I had prostate removed in April, was incontinent for a short while then gradually made a comeback. I accept the fact I may never be 100% again but I am nearly there. If I am to leak these days its because I sneezed, or make some other sudden movement which I was not mentally prepared for.
Having a sudden urge to pee in a city (I live in a city) can be a real pain! I now just brazen it out and go, up an alley way, behind a wheely bin, in between two cars. I've done it all. Better than wetting yourself!