Hi Paul and welcome to the club. It's good to see that you appear to be doing OK following your op and that you are not rushing to try to overcome ED and incontinence issues all at the same time. It's a big op so give things time to settle but it sounds as though you have got your head round that.
It is always good to hear from someone new with up to date experience as even though mine was only in 2015 I feel that things change and my memory of the whole experience has dulled and so sharing your information will be appreciated by others in the days ahead.
I shall look forward to sharing news of your progress and send you every good wish for your recovery.