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Posted 25 Feb 2016 at 08:28

Julie

Your page 11 is into not found loop. So this and any subsequent posts are to try and move you back into the accessible state.

Xxxx

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Posted 25 Feb 2016 at 09:04

Thank you SS X

NEVER LAUGH AT A LIVE DRAGON

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Posted 26 Feb 2016 at 00:21

So two wheels on our wagon but were still rolling along, for others newly diagnosed with a similar diagnosis I just want to give hope that almost 3 years on we are still here.

I often think this is some sort of surreal world that I live in (johanson)) yes it is falling down we patch something up and then something else falls off.

I realy can't believe that yesterdayTrevor was up on the flat roof plugging up the whole that our resident RAT is coming through. Yes a rat you heard me. I can't believe that he has climbed the ladder and has sorted it out. Not the rat but Trevor. We are not just talking decorating seriously SOS I am not jocking is seriously needed.

I watched him up,on the roof and just the day before we had got such terrible news, but it is almost like well today is business as usual , I know it is hard to comprehend but we don't have time for bad news

Nidge I will take a Bug Hug any day of the week

Alison yes in major need of the cuddle blanket

Steve hope everything went well the cardiac review.

SS love you loads, jerk chicken and flap jack what more can I say but bring it on. X

I can't honestly say how much all of you guys help me through but it is just immense , you don't know how much I appreciate all of you. . My virtual friends I love you loads.

Lyn I know you are holding back , what could any of us say, it's ok .

Thank you all for being there , it is such a rocky road and you guys are my rocks.

BFN

Julie X

NEVER LAUGH AT A LIVE DRAGON

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Posted 26 Feb 2016 at 08:57

Not sure whether I was holding back or whether there is just a bit of denial in my mind. Every year, I think this is your last Christmas together so I hope it is briliant, and then I think the same thing again the next year. You aren't at the stage of difficult conversations and care pathways while T can still get up a ladder (and get down again - in some ways that is more impressive) and in some cases like yours, it really does seem that PSA is just a number and not an indicator of imminent dreadfulness. A bit like Alathays I suppose. March 21st .... seems like ages away but will arrive quicker than you think. My cuddle blanket stays firmly in the box until then in the hope that you just won't need it.

I don't think we need to post pretend posts to flip people back into the system - when the thread is tipping onto a new page and the message 'not found' comes up, all we need to do is click on the previous page ie if p11 isn't coming up, click page 10 instead. Then scroll down to the most recent message at the bottom of the page.

"Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards." Soren Kierkegaard

User

Posted 26 Feb 2016 at 09:41

Our daughter has a rat problem (fairly rural house).
I stayed there to look after the boys while she was in hospital and in the early hours I heard what I thought was somebody walking on the gravel under my bedroom window.
When I looked out there was a rat as big as a cat strolling along. I didn't sleep much after that, especially as they were also mice in the roof and you could hear them scampering.

She finally accepted that the OTC domestic treatments weren't working and had to get the men in.

They traced the main run and put down some really strong stuff. It's eased the situation but as she says she'll have to live with what else is around as she keeps chickens, ducks and a rabbit.

Sorry about the house falling down comment, I thought you just meant decorating.

Even if you could get SOS interested, you need it done now don't you so probably wouldn't help asking them.

We can't control the winds - but we can adjust our sails

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Posted 26 Feb 2016 at 09:45

I just did a quick google search to see if there was any kind of volunteer society that could help do DIY for people with disabilities and there were quite a few there but obviously I didn't know your area.

The problem would be (I think) is that Trevor would be a proud man and wouldn't want to accept any help like that would he?

We can't control the winds - but we can adjust our sails

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Posted 26 Feb 2016 at 17:43

Lyn

It is sometimes easier to do the flip message than explain to people what to do if they get page not found , I am just a simple person who looks for simple solutions or workarounds.

I'd just like to say SS that your house is a home it may be a bit old in places but it has character. You have made it welcoming every time I have visited, the occasional unwelcome visitor is commonplace in a rural environment.

I bet Trevor was calling it all the names under the sun and threatening it with any implement he could reach.

See you Thursday bathing belle

Xxxx

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Posted 26 Feb 2016 at 22:58

Love you guys you are all shamZing, yep T was up the ladder and looking for a tiny weeny hole that Mr rat could squeeze in l, ah ha newly found tile that could be a rat entrance so Roland your days are numbered. We are slowly eradicating Mr Rats entry . I know you would think with numerous Cocker spaniels that they would sort out Mr rat but they are just so dopey , they seem unaware that anything is going on, l love them to death but come on you lot Wake Up . Of course then there is Tulip, she is so smart a typical terrier she is awake alert and ready to rip a small rodent in a heart beat. Only problem is she is just to darn big , she is going to rip of those kitchen cupboards , she is ( let's go Mum).

So I would like to introduce to the forum RITA, yep Rita the rat killer, a very tiny 10 week old JAck RUssel little miss lion heart . Rat poison isn't an option with the other dogs, so Rita 👹 It is all down to you.

Lyn don't Hold back I am under no illusions, we have had nearly 3 years of extra time and there has been so many moments when I have thought (this is it) and yes after seeing the scan results. Well honestly my thought is how the friggg is he still standing. Yesterday up on the roof, today he is attempting to put up plaster board and insulation in our dog room.

How does he do it ? I have no idea, turmeric ? It must be because I have no other explanation.. Of course it could just be bloody mindness and a refusal to give in. But then so many others have have the same mindset.

When I think what he has gone through , the heart attacks, the stroke, pneumonia, the cancer and there he is climbing on the roof and dare I say I don't think think you should do that, he would bite my head of, so I say I will hold the ladder . 😊

Honestly it doesn't really matter what any of you guys say , you could just give me a thumbs up or a silly smiley face but just to know that you all have my back when it all goes tits up is for me knowing that I am not alone. Nuff said.

BFN

Julie X

NEVER LAUGH AT A LIVE DRAGON

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Posted 27 Feb 2016 at 04:18

If I attempted to go up a ladder on to the roof the only person hitting the roof would be the wife, that is after she has hit me lol, your old man is quiet an impressive guy

regards
nidge

run long and prosper

'pooh how do you spell love'

'piglet you dont spell love -you just feel it'

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Posted 27 Feb 2016 at 07:39

I'll bring Pippa and Morse round. We'll do some old fashioned lamping haha. Flush out with the terrier then may the chase begin. No prob for Pippa the lurcher rocket. Morse might be wary -- he's already sporting a large scar on his nose from an understandably disgruntled squirrel. I think those rat boxes are safe Julie , the ones that dogs can't eat. Happy hunting x

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Posted 02 Mar 2016 at 01:40

What a day, we have just had our ABS inspection this is an Assured Breeder Inspection to check that we are meeting the requirements of the scheme and to exhel in our breeding practises. So yes slightly important for gaining and mainting our UKAS accreditation (got the certificate). It would be easy wouldn't it , if only. The heavens decided otherwise , Rain (everything was looking good we were all scrubbed groomed fresh paint applied to all offending door posts and doorways, ready for action Stand by your beds) . You have to imagine it is like having 20 two year olds ready for a royal occasion, so firstly the heavens opened and dogs and rain is not something that goes together. So we decided everyone in the kitchen, best laid plans and all that ( some one I can't name names because I because it could have been anyone jumped up and set the washing machine of , not a big deal Normally, but (one of my famous buts) because Mr RAt had chewed through the hose on the washing machine this then started the flood, we know had less than twenty minutes to get the dogs out , get the floor dried and get the dogs back in again, imagine Noah's Ark with a lot of swearing and a fair bit of stress build up. Of course by the time we opened the door to the assessor , all was calm , all was good, The morale to this story is ( always expect the unexpected , prepare for the worst and that way you can deal with (don't tempt me) what life throws at you.

BFN

Julie X

NEVER LAUGH AT A LIVE DRAGON

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Posted 02 Mar 2016 at 06:56

This is the first thing I read today, at the beginning of what is going to be a very stressful day for me too. And it made me laugh for which I thank you. I've wound the pippa bomb up with google images of rats , and she"s on her way xx

User

Posted 02 Mar 2016 at 08:32

Ah Julie, it could only happen to you !

Good luck with the certificate. I know you wanted it spic and span, but I'm sure the Assessor would have made allowances.

Hmmm. You would have had to explain that a rat chewed through the hose, so maybe not.

Anyway, glad it all got sorted. Take a big breath and pat yourselves on the back for a job well done

We can't control the winds - but we can adjust our sails

User

Posted 02 Mar 2016 at 10:25

Hi Julie,

Look on the bright side, you have lived a real life episode from Faulty Towers, the rat arriving at the same time as the inspector, hopefully you handled it with as much aplomb as Sybil and Basil?

Dave

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Posted 02 Mar 2016 at 11:00

SS Julie

Now I am getting some mighty funny looks from the man in a white van parked next to me at Watford gap services. He is trying to work our if I have wet myself laughing. I am a little early for my 7 property viewings so thought I'd have a quick peep on the forum. First up the Fawlty towers story. I have laughed in the car before but not like this!

I always wondered why they called this services Watford gap when it is 70 miles or so north of Watford. Also why people suggest that you leave the South when you go past here heading North as that would make the South pretty small.

Then I discovered the Northants village of Watford and now it all makes sense!!

All good for a visit from another VIP tomorrow then? At least I come bearing gifts!! Please also ask Tulip not to chew my leg mistakenly. (Assuming she has finished all the kitchen chairs by now ably assisted by Roland.)

Looking forward to catching up and a lot of laughter tomorrow xxxx

User

Posted 02 Mar 2016 at 12:11

Only you Julie, only you!

Mind you you coped in your usual calm and capable way. Thanks for the giggle, we are waiting for a blocked catheter to be sorted so in need of a laugh.

You are so calm about the rat, I'd be on the table and not get down until the man came to get him. Horrible things.

Lots of love

Allison xxx

User

Posted 02 Mar 2016 at 12:50

Hi Julie,

Glad you got it all sorted in the end. Well Done!

Steve xx

User

Posted 02 Mar 2016 at 14:38

BUT DID THEY PASS YOU?????

"Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards." Soren Kierkegaard

User

Posted 03 Mar 2016 at 10:26

Is that 20 dogs aswell as everything else you have to deal with?? I take my hat off to you both. Hope you passed.

Rosy

User

Posted 03 Mar 2016 at 21:32

No Rosy only only 17 (peice of cake)🙀 to say that I don't get to sit down for more than 10 minutes at a time is a true statement. If I described my day honestly all of you would not believe it. I don't believe it and I witness it every day.

I have got a stinking cold (not surprising) I just hope that I don't pass it to Trevor. Just when I needed it most my SS flew down and made a wonderful visit , what can I say she is such a diamond , jerk chicken in tubs ready to cook and chocolate flapjack what more could you ask for in life, OH and a lovely bunch of Tulips. Life doesn't get much better than that. The chicken is pretty much gone and the flapjack (wow Mo that is fandabidosie).

So I have been able to spend a few hours under the cuddle blanket on the sofa in my ivory tower ,(prices less ) there is know a huge pile of tissues by my side . SS THANKYOU. X

Lyn YES PASSED with flying colours, sorry I waffle on and forget the important bit. 😄 UKAS Accreditaion and Breeders of EXclence for another 3 years , certificate will be in the post. Our last inspection was just as T was being diagnosed and was such a stressful time

Also forgot to say previously latest PSA 2 weeks ago was 789 so rising 100 every four weeks, but I am sure as MO would testify he looks and feels well.

Onwards and upwards guys , onwards and upwards.🤓

BFN

Julie X

NEVER LAUGH AT A LIVE DRAGON

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