down she decided to return whilst I plodded on. I actually reached watch tower eleven which I later calculated to be over 1000ft from the start and that was after an hour. The views were spectacular, I could see the wall snaking it’s way for miles over the hills, a wonderous sight.

Despite the exhaustion I was feeling quite good. On trips like this I always worry about the possibility of developing the trots, especially given the change in food and the bodily adjustment to the time zone. Playing on my mind was the meal that I’d enjoyed the previous evening. It was a delicious spicy garlic affair, tempered by the fact that the chicken was all bones. In fact, it was actually scrag ends of chicken, including chicken feet!

At watch tower eleven, I decided to turn back. I too was a little worried about how long it might take to get back down. I remember passing a toilet block but cared ‘not a jot’ as I looked around, enjoying the spectacular views. I was also pleased when I found that going down wasn’t too bad and that my knees were behaving themselves as I made my way down with relative ease passing many struggling folk. Then all of a sudden, my worst fears came true as I developed a heavy pain in the bottom of my stomach, and I sensed that urgent bodily functions had been awakened. Perhaps, due to the toil of climbing so many steps or perhaps being poisoned by scrag ends, who knows? I didn’t have the time to consult Dr Sraha Jarvis.

What to do? What to do? Things were beginning to get desperate; I quickly reached the stage where I urgently needed to make a hasty deposit but the toilet block, I’d passed was now too high up to go back whereas the toilet block back at the car park was also some way off. The wall wasn’t too busy, several nationalities scattered along it, but I could hardly squat down in the middle of the wall in full view.  And in this day and age it probably, or almost certainly is not an acceptable protocol to hang my arse over the side of the Great Wall and drop my depth charges that way. It was a nightmare; my only feasible option was to continue heading downward walking like John Inman with buttocks clenched fiercely to hold back the inevitable.

I had a good view and I could the see the bottom of the steps, and even though I was making speedy progress it didn’t seem to get any nearer. I strained to maintain high concentration levels always on the look out for somewhere where I might be able to make an emergency poop. And absolutely, no way could I let out a fart for fear of it being something else. I mean, what do you do? If I poop my pants, what a nightmare that would be. The pain in my belly and the urge to poop actually came and went slightly, in waves, so I just concentrated on holding on when the urge was strongest. It is my body after all; I knew that with good concentration I should be able to manage it properly.   

Amazingly, and with much relief I reached the bottom intact. I knew there was a toilet somewhere, but I couldn’t find it straightaway. I was bursting at this stage and my arse thinking that it had at last reached salvation was about to release it’s bombs. Would you know it, the bloody toilets turned out to be up a set of more steps! There was security guard standing at the top of the steps bored out of his skull and credit to him as when he saw me, instead of laughing he pointed the way to the loo. I dashed in, taking off my coat, unfastening my clothes in mid-flight, chose my trap and dropped my tweeds in the nick of time. What a relief!

Crikey! I was in there for a good 15 minutes! God knows what was going on with my insides. It took a few Imodiums to sort it out. Just as the wife was about to send in a search party, I made my appearance as if nothing untoward had happened at all 😁.

It is fabulous, the ‘Great Wall’ or ‘Great Steps’ – you must go see it.

Spongebob

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Posted 13 Mar 2026 at 19:32

Hi Spongebob, 

What an amazing trip. I'm glad you had such a good time. 

You did well to hold it all in.. and hike down the wall. Credit to your sphincter.

Not sure what their public toilets are like now, but I used one or two when I was there in 1993, they were open plan with slots in the floor. I've got an image burned in to my retinas of a guy reading his newspaper while squatting over a hole. Thanks for bringing it all back 🤣

Cheers, 

Kev.

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Posted 13 Mar 2026 at 21:28
My wife and I much enjoyed our holiday in China, experiencing a very different way of life. We spent a lot of time on the Yangtze, just before the river started to rise due to the new Dam coming into use and while the scenery was spectacular. Villages at lower level were in the process of being demolished and new building being erected higher up. We did get to visit all the usual attractions seen by tourists which meant an internal flight on a 747, a double decker train and various coaches. A Chinese acrobatic show was very good and another show accompanied by an orchestra using Chinese instruments was very different. You really need to experience things because there is so much that could be said and then it would not adequately cover the experience. Agree Shanghai is amazing. The only thing that was a downside for my wife and me was the Chinese food that neither of us liked. We therefore made the most of a wide range of food, which included traditional English breakfast as our main meal of the day.
Barry
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Posted 14 Mar 2026 at 11:24

Barry, my first trip to China was about 1999 flew from Newcastle via Amsterdam to Shangai then to local factory met with local lads then back to the airport for a local flight and a 4 hour drive to the factory, sat down to a meal, no knife or fork so had a lesson on using chopsticks and as I was the honored guest I had to eat first, rule one don't tell me what I was eating till I said I liked or didn't, rule 2 keep glass of beer topped up just incase help needed to swallow. 

I was there for two week's and eventually liked eating with chopsticks lot's of happy memories of travelling about twice a year for 6 years 

 

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Posted 20 Mar 2026 at 20:50

Evening chaps,

What a delight it has been over the last few days to have some nice sunny spring time weather. The first ray of light after a long murky wet winter. 
Been out on the electric mtn bike around the steep slopes of Hebden Bridge. Fabulous to be out not donned out to the hilt in gloves, jacket and stuff. 
And finally, I’ve been able to spend some time up the allotment, preparing a patch for some early spuds. Managed to get half the allotment ship shape, and with a good scattering of chicken shjt pellets 😬. 
On the health front, as I count down to my Prostap Independence Day in August, I have some bizarrely wonderful news. Having needed glasses and contact lenses since my early twenties for long distance sight, my most recent eye test revealed that I now have 20/20 vision, no need for glasses! How about that 😃. 
And, I think I deserve a pint or two as I managed to type all this without mentioning the antics of a certain senile, orange fickwut blimp 😬.

Have a good weekend,

SpongeBob.

 

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Posted 24 Mar 2026 at 08:53
I've not been on the forum for ages but popped in yesterday to look something up, and there no longer seems to be a search function. Or am I being a bit dense?

I wasn't sure where else to ask this, so apols if not the best thread.

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Posted 24 Mar 2026 at 09:17

The forum had technical problems, so PCUK had to revert the software to an old version. The search function disappeared at that time. If you do a Google search, and specify this site in the Google search you may find what you want.

Dave

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Posted 24 Mar 2026 at 09:24

spongebob, enjoy a pint at the New Delight, 

Edited by member 24 Mar 2026 at 09:26  | Reason: Not specified

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Posted 25 Mar 2026 at 09:18

Originally Posted by: Online Community Member

spongebob, enjoy a pint at the New Delight, 


Unfortunately, the New Delight is slightly off route, I haven’t been in there for years. It’s a fine pub. If I do manage to recover fitness after my HT ends, I still have ambition to walk the Pennine Way, along which I would then definitely be taking in a pit stop in the New Delight.

Our Hebden Bridge route does however go past the Pack Horse Inn, and very sad to see that that appears to be permanently closed. I’ve had a few jolly afternoons in that pub over the years. Me and Mrs S would park up at Hardcastle Crags then walk up the valley to the Packhorse for lunch then stagger back - memorable moments.

Abyway, after a decent spell of weather it now seems to have taken a downward turn, chucking it down last night. Still, I’ve made good progress on the allotment, and got 4kg of spuds planted 😬

Have a good day and try not to doom scroll too much.

SpongeBob

Edited by member 25 Mar 2026 at 09:19  | Reason: Not specified

 
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