Paula
These are the most difficult times. As we look forward to our later years, we all hope for the best quality of life, but do not want to be a burden for our offspring. Respect your father's wishes, and give him all the love and support you can.
Thinking of you through what will be a rough period, but also remember all the good times you shared. Look after yourself and the rest of your family. I hope they will also look after you.
Paul